Woman Beater

[blazed620]

So the other night, I pull into the driveway from a night of smoking and getting fucked up. I pass this girl on a bicicyle. Whenever I step out she is right there. I'd say shes about 25 to 30 years old. She's like..."I know you don't know me, but I see you here all the time...I live just down the road, and this is hard for me to ask you, but my boyfriend just beat the crap out of me, and i need a ride to a friends house before he finds me again."

I was like...wtf?? I said hold on..im gonna go tell my dad I'm leaving...I walk in the house and he's asleep in his chair..so im like fuck it. I go back outside, and she's crouching down beside my truck. She's like..sorry..i don't want him to drive by and see me. Then she asks if i can put the bicicyle in the back of my truck cuz she is too sore to lift it. I was like yeah..so i put it in the back and shut the tailgate. She said she took off on her sons bike to get out of there.

So we get in the truck, and were driving down the road, and she's like...can you turn on the light so i can see how bad my face is?? So i turn on the light, and DAMN...this girl is fucked up.. She has 2 black eyes, and a fat bloody lip, and a bruised up face. She starts talking to me about how everything happened..and how he was drunk and started getting violent. I asked her how come she didn't call the police..and she said it was because she was afraid he would kill her.. At one point she said that he had a knife out..like he was gonna stab her with it. And he also tried hitting her with his truck! I didn't know what to do...she was telling me directions to get to her friends house. I didn't know if I should take her to the police station...or if I should get some people or just go down there myself to where her boyfriend was with a baseball bat and let the mother fucker have it...i just didn't know.

So...i wound up taking her to her friends house..which was just a few minutes from my house. I helped her out, and got the bike out for her, and she thanked me and left. It was soo fucked up....i mean you don't expect shit like that to happen..i was kinda hoping that she would stop by my house sometime to thank me again..that way i know she's still alrite..but..thats never happened. I just hate guys that beat up women...I shoulda called some people and went and beat the fuck outta that guy that night..but...i didn't think of it at the time..it all happened to fast..But neway.....thats about it.. Shit was Crazy

[ghosty]

Jesus man, thats a hell of a story... I'd probably have made sure she reported the guy to the police, but I suppose there's only so much you can do without causing yourself trouble. I mean sure we'd all like to take a swing at a guy like that, but it could end up just causing more trouble. Hopefully that incident made her realize to never go back to that guy and hopefully her friend helped her out and perhaps took her in so she could get away from that douchebag.

[Stemis516]

ya bro, you did a good deed no doubt, but you have a duty to report that shit to the police

[Chronisseur]

Nest time you need to pick up your phone and dial 1-(800)-Chronisseur.
I'm not the type to take sides or get involved in peoples buisness but that species needs to be exterminated. It was very nice of you to help, dont get me wrong, but Chron tends to jeoporadize himself due to an uncontrollable urge to rid the earth of scummy fucks like that!
Also, if you didnt bury the dude, it's possible HER life could get worse, so that was maybe the best thing to do.

...Chron's also in rare form today and would absolutely love to let his agression out on the right 'person'.

[The Dude Of Life]

one of my friends had the same sort of situation, but he happened to be a pretty big dude and not someone to be fucked with, also had all sorts of hate for woman beaters, apparently they knocked some sense into the dude and he left town... thats not always waht will happen but when a guy like this gets wind of some abuse they will give it right back. im not sure exactly what you can do, because if you anonymously tip off the police or something, if he is indeed serious, he could kill her. dont even know what to tell you buddy, all you can do is wait next time it happens and actually physically take her to the police station, then theres nothing he can do to her because because she is in police custody.
good luck.

[Gandalf_The_Grey]

Yep, it's time's like that I want to start pruning the human gene pool... a little chlorine if you will. It's probably from being bullied so much in high school myself, but nothing makes me lose it like guys who beat up women and kids. I don't think I'd even be able to control myself if I ever saw some guy smacking his girlfriend around.

That being said.... nah I can't recommend death, much as I'm itchin' to, but yeah call the cops of a social worker and have them haul that asshole away. She's got more than enough marks on her to prove it.

[Chronisseur]

That being said.... nah I can't recommend death, much as I'm itchin' to, but yeah call the cops of a social worker and have them haul that asshole away. She's got more than enough marks on her to prove it.

