What do you think about this?

[geonagual]

Well, I have met a new girl in my life....just got off the phone with her...almost 5 hours of great random conversation..about meaningful things and a ton of useless things..which are my absolute favorite and hers too..
There is of course a little wierd part to all of this..our personalities are very, very similar..I could almost say pretty close to the same..our beliefs about things in life are a match in all aspects, she is a stoner and also a school teacher...I am very interested in seeing how this goes..
I have never had this happen to me in my entire life of meeting women so I think this is pretty exciting...cause no fronts were put up and everything was open..so, what do you think?


Edit: this makes post #4500...

[CanaDanKs Inc.]

I think you might have caught a nice fish there :cool:

Happy to hear it man, stories like that are golden rare! If you noticed some sparks...I say go ahead and feed the fire man, just don't let it burn down a whole county!

[geonagual]

posting after myself..sorry..see, I said it...but anyway, I guess my question is...what are the pitfalls with having to much in common with someone? it has never happened to me, so I dont know.

[geonagual]

I think you might have caught a nice fish there :cool:

Happy to hear it man, stories like that are golden rare! If you noticed some sparks...I say go ahead and feed the fire man, just don't let it burn down a whole county!


Thanks..I think it will work out nice actually..

I got a question for you though...how the hell did you become a glorious beacon of light before I did..I have over 4 times as many posts..lol

only 85 more though

[CanaDanKs Inc.]

Well man, you might fall in deep love and eventually fall in the fire pit if things don't work out. Really though, I'm sure I don't have to tell you what can go wrong in a relationship..

If the chemistry between you two is that strong, there's a good chance you might have met a very nice lady with whom you could stay with for a long time. I say don't even think about what could go wrong, just go for it and let the magic flow. No fronts? That's about the healthiest thing for a relationship, no doubts!

I say the more in common, the more exciting the relationship will be!

[CanaDanKs Inc.]

Thanks..I think it will work out nice actually..

I got a question for you though...how the hell did you become a glorious beacon of light before I did..I have over 4 times as many posts..lol

only 85 more though

Hhaaha, I don't know man, I guess I post a lot of comical stuff on here.. I like to make people laugh, perhaps they like that I make them laugh, and encourage me to keep doing it? It's like some kind of psychological conditioning

Fuck, now I feel like a whore.. I'm being used by the people!!

Bah fuck it, I love the people :jointsmile:

[geonagual]

Hhaaha, I don't know man, I guess I post a lot of comical stuff on here.. I like to make people laugh, perhaps they like that I make them laugh, and encourage me to keep doing it? It's like some kind of psychological conditioning

Fuck, now I feel like a whore.. I'm being used by the people!!

Bah fuck it, I love the people :jointsmile:


Yeah dude, you did get there quick..but after that advice you gave up there..that shit is well deserved..you post even crazier shit than I do..
most all of my reps have been for humor to..
didnt you say you can balance just about anything? You know I can juggle 3 of almost anything..that sounds like a show to me...that is how those guys down in Balboa Park on a Saturday or Sunday..all those tourists..they make a killing and play and fuck with people all day..

Now, all I would have to do is find time to juggle a few hours each day, make a routine and write jokes...see ya in a year:jointsmile:

[CanaDanKs Inc.]

Mwahahaha! I think you might be onto something there geo..
We could make something with ourselves man...we could, we could..

Damn we could own that dude that plays guitar with his toes
that guy is fucking freaky looking anyway!

[geonagual]

Mwahahaha! I think you might be onto something there geo..
We could make something with ourselves man...we could, we could..

Damn we could own that dude that plays guitar with his toes
that guy is fucking freaky looking anyway!


That guy dont stand a chance, we'll send his freaky ass back up to Venice beach. LOL

and the people that make the most cash are the ones that got jokes and play the crowd...how great would it be to whack some bald guy on the head with a rubber chicken and everyone fuckin' roll in the crowd about it..that shit would be classic

[CanaDanKs Inc.]

GeoMan,

I think you and I gotta head to Balboa someday, get faded, and fuck with some heads!

[geonagual]

I am down with that..

Now back to the regular scheduled programming

[Unknown American]

That is cool about the new girl you now have in your life.

