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BlAzInIt4:20
08-23-2007, 06:10 PM
So i met this girl. BUT shes bi and im not sure if im comfortable with that being a lesbian and all. But shes an amazing person and im taking it slow. We talk a lot. Right now i just want to be friends with her.

She invited me to the beach this weeknd to drink. Her friends will be thier along with one person i know. I know im attracted to her, and that i love who she is... Do i leave it their and be friends or should i make a move? Or do i wait for the look? I Always wait for the look but i dunno im stoned and rambeling.. sry
GraziLovesMary
08-23-2007, 06:15 PM
I say... just roll with the flow.. Enjoy each others company and pull where she gives, push where she takes. Let things happen naturally and enjoy the results!
slipknotpsycho
08-23-2007, 06:20 PM
well, if she can dedicate herself to you then move forward, if she can't, you're only asking to be disappointed by pushing for it anyways.
lagstronaut
08-23-2007, 07:18 PM
so you love everything about her except a minuscule lifestyle choice of hers which doesn't affect you personally whatsoever??

i think the answer is obvious
BabyFacedAbortion
08-23-2007, 07:23 PM
I'm bi and my ex was a lesbian, honestly, it wasn't a big deal. She still likes girls, lol it's not like you've gotta convert her ;) I'd roll with it, if anything..you'll get a new friend :)
420MissHighTimes420
08-23-2007, 07:29 PM
is your only hold up on her that shes bi?
if shes an amazing person that shouldnt matter right?
CUPNOODLES
08-23-2007, 08:00 PM
UHH IF SHES BI THEN YOU CAN HAVE A THREESOME??!!???....go with it....c wut happenz
GraziLovesMary
08-23-2007, 08:51 PM
UHH IF SHES BI THEN YOU CAN HAVE A THREESOME??!!???....go with it....c wut happenz

yeah but she doesnt WANT to have sex with a dude lol. Thats why shes a lesbian :p
Lankan Lion
08-23-2007, 08:57 PM
fuck it...just go into with the mindset that you're just looking to have some fun wit someone whose company you enjoy...as long as you dont heavily invest in her emotionally before the jumpoff, you dont really have much to lose and (possibly) everything to gain
crudemood
08-24-2007, 03:22 AM
id say definately go with it, you're going to doubt her just because she's bi? what if she turns out to be the coolest person in the world? then were in trouble.
BongVader
10-31-2007, 08:36 PM
screw converting her dude, have a threesome. plain and simple
ScaryMissMary
10-31-2007, 09:02 PM
You're thinking of throwing it away just cause she's bi? Come on.. If you start something with her, you're going to be the only person she's messing with. GUY OR GIRL, noone will come between you. Give her a chance, DAMN!
THClord
10-31-2007, 09:42 PM
She is bi cuz she likes girls too....
I think that's good enough.
Vino
11-01-2007, 05:19 AM
um go slow with her, im bi, im a woman ...but i find that for a lot of women i meet they say they are bi and flirt with me but i doubt they would go anywhere with it. make sure shes serious is my best advice, because i find there are a fair number of bi women who i find to not be serious.

but i promise there are those of us who are.