Attitude or Kindness

[Ghengis Chron]

Do girls in the 18,19,20,21,22 age range tend to like nice guys more, or do they like the "bad ass" type guys who dont give a shit and are cocky?

I feel like girls my age tend to like the more cocky guys with attitudes than the guys that are genuinely nice and don't have as much as a "presence".

Girls tell me they like to be with guys who are "fun". that tends to be guys who have ADD and dont know when to shut up, but for some reason girls are attracted to that

Girls...your opinions??

I would say I'm rather in between. I am slightly cocky, yet i'm a kind person and I know when to shut up and not offend people.

[scagster]

I would just be yourself man. In my experience it's not worth it to not act like yourself and have someone like you, then find out later that it's not your real personality. While I'd say a lot of girls do seem to like the guys who are shitbags, it's better to have some patience and find someone who's right for you, instead of putting up a front and being let down.

[friendowl]

from what i know
girls at that age are competitive with each other
the guys they are interested in are the ones that get the chicks [players]
it seems that women are fascinated with the thought of taming a wild man
after sometime they realize its hopeless

then they follow the dollar around till death

[cutecalikitty]

friendowl, you have a gift for verse if nothing else .. even if you are somewhat misinformed ...

most women dont "chase the dollar til death" ... they chase the delusional dream that if they spend enough of time they can mold a man into some sick, twisted vision of what someone else told them he was supposed to be.

Thats why I stick with smokin' and enjoying what a man has to offer .. nice combo when you have just enough of both ;)

[Ghengis Chron]

I don't really have any real problem with it. I am who I am...and I'm content with who I am. I don't have the time for girls right now. I was just curious as to what most girls thought.

[Canadian_Cron]

depends on the girl.

[crudemood]

i prefer the nice guy. :)

[Mississippi Steve]

Child, it doesn't change when you get older...they just get more complicated, and they expect you to change when they latch on to you.

Just be yourself, and if they can't accept you for being yourself, then move on to another that will. Just remember that the really pretty ones know they are, and will use that to their advantage. Its not whats on the outside, but whats on the inside that counts. Don't get me wrong, its not a bad thing if they're easy on the eyes.....but personally I have always avoided the chearleaders and beauty queens because I am not into the games they play.

[beachguy in thongs]

I'd think that the girl who gets swept off her feet would go for him. It doesn't matter if he's nice or bad.

[kdspecial]

I think no matter what age Gurls like confidence ina boy/Man..

So be yourself with a bit of Ummmmfff.... Stanbd slightly taller but not too tall that your a showoff...

just my experiences, there have been so manny times where I would have had a better end result if I just showed a bit more of my confident side..

kd

[stinkyattic]

Confidence and kindness are not mutually exclusive... and true class is the ability to be BOTH at once.

[happiestmferoutthere]

Confidence and kindness are not mutually exclusive... and true class is the ability to be BOTH at once.
Absolutely! A real man knows when to be confident, and when to be kind. I think most women want to feel protected (not controlled or smothered) ,but they also want to be treated well. You can be both.