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ScaryMissMary
08-27-2007, 07:19 PM
but I need to vent damnit.

Okay.. In my opinion women are beautiful in every shape and size but WHAT is with all the bashing on skinny chicks? Ive been hearing it and seeing it all over the place. Yes I know "fluffier" girls get made fun of alot by mean spirited people but that doesn't make it okay to retaliate against skinny girls out of spite. I have heard comments from bigger women saying "Ugh shes too skinny she must be anorexic." Or things like "Fuck that I want a woman with meat on her bones." God damn, fuck me for being a naturally petite woman. Im 5'2 and 108 lbs. NO I DON'T DIET I never have and never will. I eat whatever the hell I want and I still stay this way. I may not have huge boobs or a "thick" body but I still have curves damnit.

Matt the Funk
08-27-2007, 07:20 PM
More power to you. I never understood why people did that either.

stinkyattic
08-27-2007, 07:24 PM
Simple.
The media puts a ton of emphasis on being thin.
As a result, backlash from people who resent that has become more socially acceptable than bashing on fat people (which still happens anyway).
I'm sure that makes it no less irritating, but IMHO that's what up with that.

r0k
08-27-2007, 07:36 PM
My girlfriend is 96 pounds believe it or not, and she eats like a cow :jointsmile:

killerweed420
08-27-2007, 08:48 PM
Not a thing wrong with skinny girls. I personally like ladies with a little junk in the trunk

GraziLovesMary
08-27-2007, 08:49 PM
but I need to vent damnit.

Okay.. In my opinion women are beautiful in every shape and size but WHAT is with all the bashing on skinny chicks? Ive been hearing it and seeing it all over the place. Yes I know "fluffier" girls get made fun of alot by mean spirited people but that doesn't make it okay to retaliate against skinny girls out of spite. I have heard comments from bigger women saying "Ugh shes too skinny she must be anorexic." Or things like "Fuck that I want a woman with meat on her bones." God damn, fuck me for being a naturally petite woman. Im 5'2 and 108 lbs. NO I DON'T DIET I never have and never will. I eat whatever the hell I want and I still stay this way. I may not have huge boobs or a "thick" body but I still have curves damnit.

And youre god damn beautiful. you dont need a thick body to be gorgeous. There are men that love thick women, and there are men that love skinny women. There are men that love most women, and then there are men that love allll women. So dont fret! :)

The.Severed.Angel
08-27-2007, 08:55 PM
You need to notice, that you will always get made fun of, or picked at for SOMETHING. It just happens to be your size, just blow it off. I mean, it's like this, you may hear those comments every now and then, but haven't you noticed, if it's not something, it's something else? You may have the "perfect" figure, but that doesn't mean people won't find something to pick at.

slipknotpsycho
08-27-2007, 08:58 PM
to judge a girls attraction by her body would be like judging an apple by it's shade of red...

the real greatness of both is found beyond skin, whether the skin is near perfection or not...

with that said, if i can see your ribs you need to spend a month stuffing your face at an all you can eat buffet... sorry, but tha'ts just disgusting, i don't care what the media has your mind convinced on what beauty is and isn't, bones are unnatractive, period.

imitator
08-27-2007, 09:02 PM
I think that most "skinny" women are pretty, but I dont find most attractive to me personally.

Its all in the way you are made though. I personally prefer an ass and some breasts on my womens, so that is what I find attractive, but thats not to say women without breasts and asses arent pretty or good looking... just not my style is all.

Granted I am sure this actually has nothing to do with what you are talking about, but still. Cant worry about the haters, they exist to do nothing but hate to make themselves feel better. If people would stop worrying about, and hating on others, world would be a much better place.

Megatron
08-27-2007, 09:07 PM
Hell I judge apple by the shade of red all he time. LOL.

But seriously I LOVE skinny woman!!! I cant help it, its what im attracted to! Every one else has said dont worry about what other people say so im just going to say I LOVE SKINNY WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If your rib shows, nothing wrong with that. If you weigh less than 110 pounds, NP here. I like it to be like two sticks rubbing together during sex! LETS START A FIRE UP IN HERE!!! hahaha, no but seriously I cant think of any thing sexier than a women that is petite. Of coarse ill state the obvious, if you look like you have a eating dissorder, or your on the crack hoe diest, then that is too skinny for any one. But petite is the SHIT!!! Im talking pick you up, toss you around the room, hold you in mid air type of fucking!!!! YEEEAAHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW...

Veratyr Star
08-27-2007, 09:25 PM
I dig skinny chicks. Infact, I prefer them.

But the REAL problem is that skinny chicks don't dig skinny guys. I'm 5'8" and 120lbs. Maybe, like you, I just haven't found the right person that digs skinny people

snowblind
08-27-2007, 09:30 PM
im with these boys i prefer skinny women.

i like the way there hips look and i like hot stomachs.

i like smaller women. im 6.2 and my perfect woman would come up to my chin

what boob u cant get in ur mouth is waste neways.

peace

ganjzilla
08-27-2007, 09:30 PM
hell i dont kno what all thats about...i like tiny women, not like little people or nething but between 5 and 5'5 and anywhere from skinny...i think its sexy but all people are made different and thats whats important to remember...i believe that god made us all the way we are supposed to be...so flaunt it honey, u seem to be a very attractive young women so just knock that dirt off ur shoulders and flaunt that shit :D

water
08-27-2007, 09:30 PM
SMM you should care about wat other ppl think if ur happy the way u are

if ppl judge u for being slim and stunning they are as shallow as the ppl who judge large ppl for being large

brush them off and carry on doin ur own thing

ganjzilla
08-27-2007, 09:31 PM
damn veratyr star...u must be hella skinny then, cuz i am 5'8 135 and even though im fairly muscular i still look real skinny so i feel ur pain buddy

Veratyr Star
08-27-2007, 09:39 PM
Haha yesssssir. It wouldn't be a problem if skinny girls liked skinny boys lol. They still go for the big muscular dudes which is understandable.

ganjzilla
08-27-2007, 09:42 PM
hahah tell me about it dude...

420MissHighTimes420
08-27-2007, 09:56 PM
yeah i hate that! i eat a lot and im still skinny. but im always hearing people saying u need to eat more blah blah, if i fucing ate more id puke
but i dont care i fucking love my skinny self and wouldnt trade my body for anything, ehhh thoguh i wouldnt mind bigger ta-tas

420MissHighTimes420
08-27-2007, 10:00 PM
^^and im 5'8 and alittle insecure about it because a lot of guys im aware dont like tall girls, i persoanlly think it makes my body look good having long legs and everything, but i guess its not what guys like? and that makes me insecure soemtimes

ganjzilla
08-27-2007, 10:02 PM
no no no its not about that at all...tall girls are very sexy, legs are gorgeous actually their my fav part of a female...its just most girls tend to emmasculate u if their taller or the same height...i personally have no problem dating a girl the same height as me, as long as she doesnt nitpick at it alot...see what im saying i tend to date short women because it makes me feel better about my own height...because 5'8 for a woman is tall but for a man is short...hope that made some kinda sense

thcbongman
08-27-2007, 10:20 PM
^^and im 5'8 and alittle insecure about it because a lot of guys im aware dont like tall girls, i persoanlly think it makes my body look good having long legs and everything, but i guess its not what guys like? and that makes me insecure soemtimes

lol. Ask any guy who's over 6' what they think. I'm sure the reception would be very positive.

FakeBoobsRule
08-28-2007, 12:38 AM
Im 5'2 and 108 lbs.
I consider that skinny but a healthy skinny or in the ideal weight range and not anorexic skinny. If you were about 10 pounds lighter that might be unhealthy but there is nothing wrong with that height and weight. You are young so enjoy it while you can and there is more to beauty than just appearance.

birdgirl73
08-28-2007, 01:24 AM
I sometimes lament the fact that I don't gain weight easily. I'm just under 5' 11" and this morning weighed 126 pounds. So I don't carry much fat (except that I have a sort of round baby face). Secretly, I like this fact. I'm not bony or anorexic. I'm just slender. And even if I'm not endowed with huge breasts, the truth is my legs and butt have gotten me quite far in life. They served me well in the days when I worked for male executives in the company I worked for. And when I put on skirts or a swim suit, they still get my husband's attention, too.

I like the fact that I'm not part of the obesity epidemic. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about being slim. It's much healthier than the alternative!

jamstigator
08-28-2007, 12:06 PM
I'm male, but for the longest time I was 5'10" (still am), but weighed right around 100 pounds. I tried everything to gain weight, but it just wouldn't come...until I hit my mid to late thirties, then boom, the weight came. (Up to 175-ish now, and feel much healthier!) So, I always had the same problem but in reverse: girls don't like rail-thin guys much. Probably a survival trait from ancient times - at 100 pounds (wet), how much of a protector could I be?

420MissHighTimes420
08-28-2007, 05:12 PM
lol. Ask any guy who's over 6' what they think. I'm sure the reception would be very positive.

yeah which is why I dont think I have ever dated anyone under that height, not that I woudl care, me and tall guys just go together for some reason lol

GraziLovesMary
08-28-2007, 08:06 PM
^^and im 5'8 and alittle insecure about it because a lot of guys im aware dont like tall girls, i persoanlly think it makes my body look good having long legs and everything, but i guess its not what guys like? and that makes me insecure soemtimes

In 6'2, 6'3... and tall women are gorgeous to me, I often slouch because to stand up tall would put me way over most people, I guess I lower myself a few inches to get a wider perspective? I dunno. But Ive only had a few tall girlfriends (one that was taller than me when I was younger lol), and they make me stand straighter.. I miss it.


EDIT: I almost forgot the most important part: DONT YOU DARE be insecure about your body.. Ive only seen pictures and thats enough for me to yell at you! You had better carry yourself like you know youre sexy, or you will find yourself being attracted to people that will treat you shitty. To be blunt about it, youre hot as fuck. And so are you Miss Mary. You women, better be loving yourself no matter what, or Im gonna... umm... well... there really aint shit I can do about it, but as soon as I think of something clever Ill do it!!

happiestmferoutthere
08-29-2007, 12:21 AM
Skinny chick here! 5' 5"; 110 lbs. I have never weighed more than that.Actually, I'm just thin. Everybody else calls me skinny. No, my ribs do not show. Yes, I eat very well, when I'm hungry. I'm not always hungry.Yes, I am healthy. I even have a bit of a "marshmallow belly". While most people have to count calories not to gain weight, I do need to make sure I get enough. I can lose 5 lbs in one day, but it takes me two weeks or so to gain it back. My doctor wanted me to gain 5 lbs once, and I got sick, lethargic, and bloated trying. My body was rebelling.
I have a very small bone structure. My wrist is barely 6". I'm small. A lot of people forget to take bone structure in to account. It makes a difference.
I have had to defend my weight my whole life. I still do, to this day. I will always be thin. I've accepted it. Why can't every one else?
I'll tell you what though, I can fit into cute clothes!!;)

TallCoolOne
08-29-2007, 12:27 AM
I like women who don't bitch/complain/discuss their weight. If you don't like how the media or society depcits women, then go smoke a joint. I wrestled for 6 years and believe me I've gone through more hell then almost any female on this forum when it comes to weight. Tell me you've dropped 20 lbs in 4 days and then get back to me...

birdgirl73
08-29-2007, 12:30 AM
You're going to have a very hard time finding women who don't discuss their weight.

And if you've dropped 20 pounds in four days, you've got worse things to worry about than what "hell" you've been through in wrestling. Like what yo-yo hell you've put your heart through, for one thing.

TallCoolOne
08-29-2007, 01:22 AM
You're going to have a very hard time finding women who don't discuss their weight.

And if you've dropped 20 pounds in four days, you've got worse things to worry about than what "hell" you've been through in wrestling. Like what yo-yo hell you've put your heart through, for one thing.

dont i know it. although most weight lost in that short amount if time was water weight from copious amounts of sweat.

Husky
08-29-2007, 07:03 AM
im a fan of skinny girls, im 6'4, 220 pounds and well you cant go wrong with a petite girl :) tall or short

GraziLovesMary
08-29-2007, 07:28 PM
You're going to have a very hard time finding women who don't discuss their weight.

And if you've dropped 20 pounds in four days, you've got worse things to worry about than what "hell" you've been through in wrestling. Like what yo-yo hell you've put your heart through, for one thing.

Actually, birdgirl, you have, in fact, stumbled upon the very heart of what the hell of wrestling is.

Quantummist
08-29-2007, 07:32 PM
Cause Skinny Gurls break to easy....

ScaryMissMary
08-29-2007, 08:15 PM
Cause Skinny Gurls break to easy....

Wow.. aren't you tactful.

ganjzilla
08-29-2007, 08:24 PM
nice chucks smm...i have a few pairs myself...their never gonna go outta style

Asasan
08-30-2007, 04:01 AM
I think most of what everyone has said here is true.

As far as why people say stuff like that, yea women say it because they hate on skinny girls out of jealousy or resentment, alot of guys say it cuz they sincerely like thicker women...

But I think alot of guys say that nowadays just because they think its what girls want to hear, they say it to score brownie points. Because alot if not most women hate on skinny women, and not many women consider themselves skinny, even the skinny ones, so when a guy says he doesn't like skinny women, he likes them bigger, he's trying to slip in a backdoor compliment to the girls who don't consider themselves skinny, and make them feel at ease about their bodies. Basically they're just flirting.

The vice versa is when girls say they like geeky guys, it may or may not be true but they're mostly just flirting, to put guys at ease about acting cool. Or alot of girls who watch sports but really don't care about them, again they're just saying they like whatever they think the opposite sex wants to hear.

Paulkishi
08-30-2007, 04:58 AM
I will sum everything up in this thread in one response. Everybody gets made fun of, PERIOD. It doesn't matter if you are skinny, fat, ugly, good looking, beautiful, handsome, muscular etc, people make fun of other people. It happens every day, fucking deal with it and stop complaining.

BlAzInIt4:20
08-30-2007, 05:02 AM
haha dont let people get to you...

IM a thick girl, and am told i need to lsoe weight constantly. But i like to be thick.:thumbsup:

as long as you love yourself who cares what people think brush ur shoulders off...

BlAzInIt4:20
08-30-2007, 05:05 AM
I will sum everything up in this thread in one response. Everybody gets made fun of, PERIOD. It doesn't matter if you are skinny, fat, ugly, good looking, beautiful, handsome, muscular etc, people make fun of other people. It happens every day, fucking deal with it and stop complaining.
YOU

i like your avitar...

but i dont think she needed ur negativity... just needed someone to tell her different.. and she got her responses..

Paulkishi
08-30-2007, 05:10 AM
YOU

i like your avitar...

but i dont think she needed ur negativity... just needed someone to tell her different.. and she got her responses..
I didn't mean to be so negative, but it is the truth, all the people on this site as pot smokers should know this. I guess I could have been lighter, I am just not in a good mood. I apologize.

Thanks for the comment on my avy though! :thumbsup:

burnable
08-30-2007, 05:15 AM
I have a hard time being attracted to a skinny girl with no ass, much more than a bigger girl with an hourglass shape

Dave Byrd
08-30-2007, 05:52 AM
I'm married to a slender girl with an hourglass shape. Just not a wide hourglass shape. Her waistline'll put some 20-year-olds to shame. Nice, lean, toned curves and legs that don't stop. Physically she's strong as can be even if she's slender. Doesn't break easily at all.

slipknotpsycho
08-30-2007, 05:54 AM
I'm married to a slender girl with an hourglass shape. Just not a wide hourglass shape. Her waistline'll put some 20-year-olds to shame. Nice, lean, toned curves and legs that don't stop. Physically she's strong as can be even if she's slender. Doesn't break easily at all.

:( please don't say that again.. it's just not natural for me to gain an attraction to my mother (forum-mother or not) lmfao...

and wow you're posting alot tonight... birdgirl finally relinquish the computer? :p

Quantummist
08-30-2007, 06:47 AM
Wow.. aren't you tactful.

I'm Old.. I Ain't got time for tact darlin....

Quantummist
08-30-2007, 06:50 AM
I'm married to a slender girl with an hourglass shape. Just not a wide hourglass shape. Her waistline'll put some 20-year-olds to shame. Nice, lean, toned curves and legs that don't stop. Physically she's strong as can be even if she's slender. Doesn't break easily at all.

That just means ya ain't doin it right :postreadrulez:

ScaryMissMary
08-30-2007, 01:58 PM
Im not saying Im a beanpole with no curves. I may be skinny but I have a very curvy body for one.

Bluntmasterbabe
08-30-2007, 02:34 PM
I think that every woman is beautiful in their own way. I don't understand why we are judged solely on our looks, when there is so much more beneath the surface. Who cares if you have a flat ass or a ba-donk-a-donk...embrace who you are, and don't worry about what other people think;)
I'm sure all of the criticism stems from their own insecurities anyway.

420MissHighTimes420
08-30-2007, 02:35 PM
^me too im not very curvy at all but for me just enough i have some hips, a bit of an hourglass shape, a nice amuont of tities and ass, im happy with it for the most part

angry nomad
08-30-2007, 03:28 PM
but I need to vent damnit.

Okay.. In my opinion women are beautiful in every shape and size but WHAT is with all the bashing on skinny chicks? Ive been hearing it and seeing it all over the place. Yes I know "fluffier" girls get made fun of alot by mean spirited people but that doesn't make it okay to retaliate against skinny girls out of spite. I have heard comments from bigger women saying "Ugh shes too skinny she must be anorexic." Or things like "Fuck that I want a woman with meat on her bones." God damn, fuck me for being a naturally petite woman. Im 5'2 and 108 lbs. NO I DON'T DIET I never have and never will. I eat whatever the hell I want and I still stay this way. I may not have huge boobs or a "thick" body but I still have curves damnit.

got pics? just kidding. Some guys like spinners. I like curvy girls. People can be healthy in a wide range of weights and body types. It's cool to be whatever, as log as you are healthy. And, I am sure you are hot.

rebgirl420
08-30-2007, 04:01 PM
My weight has always been up and down. I was fat for a good period growing up but now im finally right where I wanna be. Im 5'7"-5'8" and 130 pounds. However getting here was not easy. I like my curves and big boobs. It makes me feel feminine.

I say tho that everyone should be happy with how they look. Ive seen girls who are 100 pounds and sexy as hell and ive seen girls who are 200 something and still gorgeous. Some people can pull off those extremes. I say good for you! : )

Orange Goblin
08-30-2007, 04:27 PM
Don't worry about it. I have a thing for skinnier women myself. My girlfriend is about 5'8" and 120 pounds, and she always hears silly comments from family and friends... but not from me. :D

420MissHighTimes420
08-30-2007, 05:08 PM
haha im 5'8'' and 120 too!

ghosty
08-30-2007, 05:39 PM
i say dont worry so hard about your weight, (besides scarymary you're hot), even if you have a few less pounds or a few more than what's considered to be attractive by media and such, there's more to beauty than the outter layer. If it's really a concern change your diet, or go on a work out plan. But in most cases, everyone fine the way they are

ghosty loves all the ladies :thumbsup:

Quantummist
08-30-2007, 06:51 PM
I was Jokin !! Geezz.. You wana know what I think in all seriousness well.....

I could care less if anyone is skinny,fat,round or born with a right angle .. Some of the prettiest girls I have ever seen have been ugly inside and I pity them, Some of the folks I've met that could win no contests shine as bright as humans can and cause me to just be in their company.

Its whats inside that counts and until that part is Good the outside will but be a shadow of what it could be ..Q

Hardcore Newbie
08-30-2007, 07:12 PM
dont i know it. although most weight lost in that short amount if time was water weight from copious amounts of sweat.
Ugghh, if there's one thing i can't stand about weight division sports, it's the weight cutting. And you almost have to do it because nearly everyone else does it.

spliffstar22
08-30-2007, 07:36 PM
i like girls in between skinny and fat, you know like a good medium, but i dont hate on other girls for being too skinny or too fat,their just friends......

Ganj
08-30-2007, 08:25 PM
You're hot, Miss Mary...'nuf said. And it is like what imitator said a few pages back, about those mean individuals who feel a raised self-esteem by talking you down. Just shrug it off from now on. They're the ones who think that, so from the get-go; it is their problem. Don't let them make it yours too. Word.

Orange Goblin
08-30-2007, 08:40 PM
haha im 5'8'' and 120 too!
J-j-j-j-jesss??? :D

420MissHighTimes420
08-30-2007, 09:04 PM
J-j-j-j-jesss??? :D
yes ! ;)

Orange Goblin
08-30-2007, 09:24 PM
yes ! ;)
lol thank you for fucking with my head :eek:

gravity420
08-31-2007, 02:27 AM
TRY YOGURT.

THOSE LITTLE CULTURE CREATURES SWIMMING IN YOUR BELLY HELP

Husky
08-31-2007, 10:22 AM
petite girls are easy to throw around the bedroom :thumbsup:

Orange Goblin
09-04-2007, 02:18 AM
petite girls are easy to throw around the bedroom :thumbsup:
word brutha:D

lemonhead
09-04-2007, 02:45 AM
As someone whose been thin and fat and thin again, it seems like skinny girls have it easiest in the end. Yeah, I've heard the requisite "eating disorder" gossip--every time I take a trip to the shitter after a meal, I can see everyone thinking, "Ooo, she must be sticking her finger down her throat," but to be honest, all the bashing is laced with a sort of societal acceptance for thinness (at any cost) that makes it easy to brush off.

Fat girls, however, can't get no love. I ballooned up to about 130 at one point (pretty chunky for 5'3"), and although I had no problem with how I looked, I just couldn't get laid for the longest time. I guess it's also that skinny-asian-girl sterotype, too.

Quantummist
09-04-2007, 03:05 AM
and although I had no problem with how I looked, I just couldn't get laid for the longest time. I guess it's also that skinny-asian-girl sterotype, too.

You just didn't run into me ...

GraziLovesMary
09-04-2007, 04:06 AM
i hate when guys say that! i can take it as rough as u can give it, well maybe not, but deffinatly as rough as any fat girl


Challenge accepted! Lol :p


Im not saying Im a beanpole with no curves. I may be skinny but I have a very curvy body for one.

yes... yessss you do.


^me too im not very curvy at all but for me just enough i have some hips, a bit of an hourglass shape, a nice amuont of tities and ass, im happy with it for the most part


FUCK that for the most part mess. Ive seen a lucky few pictures of you, and you had better be more than just happy with yourself!
I know I would be happy with your self lmao :D

FakeBoobsRule
09-04-2007, 05:40 AM
I'm going to post some pictures of Marissa Miller in just a little while because she is stunning but she has lost some weight over the last few years and needs to stop. If you are in front of the TV, she is going to be on Carson Daly in about 5 minutes. She has saved the SI Swimsuit issue for the last few years.

See the first thumbnail is from a few years ago then the rest she is losing weight and she was fine in the first thumbnail so she needs to stop before she is skin and bones.

Mr. Bubbles
09-04-2007, 09:44 AM
Ah, the typical stereotype for what people should look like. The dimpled chin, the ample bosom, the thin waist, ect. A lot of people bite into this piece of the pie and start judging others who do not live up to the media's expectations of beauty. Those of us who are lucky enough to look past such things, are truly beautiful. So it doesn't matter if you're large, small, short, or tall, you're only as beautiful as you feel. :thumbsup:

Veratyr Star
09-04-2007, 10:07 AM
All I need is a girl that will keep up with me in a rave

beachguy in thongs
09-04-2007, 11:03 AM
but I need to vent damnit.

Okay.. In my opinion women are beautiful

I'm definitely not flaming this.



every shape and size bashing on skinny chicks? Ive been hearing it and seeing it all over the place. Yes I know "fluffier" girls get made fun of alot by mean spirited people but that doesn't make it okay to retaliate against skinny girls out of spite. I have heard comments from bigger women saying "Ugh shes too skinny she must be anorexic." Or things like "Fuck that I want a woman with meat on her bones." God damn, fuck me for being a naturally petite woman. Im 5'2 and 108 lbs. NO I DON'T DIET I never have and never will. I eat whatever the hell I want and I still stay this way. I may not have huge boobs or a "thick" body but I still have curves damnit.

I don't know what to say. But, in my eyes, you'll find someone who can look into your eyes and like what they see.

Grindbot
09-04-2007, 12:50 PM
I like skinny girls over any other body type. Always have. idc about junk in the trunk

stinkyattic
09-04-2007, 04:47 PM
I ballooned up to about 130 at one point (pretty chunky for 5'3"), and although I had no problem with how I looked, I just couldn't get laid for the longest time.