I wish you all the success. Just follow your heart.

[4osiris]

Well, I have met a new girl in my life....just got off the phone with her...almost 5 hours of great random conversation..about meaningful things and a ton of useless things..which are my absolute favorite and hers too..
There is of course a little wierd part to all of this..our personalities are very, very similar..I could almost say pretty close to the same..our beliefs about things in life are a match in all aspects, she is a stoner and also a school teacher...I am very interested in seeing how this goes..
I have never had this happen to me in my entire life of meeting women so I think this is pretty exciting...cause no fronts were put up and everything was open..so, what do you think?


Edit: this makes post #4500...

Man, geo did you find you a flawless gem? 5 Hours of phone 'convo? Man, I can't even remember the last time I've talked to a girl that long on the phone. A school teacher? That makes for some excellent role playing, lol!
Nah. Just joking. Congratulations!

[higher4hockey]

swing for the fences mate!

there is nothing really wrong with having a whole lot in common with someone, the only drawback i see is that if you're not into different things, you sometimes don't get to learn as much from that person. for instance i dated a girl one time who was a huge art fan, and because of that i know a fair amount of art related stuff. but i figure as long as you're willing to make an effort to do new things together, then i think you'll be fine.

[420MissHighTimes420]

i think it sounds like you found a winner. being able to hold a converstation with someone for that long, and not be bored or fighting about something isnt easy to find. so congratz man she sounds like she deserves you :pimp:

[friendowl]

lucky bastard
school teachers are the best
they are creative and busy so they wont bug
shes a stoner [food sex laughs]
you deserve a good lady like that
if she likes geocaching ..marry her

[Hilder420]

She sounds awesome Geo... you deserve a good woman, and who better to make you happy than a fellow stoner chick! I hope its everything you want and if she hurts you, I will personally kick her ass!!!! :thumbsup:
and then make you feel better by smoking u out and makin food..

[Kryzco]

I think you found your match
Man I miss those long convos until wee hours of the morning, and not be tired
Its good to find common ground, its gives you a bond

[geonagual]

We went on our first date last night...went to P.F. Changs..she also brought her best friend, who likes P.F. Changs too..she asked me if it was cool, I said sure, it was cool with me if she brought her..at first I was a little nervous, 2 girls that I have first met..
So, at first I really didnt talk to much...finally it got loose and we were all laughing hysterically pretty much the rest of the night...went to a karaoke bar..had a few drinks...we are clicked..I think I only got about 2 hours of sleep last night..just chillin, enjoying each others company. we didnt have sex, I didnt want sex or either did she..not right now..We didnt even talk about it. We already have a ton of unspoken communications and that is tight. That is what I have been wanting. I see no end to this and either does she. I am really psyched right now.

[friendowl]

dont have sex for as long as you can
it will ruin everything
have fun

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[yoda]

the more you have in common, the better

[beachguy in thongs]

I think it's a scam, geo. Stoned school teachers don't go through life meeting women and think it's exciting. On the other hand, you didn't have an open front over any of the five hours of intercourse. I think, you better let friendowl call the shots, from here on out.

Does he have her number?

[geonagual]

I think it's a scam, geo. Stoned school teachers don't go through life meeting women and think it's exciting. On the other hand, you didn't have an open front over any of the five hours of intercourse. I think, you better let friendowl call the shots, from here on out.

Does he have her number?Now, only if I understood what you just wrote I would be set:wtf:

[CanaDanKs Inc.]

Beachguy got me confused as hell, as well

Well geo good to hear my man, and I definitely agree with friendowl
let the sex appeal build up as much as possible before you whip it out
but when you do, whip it smoother than the smoothest of whipped creams

sounds like ya got some good times ahead of ya :)

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

Having stuff in common is great. Papi is the male me. Or am I the female him? Either way, we finish each other's sentences, like the same freaky sex stuff, our hands are the same size, we had a similar upbringing etc. His clit is much much larger than mine though.

[geonagual]

Having stuff in common is great. Papi is the male me. Or am I the female him? Either way, we finish each other's sentences, like the same freaky sex stuff, our hands are the same size, we had a similar upbringing etc. His clit is much much larger than mine though.