Props to a level head:thumbsup:

[stars stars stars]

Where's her son, do you know by any chance?

I hope the poor girl's alright. :(

I understand why you didn't call the cops though; you still have that option.

Maybe go to her friends and just say "Hey, I dropped (so and so) off here the other day and was just wondering if she's okay"

You definitely did a good deed, hon.

[Nightcrewman]

If the facts are as you stated then you have no choice but to report it to the police if you don't then it's a license for him to do it again and again and he will.


NCM

[Markass]

Gotta love alcohol....Hopefully the chick will be smart and not stick around..

I would've had her show me where he lived..Anyone who's willing to beat a woman, is about as low as you can be to me...I don't care if you were drunk or not, I drink all the time and I would never even consider putting my hands on a woman..

you did the right thing by helping her out :thumbsup:

[slipknotpsycho]

eye for an eye leaves everybody blind....

not that i actually beleive that, but in this situation, taking justice in your own hands would only make things worse... if he's done that just becuase he was drunk, what do you think he'd do once he found out she went and told complete strangers what happened, and he suffered a beating becuase of it? she'd probably end up being beaten like 5x worse...

and taking her to the police? ok i'll tell you what would happen... they'd see the evidence of what happened, and in most states whether she wants to press charges or not, he will go to jail... for that night and MAYBE just MAYBE get a restraining order.. which is also useless unless she would call the cops if he violated it, or beat her again in which the police got involved yet again (her being volunary or not), then he might get a court date, be up for a max of 10k bail and be right back out...

as sad as it is, sometimes you do have to think ahead and realize the justice system doesn't always work... it works fewer times then it does work actually... so you have to think about her, and what she will be facing once he's once again free...

so i'd say you made the right decision... perhaps you could talk to her more and convince her of what can happen if she doens't do something soon... but otehr then that, it's out fo your control....

[beachguy in thongs]

If I saw someone who just got their ass kicked, especially a woman, I'd contact the authorities because they can legally kick his ass. Maybe, he wouldn't be able to post bail. In some states, you don't get any of your money back. He'd have to go to court, sooner or later. At least something's being done.

[crudemood]

Props to a level head:thumbsup:


Nest time you need to pick up your phone and dial 1-(800)-Chronisseur.
I'm not the type to take sides or get involved in peoples buisness but that species needs to be exterminated. It was very nice of you to help, dont get me wrong, but Chron tends to jeoporadize himself due to an uncontrollable urge to rid the earth of scummy fucks like that!
Also, if you didnt bury the dude, it's possible HER life could get worse, so that was maybe the best thing to do.

...Chron's also in rare form today and would absolutely love to let his agression out on the right 'person'.

HAHA. Do you watch dexter? You are acting exactly like him. lol. needing to satisfy this urge. nice :)

[slipknotpsycho]

i guess tha'ts where we part views... i'd love to have them all locked up... but atleast in my state, someone who's been found to of particpated in domestic violence, whehter they admit or not, or whether the victim would like to press charges, are given just a night in jail and sometimes a restraining order.. fi the woman doens't want to seperate herself from the situation, she will be right back with the guy the next day... in which he's liable to get even more violent....

opinoin will probably differ from state to state considering laws are diffrent, but around here, law care a good 3-5x more about drunk drivers then domestic assault... if you want a national comparison on how such things are dealt with, think about the extremely rich people who are later found to of engaged in fraud.... tehre's just a lot of talk, and hte possiblity for srong punishment, but the judge/jury just doens't care enough to do anything major about it....

btw, if you're wondering how i know so well what happens, it's because my uncle is a lunatic, there's never been one woman he's been with that he hasn't beaten so bad it's amazing they escaped severe injury.... and even with this tract record (he's neither rich or powerful, fame wise either) all that really happens is he goes to jail for the night and he's out and back with that woman the next day... til a week or two later when he does it again and gets the same thing....

BUT he's spent about half his life in prison from drunk driving...

trust me, i actually know what i'm talking about... i woudln't claim things in such detail if i didn't...

[beachguy in thongs]

Well, either way, it's his word against hers. If she was brought straight to the police station, at least her injuries would be documented.