The WHAT? "Ballooned"? Dag, yo... I was carrying a full 185 on a 5-2 frame for a while there and still getting action, skiing my everlovin' ASS off, running, AND fitting into regular sized clothes rather than plus... I think I look my best at 140-145 since I am on the muscular side. I currently wear a size 10-12 at 165. That's certainly not thin, but I'm not going to beat myself up over it! (My mom likes to hassle me though:wtf:)

BTW, about 130 pounds is considered healthy weight for a 5-3 woman.

Don't even get me started on the pressure to be thin... the very fact that you worded that the way you did makes me sad. It's how you feel about your body and your health that matters. If you have a good attitude, you WILL get laid. If guys sense that you FEEL unattractive, you BECOME unattractive to them. Make sense?

Quantummist
09-04-2007, 04:57 PM
Don't even get me started on the pressure to be thin... the very fact that you worded that the way you did makes me sad. It's how you feel about your body and your health that matters. If you have a good attitude, you WILL get laid. If guys sense that you FEEL unattractive, you BECOME unattractive to them. Make sense?

98% of all men are A'holes.. (Tis why I like girls) and if you let a smelly, fartin, butt scratchin, hairy, troglodyte set your self image then you got more problems that a few pounds... JMHO

stinkyattic
09-04-2007, 05:00 PM
if you let a smelly, fartin, butt scratchin, hairy, troglodyte set your self image then you got more problems that a few pounds... JMHO
There ya go.
Hit "RESET" on the self-image remote control.

katyowns
09-04-2007, 05:20 PM
Fat girls, however, can't get no love. I ballooned up to about 130 at one point (pretty chunky for 5'3"), and although I had no problem with how I looked, I just couldn't get laid for the longest time. I guess it's also that skinny-asian-girl sterotype, too.


I hate to say this, but self confidence is the bigger reason why you couldn't get laid. I have 100lbs on you, and I've never had an issue finding booty. There's guys out there for every body type a woman could have, and even those guys that don't think they like plump chicks? With enough self confidence and charm, you can woo them also, and it's not all that hard.


I hate seeing that excuse, your weight is not a restriction for your life, so don't let it be.

stinkyattic
09-04-2007, 05:30 PM
I hate seeing that excuse, your weight is not a restriction for your life, so don't let it be.
PREACH it sistah.

palerider7777
09-05-2007, 05:26 AM
i love skinny women i don't like the big butts "but my fav part on a girl is her ass" or big tits i like nice skinny women don't know why just do i don't want her to look sickly but skinny it's weird cuz im 6'1 245

audioaddict04
09-07-2007, 04:39 AM
Simple.
The media puts a ton of emphasis on being thin.
As a result, backlash from people who resent that has become more socially acceptable than bashing on fat people (which still happens anyway).
I'm sure that makes it no less irritating, but IMHO that's what up with that.

I think I may be in love with you!
Goddamn pot turning me straight!

trainwreck530
09-19-2007, 02:07 AM
yo bro..uh woah slow your roll. this hit me a lllittle fast, just because im cleaning up spilt nachos and trying 2 keep sparky away.

so to hit up your Q. first of all do u live in the south?? that would explain some of the shittiness youve been getting on your end. now i call myself truly experienced. this doesnt mean im dirk mf er anything. but i have been w/ALL kinds of women of all ages, shapes and sizes. although i have an unfufilled asian fantasy.

personally, i think the whole soul food/ghetto booty/meat-on-the-bones is somewhat caused by our FUCKED OOOFFF culture of really bad and processed foods. which is why we are by far the most disgustingly obese nation in the world. ok theres big, then theres fat. ive been w/FAT chicks, but also big ones. like my ex gf K.R. she has a tight stomach, she is not fat, or portly but is big. she has big shoulders, DDs, and big calfs.

ok im not sure where im going w this but tell all those sedentary junk food eating morons to suck it. i find petite girls to be FINE :thumbsup: alot of gusy will limit themselves to one type of girl, and i find this to be unfortuante. variety is the spice...u know?? u r u, and there is nothing more beatiful than that. i admire beauty, period. i seem to find it where alot of people dont. and if someone cant see yours, thats their loss not yours. best of luck!

oh yeah..A. i am NOT a molester, but i do have mixed thoughts on the whole age thing. when i was 17 i was w/ a 55 year old. B., well i think thats it man i finally got my mess cleaned anyhow.

Donny