That is exactly the way it is with this girl...I mean, we have almost everything in common...we have even said already that it is like talking to yourself..I am digging it, it feels like some shit from the twilight zone..you know what, I noticed last night that our hands are exactly the same size too.

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

There's something in the Bible (can't remember where) about a man and a woman being ideally suited if their arms are the same cubit length from shoulder to fingertip. I'll have to dig that up before it drives me crazy.

Anyhow, you probably knew each other in a different life. It's very cool. Roll with it. Enjoy it.

[geonagual]

We even had an encounter over 7 years ago..120 miles from where we live now...she bought a car from the dealership that I worked at and my desk was one away from the salesman that she had..I may have been 10 ft away from her...I think that is cool considering southern california has 20 million people.

[Hilder420]

That might have been The Fates trying to bring yall together...

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

That reminds me of that John Mayer song "Love Song for No One"

I could have met you in a sandbox
I could have passed you on the sidewalk
Could I have missed my chance
And watched you walk away?

[geonagual]

Well, here goes, I told you we are both alike in pretty much everything, even our thought processes...it is day 4 and we have decided that everything is too fast and we are both freakin...shit, we havent even had sex yet..it is crazy..we are thinking that we definitly should be in each others lives but maybe not on a romantic level..we are not sure, but one thing we know is that if it comes on to fast we both will run..it is hard because it is not really us making it come on fast, it is everything that we have in common and the things we do and say are so alike it is really wierd..maybe a game show? I dont know. LOL

[CanaDanKs Inc.]

Man... I suggest trying to feel her boobie areas to see if there's a machine gun hidden in there..

Hey if not you'll get to touch her boobs either way

It's a win win situation

[geonagual]

Man... I suggest trying to feel her boobie areas to see if there's a machine gun hidden in there..

Hey if not you'll get to touch her boobs either way

It's a win win situation

I already checked...no machine gun...maybe I should rip her face off and see if there is electronics and wires and shit under there.

[CanaDanKs Inc.]

Yea man, you should also do that

Let me know if ya need to borrow my best screwdriver

[geonagual]

Thanks...

I am sure with a few tweaks I could make her like the opposite of what I like, then I would really hate her. haha..I love this life.

[qdavid]

Having stuff in common is great. Papi is the male me. Or am I the female him? Either way, we finish each other's sentences, like the same freaky sex stuff, our hands are the same size, we had a similar upbringing etc. His clit is much much larger than mine though.

This is sort of off subject, not really a hijack, more just extraneous bullshit, sorry. But when I was in the military, I had this gunnery sergeant instructor who called me Pappy all the time. I don't know if it's because I was the oldest one in the class or he thought I looked like Popeye's father. I think he meant it to try and piss me off but actually I couldn't have cared less what he called me and I think that pissed him off.

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

You know what Geo? You and this chick are thinking too much. Just let it happen. Damn potheads, always overanalyzing shit. Repeat after me: LOVE IS GOOD. YOU DON'T NEED TO RUN FROM IT. Whether it's Eros or Agape, it's good. Try some.;)

[geonagual]

Well, since this is my last day on here for awhile..thought I would update this thread....I was over this girls house helping her clean her house she just moved out of..I voluteered...her friend was being a moody...I was a little uncomfortable, then the girl that I am seeing, comes in and we are talking and she says "I cant handle you right now" and she leaves..I hear both of them upstairs laughing...blah, blah, blah...so I am downstairs with a paint brush in my hand and I am thinking "I should just leave right now" knowing that this will pretty much fuck everything up between me and this girl...I debated, debated some more and went and got in my truck and left without saying a word...she came out as I was leaving and I waved goodbye...I think I am really starting to have some relationship issues..

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

What the heck did that mean "I can't handle you right now?"

[geonagual]

What the heck did that mean "I can't handle you right now?"

I am not sure..I was telling the story about what me and cana danks did yesterday on our little adventure...just some of the stuff we did..and she broke out that...I just thought to myself "WTF"...

[geonagual]

Honestly, we are alike in many ways...but she dosent share the same love as I do for the outdoors, so I already knew it would not work...cause that is truly what I am...a person of nature and hiking...I think I need someone who is my partner to be in tune with that..do you think I am asking to much?

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

No, I don't think so. Damn, I wish you weren't moving. Leave your puter out as long as you can, or check in from a friend's house. Being a nature oriented person is definitely something you shouldn't compromise on. I'm a nature nut, and Papi and I wouldn't be married if he wasn't also. We love camping and hiking and fishing. It's very spiritual.

[geonagual]

No, I don't think so. Damn, I wish you weren't moving. Leave your puter out as long as you can, or check in from a friend's house. Being a nature oriented person is definitely something you shouldn't compromise on. I'm a nature nut, and Papi and I wouldn't be married if he wasn't also. We love camping and hiking and fishing. It's very spiritual.

Thanks Ms. Greenjeans...I really appreciate your input on all of this..this morning I am not feeling what I did was good..I imagine it was a preemtive (sp?) measure to save both of our hearts before it got to serious and then we both decide that it wont work..who knows? I may have made the wrong decision..but it was my decision none the less and I will have to take it for what it is..Peace to you and Papi and I will talk to you soon.

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

I have to say though, just taking off like that wasn't very chivalrous of you. I believe a phone call is in order, if only to say "You know, I have some thinking to do."

[geonagual]

I have to say though, just taking off like that wasn't very chivalrous of you. I believe a phone call is in order, if only to say "You know, I have some thinking to do."


We did talk after I left...I would never let it just stand like that...I just knew if I left like that there was no turning back..it was pretty shitty and I knew down deep how it would make me feel..with the embarrassment of it..

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

Good on you! You are such a sweetie!

[THClord]

I'm in the same situation geo. I gave this girl a ride from Irvine to UCSD. We were both completely open and it was an amazing conversation. 1 hour long in my case. Funny thing is, I only knew her for an hour when I offered the ride. It was like 10 hours after our meeting that she called me and asked me for the ride. And 14 hours after we first met I had already met her mom and her roomates. And now I have to wait a whole week until I can meet with her again cuz of midterms....... it's killing me.

[beachguy in thongs]

Geo, it looks like it's time for you to try the "sympathy path". Explain to her how herpes simplex #3 keeps you from enjoying life.

[geonagual]

Geo, it looks like it's time for you to try the "sympathy path". Explain to her how herpes simplex #3 keeps you from enjoying life.

Did you get that from Beverly hills cop..haha

My paths have been exhausted and have just decided that we will just be friends...definiltley the safest route

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

ARGH. The kindler, gentler Mrs. G fails again.

[geonagual]

ARGH. The kindler, gentler Mrs. G fails again.


You did your best...lol

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

<font="James Ingram"> I did my beeeessst, but I guess my best wasn't good enough, cause here we are back where we were before...</font>

Name that tune and I'll bake you some "special" cookies.

I'm sorry hon. Did you at least get a handjob, or a really good schooteacher-with-a-long-skirt fantasy?

[geonagual]

Shaking up is hard to do...


No..no hand job. LOL..
A couple make out sessions and some light groping...that is about it....it is, what it is...

[geonagual]

Damn, I wanted those cookies...I always like to continue and try and finish all my threads if possible...I still talk to this girl kinda..for the past few weeks I have been the only one to initiate contact with her..all of her responses have been real short and of no real substance...I really felt like she didnt want to talk to me anymore...whenever i would say something to that fact she says "why you trippin on me"...so today..this morning..I just told her that I am always the one to initiate contact and if she ever wants to talk to me or whatever just to give me a call..I also told her that I definitely think about her to much and although we didnt have much, that I guess it was enough for me to still get over...

[beachguy in thongs]

My paths have been exhausted The paths aren't getting wider, either.

and have just decided that we will just be friends...definiltley the safest route

That one path may get wider, while you wait. You better hurry.


Did you get that from Beverly hills cop..haha

No, but I saw that movie, in 1984 (?). What part, and, what part of my sentence is a line from that movie?

[beachguy in thongs]

I got the "Simplex #3" part, a long time ago, from my cousin, who must've taken it from Beverly Hills Cop, maybe.