Parents:advice needed

[Reminissions]

So on Friday night my friend called me up and told me he rented harold and kumar go to white castle and to go over there and watch it, i asked my mom if i could go and she said yes and let me go and told me to be home at 10, she also said she would smell my breath to see if i smoked when i got home. I went over there watched the movie and came back home, she smelled my breath and told me i smoked, so did my dad, well my mom jumped on me and started beating the shit outta me, so i grabbed my coat and left, i went to a friends house till one in the morning, i came back and well, my parents just started bitching at me saying that i would never amount to anything and im just a junkie loser and that they wished that they never had me, while they were bitching i guess my dad had enough so he picked up the tv remote and threw it at my head at like a hundered mph he hit me in the head with it and i went down, o no he didnt stop at that he proceeded to get up and beat the shit out of me while i was on the ground, of course im not going to get up and punch him back cuz that would just make the matter worse, but they said i could move out and that they dont give a fuck anymore, now im torn between two things i could move to my friends house and pay him 100 bux a month to stay there or i could stay home and deal with this bullshit. im just not shure what to do right now, it feeels as if my soul was torn out and trampled on. Like i said in posts before i told them i smoke pot but they hate it they are just too ignorant to accept it.

[chris420]

dude just let ur parents know that pot isnt affecting ur life in any way.. keep ur grades up, dont just bum out. by keeping ur grades up itll make ur parents think about it with more of a open mind. but yeah its true that there r people way to closed minded about grass.. talk to ur parents and let them know that ur not doing any other drug and give em some real facts about ganja

[Reminissions]

i tried showing them facts and such but that didnt help, my dad replied with this statement " You can go online and find a wed site saying that being gay is good cuz u have a clean colon but it doesnt mean its right you piece of shit loser" those are preatty much his exact words.

[soldier1944]

your dad is an asshole

[Hektik]

I say move out, and before you leave give your dad a 2 piece and a biscuit :D

[Jimmicrackedcorn]

NO no NO,
Fuck that, they have gone beyond reason, your dad beat the fuck out of you for the substances you choose to put in your body, he didn't try and understand why you do it, but instead selfishly flung a remote at your head to hurt you..........and then proceeded to beat the shit out of you while your mother looked on, almost saying she thought that u deserved that treatment for your heinous crime of being a 'junkie'. I disagree with chris about trying to get them to understand about how weed isn't that bad and educating them on the scientific basis that weed in comparison to other psychoactives pales in comparison on effect:side effect ratio. The main active constituent of cannabis, THC, has a guesstimated LD50 (the dose at which half the test subjects died) it's monumentally high. The therapeutic index of THC is a ratio of 1:40,000, one being the amount needed to achieve a high, and 40,000 being the amount required to overdose, apart from this, the history of marijuana use stems way way back, several thousand years of usage and not 1 recorded fatality that has occured directly from overdose, sure sum ppl hav gotten so battered that they may have wrapped there car around a tree, or stumbled over a cliff (dunno how this would happen, personally). Your parents haven't a fucking clue what they are talking about, and you shouldn't waste your time 'respecting' these ignorant shitheads, who must think they know the answers to the universe to justify beating the fuck out of you for smoking some weed. It must be a really shit time for you, how the ppl you thought would never do you wrong in life, ure parents, betray your trust over something they don't understand, you could educate and try and help them understand which, over time would eventually happen with all the scientific evidence supporting the uses of cannabis, of which they couldn't turn a blind eye too, and then they would come around and everythin will go back to happy families. But it still happened, they said they don't give a fuck about there son/daughter, they kicked the shit out of you, and shredded any support they may have given you in the past by saying that you won't amount to 'much', 'much' obviously being what they are, ignorant bastards, who despise any1 who doesn't share there viewpoint, a very good example of humanity as it stands throughout history. If I were you (and could afford it) I would move out, just because they are your parents gives them no right to think they are better than you, they may be older and know how to set up a mortgage, pay bills, etc. but all of this does not make you better than the man living on the street. In the eyes of society, yes you are a success, but as this example of selfishness and misunderstanding has proven, they are no better than the man who didn't amount to 'much', they are close minded fuck ups trying to physically force there opinions on you (an opinion without basis) so to put it bluntly
GO BOLLOX.
Assess the situation, don't look at them as your parents, just as ppl, would you rather live with people who you can't be yourself around due to fear and moral obligation? or would you rather go sumwhere where you can be who you wanna be?
So which would you be happier in?
Remember, its you who has to live your life.

[silentbob9898]

dude if you can i would suggest moving out

[florida boy 3]

get your own place, tell your parents do not come around untill they respect you for who you are. it may be tough being on your own, but you can't let them mistreat you like that.

