Terms for Cody

[Ganj]

The thread title wont make much sense as you read on but please do so anyway. I need some terms for this description.

"I like to feel in control, to be dominant over another."
"When I see that I've successfully put someone down, that's when I feel most satisfied."

Alright, now term away!

[slipknotpsycho]

masochist - Definitions from Dictionary.com (http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/masochist)
sadomasochism - Definitions from Dictionary.com (http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/sadomasochism)
sadistic - Definitions from Dictionary.com (http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/sadistic)

[ganjzilla]

fucking loser?

[slipknotpsycho]

fucking loser?

lmfao, ok you're gettin rep for that...

[ganjzilla]

haha thank you...well as far as im concerned any person who needs to ruin another persons day to be happy is one sick sick person

[iNHALE.xHALE.]

the 1st reminds me of sumthin a dominatrix would say

[Ganj]

fucking loser?

tell me about it, man. i feel like that though. like i deserve punishment or that others deserve it. you just called me a fucking loser and i can accept that. i'm not going to fight your opinion because that's the way i am. hell, i probably wouldn't even lash out on you because i probably couldn't handle what would follow in the heat of an argument. then again, just you exercising that power would put you at no higher ranks than myself...in terms of masochism.

[ganjzilla]

i see where ur coming from...i mean if u recognize these feelings and understand that their wrong u can seek help for it...because a person cannot be helped unless they want help...u seem like a sincere and good person...not all people have great thoughts running thru their head it doesnt mean that they cannot be great people...

[Ganj]

what're you talking about? my thoughts are profound. :P

[ganjzilla]

idk im ripped...i guess i was meaning that u dont always have to be a nice person to be a good person if that makes sense...as long as u dont go out and bully people around and disrespect people for no reason then there is really no problem

[slipknotpsycho]

what're you talking about? my thoughts are profound. :P

just curious but why do you have to put someone down to make yourself feel better? :( you're the type of person that made my life living hell at school..

and no i don't hold any malice towards you or anything because of who you are (the statement may sound like that, just saying incase) do you even want to change that about yourself, or are you happy/comfterable with who you are?

[Ganj]

yeah but do you ever feel that the disrespect you've given in the past influences the actions of others? it doesn't even have to be someone i know but i feel like they know about the things i have done...the only people whom i believe have no clue are my parents. don't get me wrong. i don't go out and bully people just for fun. only at home do i feel it's appropriate.

[Mr. Bubbles]

I take it Ganj is Cody. You cannot label one term for any person. Just because you're that way, it doesn't mean you're necessarily a bad person. Bullies are often mistaken as people who just like to hurt people. Truth is, many bullies feel better about themselves and feel that they need to be mean and aggressive to get respect. Being on the big side, I grew up receiving jeers about my size. Many, if not all of the people who taunted me didn't have many friends and made poor grades. Long story short, I'm friends with many of the people who tried to torment me. Instead of blaming them for their actions, I tried to look passed that and find their true self.

Then again, there are aggressive and angry people who're just aggressive and angry by personality. I don't know many of those, however. :)

[Hilder420]

Ganj, Ganj... baby you just need someone to stand up to you. some one who wont stand your abuse and just tell you straight up to get your Shit together and stop bein an ass. dont get me wrong from what i can tell youre an extremely cool person, but when that ugly monster rears its big ole head, if you cant control it yourself, hopefully the person youre exerting control over has enough self respect and balls to tell you to get in control of your Shit. also maybe when you get a taste of your own medecine will you realize how you are, but it looks like you kind of already do... yes i got ur email and replied. Peace- Hilder

[Ganj]

There's some truth to your post. My will power is totally fucked these days, put it to anything meaningful anyway.

[Nation_1ne]

fucking loser?

Depends really. If it's a fetish and the person likes to be sexually degraded or likes to sexually dominate others who enjoy it then why not? (Even if it's not sexual too, as long as both people enjoy it.)

I can assure you I don't enjoy this, but I think it's good to keep an open mind when it comes to things like sex. After all, no matter how much we deny it, it is one of the most important parts of a relationship.

[Hilder420]

when you say "put to anything meaningful", are you reffering to your family and friends? maybe your agressive tendencies are a way for you to take control of a situation before the the spotlight falls on you and your insecurities and shortcomings. In some cases, the person who needs to take control or demean other people, do it because they are so uncomfortable with themselves and their own personality that they will take it to extremes to keep the attention off of themselves. or like the post above me said, you just take your dominance that you feel and display in bed to other parts of your life because there is no one in your bed to get your aggressions off on. I dunno, if that makes sense.

[Quantummist]

fucking loser?

Well Stated .. And articulate too.. :thumbsup:

[Rhymenocerus]

fucking loser?

Yep. I would prefer to call them a "Douchebag" however.

[r0k]

Motherfucker

[mfqr]

it's called not smoking enough dope!

[FakeBoobsRule]

Well this thread is weird and I see the beginning of a flame war.

"Closed for Business"

Have a good one! :jointsmile: