dont you wish...

[The Dude Of Life]

I'm sure most people in here can identify with this, getting out of a situation and wishing you had said/done something different, but for some reason theres a situation thats bugging me from today.
i was at this rehab place, its basically an office in an office building, and as i was going down the elevator, this girl steps in, one of the most beautiful girls i have ever seen, and as i pretend to not notice her i see her in the corner of my eye sorta staring at me... i didnt take it as anything... so i go downstairs and sit in the lobby and drift off to sleep, and i feel something and wake up, i see this girl sitting right next to me reading a book. theres no way that this wasnt intentional, there were many other chairs in the lobby and she decides to sit up close to me in a small couch. i think nothing of it and go back to sleep when i am woken up by a call. i walk out and take the call, and come back in and this girl is gone. i look all around and try to find her, but she is long gone and i was only outside for 30 seconds.

only thing is, ive had shit like this happen before and not bother me. its eating away at me for some reason that i didnt talk to her or say anything witty. for all i know she coulda been my future wife you know, its just a missed opportunity that normally wouldnt bother me that much but for some reason it is killing me tonight. i just wish i woulda said something...
anyone else been in this kind of situation?

[beachguy in thongs]

It won't be the first time this will happen. Even if it's just a coincidence, it still could be fate, which brought you two together. Learn from your mistakes, and, take a chance, next time.

If you saw a hot girl, among a crowd, chased her so you could get near her, you'd want her to acknowledge you.

[WeedyBoyWonder]

She never said nothing to you either, missed opportunity on both behalf's.
I don't know if I believe all this "fate" kinda thing, but if you think it was, I'm sure you'll get another chance.

[Tomdelonge]

step your game up. ha:rastasmoke:

[beachguy in thongs]

She never said nothing to you either, missed opportunity on both behalf's.
I don't know if I believe all this "fate" kinda thing, but if you think it was, I'm sure you'll get another chance.

I meant, with another girl. :smokin:

[The Dude Of Life]

It won't be the first time this will happen. Even if it's just a coincidence, it still could be fate, which brought you two together. Learn from your mistakes, and, take a chance, next time.

If you saw a hot girl, among a crowd, chased her so you could get near her, you'd want her to acknowledge you.

yeah you know, i kinda think that she was gunning for me, because as i said there was many other chairs she coulda sat on, and she looked me right in the eye. but what if i was completely wrong and i had said something and looked like a jackass? you never know... maybe it was fate that had that happen, it just bugged the fuck out of me last night. i looked all over the building for her. i dreamt about her last night. its really weird.

[The Dude Of Life]

haha regret is a bitch, i have had stuff like that happen to me all the time, and i just keep replaying it over and over in my head thinking about what i should have done.

exactly man, thats whats been happening to me. in my dream we were both stuck in a white room, it was this girl, and me, and i couldnt say anything. for some reason i remember really wanting to say something but i couldnt. really weird shit man

[beachguy in thongs]

In your dream, how do you know that it wasn't her sister? You should have asked for I.D.

[420MissHighTimes420]

hopefully you'll see her again , and if u do u better say something!

[el_fantistico]

Man, a hot chick who's into dudes who sleep on public couches! Kick yourself, man! She was one in a million...

[The Dude Of Life]

Man, a hot chick who's into dudes who sleep on public couches! Kick yourself, man! She was one in a million...

LOL thanks for making me laugh out loud. +rep for that one mayne.

Yeah anyway i guess i have always had a fear of rejection since like the 6th grade, since then ive only asked a girl twice to anything and one was for senior homecoming and the other was to senior prom last year. basically just a stand in date, nothing really between us, so it wasnt a fear of rejection there because we mutually needed each other you know. its really weird shit man, ive never found myself unattractive, girls love the 6 pack, but i guess i have always had some underlying insecurity or phobia or something that has kept me from having the initiative to really go in for a kiss or ask someone out, for fear of rejection or an awkward answer. i went out on a limb tonight and tried, got turned the fuck down. so i just am not gonna bother anymore.

[el_fantistico]

Thanks for the rep points!

I hear you man, I was the same way... probably still am but I'm married now (to a gal who took the initiative!) so it doesn't come into play. Some people have that confidence, some don't. In the past, I had no problem jumping out of a plane or going bungee jumping but the thought of asking a chick out was crippling. I did get over it eventually. It's funny though, it's not the success that help build your confidence, it's the failures. Once you're turned down or dumped often enough you start to realize it's not the end of the world, nobody dies and life goes on and before you know it someone else catches your eye and you're taking at shot at them.

El Fantistico :smoking:

[hero3279]

hahaha thats a proper bummer man. I feel for you. FUCK! Reminds me of a quote from Changing Lanes.

" It's like you go to the beach. You go down to the water. It's a little cold. You're not sure you want to go in. There's a pretty girl standing next to you. She doesn't want to go in either. She sees you, and you know that if you just asked her her name, you would leave with her. Forget your life, whoever you came with, and leave the beach with her. And after that day, you remember. Not every day, every week... she comes back to you. It's the memory of another life you could have had. Today is that girl."

If it's meant to be, you WILL meet her again:thumbsup:

[robo scat]

It's happened to the best of us. :p

[TheGreenBuddy]

I think the same way.


Well, we cant go back yet.