[Jimmicrackedcorn]

it appears I may have fucked up the figures with the therapeutic index, they are pretty different dependent upon the source, but one thing for certain is that it is over 1:10,000, alcohol has a T.I. of about 1:4

http://www.geocities.com/Area51/Hollow/9741/lethal.html

http://www.walnet.org/rosebud/ancienthistory.html

http://www.geocities.com/cannabinoidscience/General.html

[Nullific]

Fuck paying them rent or anything, if you have marks from this incident take pictures and sue them, depending on your age of course. Don't be worried about getting in trouble with the law or anything, they accused you of smoking doesn't mean that you were and it definately should not have resulted in abuse.

If you're 16 or older look into your state/counties emancipation laws.

[larry]

That is fucked up.
I would say press charges if you cant resolve it right away.
Why the hell would your dad beat you up? :confused:

[freespirit89]

Fuck paying them rent or anything, if you have marks from this incident take pictures and sue them, depending on your age of course. Don't be worried about getting in trouble with the law or anything, they accused you of smoking doesn't mean that you were and it definately should not have resulted in abuse.

If you're 16 or older look into your state/counties emancipation laws.

you took the words right out of my mouth man!

[Syrus]

Serioulsy, how can anyone be barbaric to there own child? What ever happened to being a civilised nation. Tell your dad from me that hes a hypotriticle empowering bully who thinks he should be in charge of evrything and if i ever see him in the street i will spit on him.

Incase you havent guesed im against violence, espicaly against family members, theres no fuckngi point to it.

But anyway follow Nullific's advise, the best thing to do really.

[imagoober]

dude that suck! hope your ok, i think you should definetly move out and you should involve the authoritys, there no way they should get away with that, JUST dont go to the authoritys high! i dont know what you think of you dad maybee you should stand up to him, or get friends to bet his ass cause he needs it if i was in cleveland i would do that for you! tell him you want nothing to do with him and maybe you never talk to him again or he'll decide later he was stupid and he'll come to you. i think you understand what im trying to say this will effect the rest of you life.

[kraloth]

i say fuck it man if it were my dad id learn martian arts and kill him but i hate my alcoholic dad (im drunk right now) but if i were u id learn martial arts for a luagh and then if my dad namely urs id just get him to the flour not hit him just get him into a position like some kind submission hold or id somehow become a god and torture him for all of time but i wish i were high but i gave the last of my pot away ??? i think i was high and pissed enyway bye bye 9m off to get a drink

[koshea]

dude, if you are atleast..peobally 14-15, you can become legaly emacipated if you have abusive or unfit parents, and basically your parents have to give you a portion of their paychecks and u can get an apartment or something

[Reminissions]

thankx for the advice guys, im 16 and yea i do have bruises (sp?) i have a huge one on the left side right under my armpit were my ribs are and that one shure as hell hurts like fuk, but yea your advice is good and all but as of yet im not shure what im going to do, i have to say all the shit he said to me hurt me more than the beating, and if im emancipated what does that mean? im sorry but im just not shure, is that like i no longer am obligated to be with them till im 18 or what?

[Jimmicrackedcorn]

It means even though you are under 18, u r legally an adult and no longer under your parents care, but they have to giv you payments, like that episode in the simpsons.

[stonerboy40k]

That actually sounds like somthing my parents would do if they found out.
definatly get out of there

[Not Enough Herb]

get out and sue ur asshole parents.

when my rents hit me i swing right back. i dont liek fighting but i dont like being hit either.

later

[kr1Nx01]

sounds like your dad's the type to lecture about pot and abuse the fuck out of you, and drink a 12 pack afterwords thinking he's the man for punishing his child with his fists (...and a remote) for doing "drugs"

get the fuck out of that house for your own sake. and press charges on the prick for everyone else's sake. don't get me wrong, punishment isn't a bad thing, sometimes it's nessecary, but BEATING YOUR KID is the lowest shite imaginable.

