Bitchy Stoners

[gumsnap]

Ever had a friend who has a personality trait that seems to overpower him/her every time s/he smokes up?

I have a friend who becomes an extremely awful person to be around when he's high. He gets paranoid, rude, and easily offended. Experiences with him include: him screaming at someone who was going to smoke us with HER OWN POT, and calling her a bitch; him screaming at me for saying, "what are you doing?!" when he snatched a chip out of a friend's hand (shouting, "WHAT ARE YOU DOING! OMG! WE WENT THROUGH THIS GIANT ESCAPADE TO GET HIGH AND NOW YOU'RE GOING TO EAT AND BRING YOU DOWN?!"); and countless random bouts of paranoia that ruin things for everyone else when he insists, "we can't go to the park! I just want to siiiiit here."

In short: he's a giant drama queen, and it pisses me and everyone else off.

Has anyone got any techniques for calming down a bitchy stoner, or is this just one of those "that's how it is" things?

Really, would it be worth the effort to calm him down, or should I just stop smoking with him altogether, because it really is annoying?

[FoSho]

I can't really offer any advice, but I know what you're going through. A good friend of mine is constantly acting like a total bitch towards people when we smoke...Her excuse EVERY time someone calls her out for it is, "I'm just really stoned right now, man!".

Bitchy stoners are the worst, man..What happened to us being a peaceful peoples?

[MadSativa]

all I can say is distance your self from him and when he starts to ask let him know and when he denises catch him in his rants. Tell him "see this is why we dont chill with you", after a while he will have to step it up or just relax. Ihave a freind like this, years of malnurishment, not enough schooling, and a constant desire to drink, have made him a weak soldier. But when ever we wana start a fight we just send him over to the enemie/oponents to make conversation and like clock work within 5 minutes they wana killem.

[ntcrawler]

Wow, I'd have to kill some one like that. Call him out on it personally and if he doesn't shape up then just stop hanging out with him. I haven't had some one like that and hope I never do.

[brettscutes420]

smoke without him in front of him with other ppl and be like no dude your not getting any you cant handle it... then he will probably like beg for you to let him back into your group and if he still does it deliver party fouls.. whos ever being a buzzkill or just annoying you get to party foul them aka hit them as hard as you want so they arent annoying

[deadfan420]

I try to avoid negative people. Life's too short! The people I've toked with in the past are always easy going, love to just chill and laugh a lot. That's what blazing is all about! There's no reason to be bitchy or anything while high. That's just my two cents though.

[czm]

That sucks, man. Like people here have said, just call him on it, because really, that would kill my buzz. If it doesn't stop, stop smoking with him and find someone else.

[GanjaMan7]

Yeah... if he doesn't change just ditch that buzzkill. I hate it when people use the excuse that they're really stoned. Smoking weed does not turn you into an asshole.

[Shinmyoken]

I can totally relate dude. I recently got one of my best friends into smoking weed and every time we get high around other people he's extremely rude: Always asking to smoke more of other peoples weed, asking them to buy him food when we have the munchies, shit like that. Oh and anytime he smokes and drinks he ALWAYS ends up puking.

And while we're all high and enjoying it, he starts rambling about rediculous shit and it annoys most the people around us. So the other day I finally told him about all the stupid shit he does and from now on, if he does any of that stupid or rude shit again, I'll say a special phrase we will decide on beforehand that basicly means, "Shut the fuck up, dude." That's prolly the best way to go about it.

[WeedyBoyWonder]

Tell him, next time he starts being a cunter, just tell him straight.
If he starts shouting making a scene, just let him get on with it and carry on doing what your doing. Don't give him the attention and ignore his outbursts as much as you can, he'll soon give up if you just don't care.

[Reefer Rogue]

He needs to chill.