[slipknotpsycho]

Well, either way, it's his word against hers. If she was brought straight to the police station, at least her injuries would be documented.

that's the problem tho =/ atleast here, even with proof, they don't do anything about it...

i do understnad what you're saying, and things are likely diffrent from where you're at, i was just saying what happens here =/ texas has alooooooooot of screwed up laws....

shit =/ my brothers killer got 2 years meanwhile later on, texas tried and HAS sought the death penalty for predators....

now i don't really care about the punishment for them, for me the worse the better.... but to me, that's telling me they want to offer down justified punishments to predators, while they don't care about murderers...

that same thing goes with wife beaters and drugs... get involved in just a hand to hand domestic dispute, and you''ll be out the very next day, (it's not til afte ryou come back that they will look into bail) basicly just a warning, yet for a half a gram you can spend the night in jail, get over 3,000 in fines and court costs (excluding lawyer) lose your liscense among others things....

[beachguy in thongs]

My girlfriend was sexually assaulted, here, and, someone else called the police for a domestic disturbance, after I found out. The police came and, in the end, he was let off of the charges. He did have to bail himself out of jail, and get a court-provided lawyer (I forgot the name of them). When the police showed up, they found beer in his cart, and, because of that, he was fired, evicted, and, isn't allowed on the property, anymore (which may be because of the sexual assault allegations). The judge would have to believe her story over his, and, I think that pictures from the police station would be the clincher.

My girlfriend wasn't hurt and had none.

[Storm Crow]

I've lost track of how many I've either sheltered or driven to shelter. :( As a woman, I can only say thank you so much for helping her, Blazed! May everyone give you good Karma for your mercy.

Sadly, she likely went back. Get a bicycle, and bike around every day. The exercise will do you good and you will have a better chance of spotting her again. - Granny:hippy:

[Chronisseur]

Crudemood: Nope, never seen Dexter but have heard it's an 'interesting' show to say the least. I'm FAR from a violent person, but for a man to inflict pain on a woman or child is putting the last nail in his own casket.

Slip: I couldnt agree more that our judicial system has failed us in many ways. As much as I like the sound of 'an eye for an eye leaves everyone blind', I cannot seem to understand that, when I'm already blinded by my own hatred.

As a civilation, I feel we are responsible for this big fucking mess of unguided youth, and without powerful examples to learn from, I'm afraid nothing will change.

Another thing I'd like to bring up that I'm surprised nobody's mentioned: LADIES, BE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOURSELVES! I would NEVER place blame on a victim of abuse. I would however place the responsability to respect and honor ones self, and LEAVE THAT SITUATION FAR BEHIND!.......another fine example of why we should only fear, FEAR.

[Chronisseur]

It really is sad.....some women just have to be told to do something twice........:D

Is that funny to you? I for one am fucking disgusted...NOT COOL!

[Diary of a Madman]

Honestly (all jokes aside), I wouldnt waste a second worrying about her......you gave her a ride, thats reasonable and a good deed in itself.....but we all know whats gonna happen.....She would bail out on the douche bag if she was going to, she's playing the revolving door game. She's one of those people who go back again and again to one of these scumbags because she would rather do that then make it on her own? Ladies, dont get pissed at me, here let me try to explain better.

You will be at the police station wasting time out of your day. She will say she doesnt want to press charges, she will be living back with that guy tomorrow, then you will have a new enemy (I mean, its not like he's gonna go to your parents house and kick your ass, but if you were on your own, like in an apartment complex, you would have a new enemy). you will have spent all of this time and energy, to watch them reunite.

This all happened to me. Arab dude below me in my last apt fought with girlfriend all the time. They were outside, and the guy swung his child in a car seat into my car (that was the last fucking straw).......they werent punching or anything, but I called the cops....they came and arrested the dude. Knock at my door 30 min later, she wants to use my phone, to arrange bail for her husband........meanwhile, her 3 hacking and coughing children that arent car seat age are pilfering through my apt, giving me the Mayport whooping cough. I was pissed at this stupid woman.......then I thought, "gas grass or ass, no battered women use this phone for free"......just kidding, damn you guys are so serious.

