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08-25-2007, 02:59 PM
So I'm late 20's and my brother is mid 20's. We've both lived in this same area we grew up in, were our parents live, for our whole lives. He's married and I'm engaged. So I have him over last night and we get super baked.
He has a lot of debt issues and is ADHD or at least we all think so, but he won't go get evaluated. Anyway all last night he kept getting up an going into the kitchen, then would come back and ask me scary questions like:
If you were to die, how much money would you have left? Who does your money go to? How much if I die and my parent die, would he stand to get. We both have concealed weapon permits. I don't carry very often, but keep a gun in the house. He carries everywhere and brought two guns to the house just to spend the night. It was supposed to be a Brother bonding thing, just chill, talk, play video games, watch Hot Fuzz DVD, etc. And instead all we talked about was that and how fucked up he thinks he is.
I had him promise he wouldn't hurt anyone including himself and stuff. He told me how much in debt he was, and it's quite high & scary. At one point I was so fubar, that I thought there was a chance he was going to kill me. I was like ugh, do you need help? Someone to talk to? Money? What's going on.
So you think this was something I should write down and put in my safe or in with the will in a safety deposit box? In my email inbox archive? I just kinda am worried now, but aren't sure if it was just the paranoia from last night's high.
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He also said he hurts himself. I was like WTF, and pressed him on it, then he said he was just playing. I don't think that's true. He's 5'7" about 150lb and is delusioned to think he is fat.
He has a lot of debt issues and is ADHD or at least we all think so, but he won't go get evaluated. Anyway all last night he kept getting up an going into the kitchen, then would come back and ask me scary questions like:
If you were to die, how much money would you have left? Who does your money go to? How much if I die and my parent die, would he stand to get. We both have concealed weapon permits. I don't carry very often, but keep a gun in the house. He carries everywhere and brought two guns to the house just to spend the night. It was supposed to be a Brother bonding thing, just chill, talk, play video games, watch Hot Fuzz DVD, etc. And instead all we talked about was that and how fucked up he thinks he is.
I had him promise he wouldn't hurt anyone including himself and stuff. He told me how much in debt he was, and it's quite high & scary. At one point I was so fubar, that I thought there was a chance he was going to kill me. I was like ugh, do you need help? Someone to talk to? Money? What's going on.
So you think this was something I should write down and put in my safe or in with the will in a safety deposit box? In my email inbox archive? I just kinda am worried now, but aren't sure if it was just the paranoia from last night's high.
-edit-
He also said he hurts himself. I was like WTF, and pressed him on it, then he said he was just playing. I don't think that's true. He's 5'7" about 150lb and is delusioned to think he is fat.