[doctor G]

I am parent, grand parent, smoker, human.
What your parents did is not right or legal.16 is old enough to be emancipated. SEE A LAWYER NO MATTER how old you are that kind of behavior is NOT ONLY WRONG but ILLEGAL. YOU ARE NOT PROPERTY! YOU ARE HUMAN. You may be making a choice they disagree with, you may be making choices that have serious legal ramifications BUT THAT IS NO REASON TO ABUSE YOU!
DO NOT STAY IN THAT HOUSE. VIOLENCE BREEDS VIOLENCE. Please dear GOD Get out. Not matter how young you are, find another way to deal with their ignorance. I left home at 15 because my alcoholic father was emotionally abusive. We did tussle occasionally and I tried to throw him out a 2nd story window. DO NOT CONTINUE TO ALLOW THE ABUSE TO CONTINUE. While you make be making a stupid choice to smoke at a very young age that is no justification for abuse. If it's not smoking they will abuse you for some thing else. Dear God Get Out!! Please, while you still have all your fingers and toes and before you learn that violence is the way to inflict your will on others. YOU ARE NOT PROPERTY, You have VALUE. If they disagree with you the correct way to resolve it is to talk, not to hit. GET OUT. Take a break. You sound like you are school age, bring your school nurse into this. Get the law involved. While this may sound stupid ( the law I mean ) a Sheriff can protect you while you collect your goods. You can be assigned to a SANE foster home, THERE ARE OPTIONS. Yes it sounds like you can make it on your own but having that safety net is very handy if you get sick. If you want to try to work it out with them get a counseler involved, some one to stop the fights before they turn violent, and a witness to the insanity.
GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT
Please while your soul is still clear. Please NOW while you can, before they break your legs to keep you from running you DESERVE BETTER!!
Doctor G. Parent, Grandparent, Friend of youth.

[KennabisCranium]

Your parents said they wish they never had you. But you haven't really given them a reason to think that.

PRESS CHARGES against your abusive parents.

then when they're getting booked downtown they can wish they never had you for a good reason... because you're putting them in jail where they belong.

I tell you this from experience of being raised by an abusive father. I'm almost 39 and I have way too much anger inside of me because of how I was physically abused as a child.

[Epic]

If I were you I would have stabbed my dad to death. How the fuck do they get off telling you that you are a bad person when they are assaulting a minor? O.o Blows me the fuck away.

[Delta9]

I think you need a drink.

[sugarmagnolia]

hmmm.... dont' even bother thinking about it. nature will sort it out. u cant' decide what will happen so u might as well not try molding a brick.

[vonseymour]

man your dad is shit and your mum letting him do it well thats just as bad im a mother of two and if my partner ever did that to my kid i would kill him your parents should except you smoking a bit of weed aint that bad you could be doing far worse im only 27 and aheavy smoker and i dont want my kids to smoke but i have to respect there choices and so should your parents please please press charges but get the fuck away from them before they screw your head up

[RedRainDrop]

My dad threatens to beat me because of drug use, but i just tell him ill knock him the fuck out if he touches me, my dads an alcoholic.

[F L E S H]

Your parents are psychotic, and if I were you I would get the fuck away from them ASAP, if not I'd beat them with my bare hands.

What they did was crazy over the top, and you don't need to deal with that shit. I'm sorry to hear there are parents like that still around, it sickens me to death.

There's no point in reasoning with people like that, just pack up and leave, and tell them "see you in hell, assholes" cause that's all they deserve for the shit they did and said to you.

[doctor G]

YO Dude,
Talk to us!! Did you get out? Are you OK?? Let us know how you are doing, we are worried about you!!
Doctor G

[Reminissions]

well i am still at my house but plans have been made for me to move out,(without my parents knowing), im moving to a friends house cuz his mom dont care if i move in and i still need to buy a car but i think my friend is gunna hook me up with a car cuz his dad owns a dealership, i offered to pay my friends mom rent but she refused even took it as an insult lol, im going to probably get some peice of shit car for like 200 bux, it beats not having one but hey things are actually kinda lookin up now i think? :confused: :rolleyes:, o and im only saying goodbye to my parents through a note im not shure i want to be around when they find out im moving out lol

[Encatuse]

Don't go to the police, that would be silly. But if your mom and dad were seriously beating the shit out of you, well, sounds like they need some weed themselves. Or at least a stiff drink. It would have been understandable if they'd have grounded you or something, but hitting you tossing a remote at you? You need to break all their shit when they're gone. I'm talking everything, and then just move the fuck out. If those aren't options, I suppose you could goto the police. But I assure you, living with a foster family will probably be even shittier. Just lock yourself in your room until they calm the fuck down, threatening to call the police if they ever touch you that way again. Print shit out like the punishments for beating one's child in your state etcetera. Make copies, tape them all over the fucking house. Make sure they know you're dead fucking serious that if they ever hurt you again you're getting the fuck out of there, and they will BOTH be in jail for the next couple of years.

[Encatuse]

And man.. you can't just leave and move in with your friend unless you're 18+ or emancipated... otherwise they'll call the cops and your friends mom will be put in jail. It sucks, but it's our justice system. Don't put your friends mom at risk like that, she sounds wonderful.