[Diary of a Madman]

Is that funny to you? I for one am fucking disgusted...NOT COOL!

oh deer god........WHAH........dude, you are the rennaisance man, that is so hip, im glad that you are so sensative.

This shit gets really old, Im not going to defend myself every time somebody that wants to be perceived as "caring so much more than everyone else"....wants to let me know Im a neanderthal. I already know......grow up.....not going to explain I dont advocate beating women.

NOT COOL. Did you wake up this morning, and spend 30 minutes figuring out which colored ribbon you were gonna wear to let eveyone know you care more than them??? (should I wear cancer with support our troops? or aids with free palestein?)

Yes, it was funny to me. I laughed my ass off knowing one of YOU would pop your head up to say "you know, I think that you shouldnt beat women, thats NOT COOL".

[Psycho4Bud]

Yes, it was funny to me. I laughed my ass off knowing one of YOU would pop your head up to say "you know, I think that you shouldnt beat women, thats NOT COOL".

Here's another laugh.........WELCOME to Club Gitmo for CC abusers. Your constant pursuit of a ban has granted you EXTRA time at our exclusive resort. Enjoy the complimentory breakfast and be sure to take advantage of the water sports.:thumbsup:

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[Chronisseur]

oh deer god........WHAH........dude, you are the rennaisance man, that is so hip, im glad that you are so sensative.

This shit gets really old, Im not going to defend myself every time somebody that wants to be perceived as "caring so much more than everyone else"....wants to let me know Im a neanderthal. I already know......grow up.....not going to explain I dont advocate beating women.

NOT COOL. Did you wake up this morning, and spend 30 minutes figuring out which colored ribbon you were gonna wear to let eveyone know you care more than them??? (should I wear cancer with support our troops? or aids with free palestein?)

Yes, it was funny to me. I laughed my ass off knowing one of YOU would pop your head up to say "you know, I think that you shouldnt beat women, thats NOT COOL".

Oh, I'm sorry. I didnt MEAN to be raised with morals and values. My bad.

[stinkyattic]

Diary of a Madman, last week I gave you only a warning on one of your sarcastically racist, and rudely witty, posts, that would EASILY have been good for a ban especially with your long history... I asked very plainly that you avoid posting shit that could be taken as bigotry.
I think you really don't need to be spending any more time here on canncom.

[geonagual]

I would of insisted that she go to the hospital for her injuries...once there the ball would of rolled back to that shitheads house...now, on the other hand, if that was one of my friends or family..I would deal with his drunk ass directly..it would not be pretty either..he would've wished the cops came.

[ghosty]

Here's another laugh.........WELCOME to Club Gitmo for CC abusers. Your constant pursuit of a ban has granted you EXTRA time at our exclusive resort. Enjoy the complimentory breakfast and be sure to take advantage of the water sports.:thumbsup:

Have a good one!:jointsmile:


Diary of a Madman, last week I gave you only a warning on one of your sarcastically racist, and rudely witty, posts, that would EASILY have been good for a ban especially with your long history... I asked very plainly that you avoid posting shit that could be taken as bigotry.
I think you really don't need to be spending any more time here on canncom.

Good riddance, that dude always kinda pissed me off, seemed the type to instigate those situations, and his av was unpleasant to look at

[geonagual]

To the OP...did you ever find out anything about her after that?

[blazed620]

To the OP...did you ever find out anything about her after that?

nope..sure haven't...i can only hope she didn't go back to him...and that she's alrite...thanks for all the replys ppl

[The Dude Of Life]

Its just one of those things i cant comprehend. i could NEVER imagine swinging my fists at a woman. Its incomprehensible to me that someone could do that, not only once but as a habit. Guy must have a small dick or something... indicates some underlying personal issues and insecurities.
Thats not to say ive never laid a hand on a girl, ive had a drunk girl attack me before and i would never hit a girl, but if some girls attacking me i will restrain her and get her off of me. no reason to let someone hit you needlessly. and please dont ban me I DO NOT ADVOCATE WOMAN BEATING! i just advocate restraint of crazy people if need be. by restraint i mean basically a bear hug. lol.

[Cocoflava]

i woulda done the same man.. you cant get to involved.. you did a good thing man.. hopefully shes alright.

-Wil