[deadbunny]

Just tell him straight up before and after the next time you smoke. Everyone is there to have a good time and he should not be there if he's gonna bring everyone down. And he, himself, should not even get mad at you guys. I'm sure as hell he wouldn't enjoy it if the tables were turned. If he still does it - cut him off, ASAP! toke away! :rastasmoke:

[Rapidfire187]

smoke without him in front of him with other ppl and be like no dude your not getting any you cant handle it... then he will probably like beg for you to let him back into your group and if he still does it deliver party fouls.. whos ever being a buzzkill or just annoying you get to party foul them aka hit them as hard as you want so they arent annoying

Quoted for truth!

I used to have a friend that got all stupid when he got high, so we gave him that treatment and he calmed his ass down so we'd hang out and smoke with him. He was still an annoying fuckwad, but his worst habits (like "borrowing" people's cars without permission) disappeared.

[RhinoGrowUK]

all I can say is distance your self from him and when he starts to ask let him know and when he denises catch him in his rants. Tell him "see this is why we dont chill with you", after a while he will have to step it up or just relax. Ihave a freind like this, years of malnurishment, not enough schooling, and a constant desire to drink, have made him a weak soldier. But when ever we wana start a fight we just send him over to the enemie/oponents to make conversation and like clock work within 5 minutes they wana killem.


Lmao , thats mint !

[angry nomad]

Hmm... I have never been around someone that was annoying when they were high. It sounds like this kid is annoying when he is sober too. I would never hang out with someone like that. I don't think weed brings out annoying traits. Actually one time when I was really stoned, I started talking with my mouth full of food. A friend told me. I was really embarrassed, but she was the only one there. That's the only time I can think of anything like that.

I think people see others acting like assholes when they are drunk, then using drunkenness as an excuse to be an asshole, so they decide to do the same thing with weed. Alcohol can make people violent, obnoxious, and overemotional, but I don't think weed does any of these things.

[gumsnap]

Yeah, I left him out of a session last night, and it was completely chill.

If he'd been there, he would've been paranoid and freaking out and bitching, but it was just me and two other people. It was so relaxing and easy-going. I completely forgot about how awesome it is when you don't have to worry about someone being a fuckwad!

I think you're all probably right, and the next time he does it I'm just going to tell him he's being a dick, and then ignore him if he pitches a fit about it. He'll probably hate me when he's sober, but oh well. It's his own damn fault.

[Scrooge McBlunts]

I had a friend was like a fucking cypher nazi.God forbid you took more then three tokes on the blunt
"WHAT THE FUCK BRO?!? THREE AND GO! YOUR SMOKING MY MONEY!" and he swore you were pinching the weed if you didnt break up in front of him. it got so bad that we all started acting like that to.We eventually all stoped talking to him for over a year, and then he calmed down and doesnt even smoke that much weed anymore.

[trainwreck530]

lol haha...paranoid and easily offended?? maybe he needs to switch up to an indica:D

its a fine line though, sometimes i get str8 PUMPED when i smoke...i can understand aggressive smokers though...sometimes @ work thats the only way 2 go no time to slo play it. but never rude, i try to stay away from bummer deals but sometimes i get easily amused by lifes charactors

DONNY

[hero3279]

Yeah, I totally know what you mean, there is nothing worse than people who bitch over little things. The one guy I used to smoke weed with, I stopped smoking with him because of his bitching. I'm thinking its supposed to 'chill' you out and make you peaceful but it can have some fucked up effects on different people. I guess you can't blame the pot for that, their personalities are probably like that and it has nothing to do with the pot sometimes. A bitch will always be a bitch, regardless of wether they smoke or not.

One of my friends, I used to smoke with, he kept doing it and one day just literally got sick of it and thought, you know, fuck that. Why should I ruin my buzz for some nob who constantly bitches and can't see the funny side to anything. I just smoke on my own now. I'd rather be on my own and smoke than get high with some stupid fool who doesn't know better.

[Hilder420]

NO WEED FOR YOU! thats ill id say to him..

[chris_36824]

Whoop his ass the next time he bitches. That should teach him to never do it again. :thumbsup: