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GreenGiant07
10-02-2007, 06:26 PM
All this time on this world and only in the last month have I actually started to feel love. There is this girl I'm friends with, I can't get her out of my head, she gives me a reason to get up in the morning, just to see her smile lets me go through my day without difficulty, but too long without seeing her and I begin to fall apart.

I only see her for a little over an hour a day and it feels as though I'm almost invisible to her, I've never felt this way, ever. Not a crush, a physical attraction, nothing, and now these feelings are flooding over.

I'm a mess without her, I can't eat, can't work, can't sleep, I can barely function, when I'm not around her, I feel like I am nothing, but when I'm alone with her..I just can't describe it, is this love?
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10-02-2007, 07:08 PM
It's lust.

You don't fall in love within a month, at least in my opinion. I think you really need to take a breath and calm down, you're obsessing over a female which is never good. I'm sure she appreciates your feelings for her though, have you told her how you feel? If not, maybe that would help.
LuckyG
10-02-2007, 07:11 PM
I hate to burst your bubble, but it's called infatuation, actually. Being so dependent on someone isn't healthy either. Learn to love yourself, it can be much more rewarding. :)
GreenGiant07
10-02-2007, 07:14 PM
Maybe it is lust, frankly I don't know.

These feelings kinda came ain't went over a period of a year, only in the last month have they been constant
GreenGiant07
10-02-2007, 07:30 PM
It's lust.

You don't fall in love within a month, at least in my opinion. I think you really need to take a breath and calm down, you're obsessing over a female which is never good. I'm sure she appreciates your feelings for her though, have you told her how you feel? If not, maybe that would help.


Hopefully you're right, because to be entirely honest with you, I hate the way I feel, feels like I'm open.

P.S I wouldn't exactly call it an obsession, most of the thoughts running through my mind usually pertain to her safety, she tends to hang out with undesirable guys, I just want her to be happy and safe and for these feelings of lust, love or whatever else they could be to either lead somewhere or end entirely. Thanks for the advice though, appreciate it.