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dog420
01-21-2005, 10:34 AM
I'm real scared atm!

My mrs thinks she is gunna have a nother baby! this has really shocked the hell outta me,,,again! We have three loverly kids 2 of them are now going to school and the 2 yr old is really starting to calm down, as hes quite a hypo kid lol Yeh its being real tuff last few mths and things are just started to settle down, this is gunna throw all that out the window! Im not trying to say that i dont want a fouth child just because its going to be hard,, i know hard im 24 with 3 children started a family life @ the age of 18. Its just that i think our family is just perfect and everything is going well! We only live in a 3 bedroom house which is fine 2 boys in 1 room and the girl in the other, we have another child lets hopes its a girl eh lol As for travell, need a 7 seater lol My current wage atm is £18.000 plus benifits, im not sure if thats enuff to live happy with another child, we are just on the "happy" boarder line as it is. The whole "lets stop it from happng" is not an option! we are not going down that road for personal reasons.
She is going to do i test this weekend to see if this is true as she is 6 weeks over due The baby could be due for Oct/Nov time :( If its right and we are going to have another baby of course ill do my best to give her support and wish for the best pergnancey ever and love our baby with all my heart . Im just scared that this is going to hit our family life hard and my makes things very difficult to live with.
well hats enuff of me rambling off i just need to get that off my chest lol sounds a bit sad as i can say almost anything i think and feel in here but in front of my mrs is alot harder,,dunno why, it just is.

AArrggghhh gunna be 26 with 4 kids!!!!!

Peace

Lulu
01-21-2005, 11:32 AM
Whatever the outcome of the test I wish you and yours all the very best. The baby's 2, so maybe he'll be started at playgroup by the time the stork lands with baby no.3. My third child was also a bit of a surprise (as in Holyfuckingshit nofuckingway herewegoagain - Arrrrrrrrrrrrg!!!) but he's one of the best things thats ever happened to us.
You'll make things work Dog, you're dedicated to your family :) and it isn't all hard work - it's lots of fun too ;)

btw a tenner says it's a girl :p

dog420
01-21-2005, 12:20 PM
Whatever the outcome of the test I wish you and yours all the very best. The baby's 2, so maybe he'll be started at playgroup by the time the stork lands with baby no.3. My third child was also a bit of a surprise (as in Holyfuckingshit nofuckingway herewegoagain - Arrrrrrrrrrrrg!!!) but he's one of the best things thats ever happened to us.
You'll make things work Dog, you're dedicated to your family :) and it isn't all hard work - it's lots of fun too ;)

btw a tenner says it's a girl :p
Hey thanks Lulu :)

Yeh I'm sure what ever the out come it will work,,,,life finds it's ways ;)

Peace

lol make that 2 tenners :p

HigHAnneXities
01-21-2005, 12:55 PM
Children are always a blessing, maybe in disguise tho sometimes. Who knows what the future will bring. Hoping many good times for you and yours. :D

robert42
01-21-2005, 01:06 PM
Conngrats and i hoppe ur happy no matter the outcome ;)

NowhereMan
01-21-2005, 01:07 PM
hey dog you keep that up your old lady gonna have ya Fixed, :eek:


dont know to say congradulations
or shame on you :D

PPPPpuppy PPPower

but i think you do ok you seem to really get into the daddy mode,
peace

ps
lovely family m8

Ammie
01-21-2005, 01:38 PM
well dog I can tell u as a mother of 4 (by the age 21 mind u) it is very hard work and here are alot of changes u have to make I love all my kids, but there were changes with all of them sum good some not so good. Every Child brings added stresseres and problems but for every one of them theres also alot of good things and not so bad things that come of it. Ur a Strong man and im sure u can handle one more lil rugrat and u will figure out how to make do with the other situations to make it easier to have this new baby;). Good Luck with whatever happens sweety <3

maryjanemama
01-21-2005, 01:42 PM
Dog, you're going to think I'm crazy but yesterday I swear I had the feeling you were going to post that's Lyn's expecting again. Ok...I am crazy, but I knew this was going to happen some how. Some ppl have Gay-dar, I have Baby-dar! :)

Congratulations, dog! It worked out 3 times before, it'll work out again. After this one, though, you may want to take Nowhereman's advice. I had my tubes tied, cuz every freakin' 3 years my husband and I are together...uh oh...here comes another baby! :cool: There's no greater feeling than knowing you can let it fly and nothing will result from it, trust me.

PS- Condoms are easier to change than diapers! :D Lol, I read that on a bumpersticker and it is soooooo true!

robert42
01-21-2005, 02:23 PM
mama maybe u can give me a detailed show on how to change condoms :P lol im more of a visual and hands on man ;););)

lol

oh the joys of lunchtime spliff lol

ITS SPANDEX TIME ARRUUUGGAAA

robert42
01-21-2005, 02:29 PM
ill see u in the personal ads page lol :p for "ROMANCE OR MORE" lmao

dog420
01-21-2005, 04:32 PM
Thanks guys for your support!

As for the whole tying the nott jobby,,,the docs wont touch us till we are @ least 28+ yrs old :( so i go celibate for 2 yrs??????? lmao

Peace

dog420
01-21-2005, 06:32 PM
My wife has done the test...it was clear, clear blue :)

Im just repling to say thanks for all the help and support, im going to go buy a yrs woth of rubbers, half pound of pills for her, A rubber for her, and i hav come to a conclusion if we only do anal she cant get pregnant! lol jk

I can say im 100% pleased with the out come as i was shitting myself lol
So if theres any docs in the house can you come round and do my a fav ;) :D

Pace guys

Dreadmantic
01-21-2005, 06:36 PM
A big beautiful family is a blessing! Tons of couples everywhere are incapable of such a miracle. Enjoy life and realize that your destiny was always to be a loving and capable man and father :)

apsinthion
01-21-2005, 07:19 PM
Wow lucky escape there Dog! I'm sure you would of handled it fine though. :)

As for the vasectomy...

Well I can fit carpet's how much differant can it be. (Slash here, pull there it's all good) :D

This sound's like a nice way to get it done.

http://www.vasectomy.me.uk/

Hektik
01-21-2005, 08:43 PM
lol with 4 kids you are going to be blazing up mad. good luck to you homie