Need help convincing someone about growing

[savagepossum]

ok so i recently moved in with my gf who is amazing and the best thing ever to happen to me:) the only sad thing is she doesn't toke, she knows i do and even though she doesn't like it she puts up with it. At the mo the current weed market were i live is pretty dire and everything is contaminated with something these days ya know so i seriously need to get growin again (i have in the past).

It would be really great if some of you knowlegable people would help me with putting together an argument to convince her to let me grow 3 or 4 plants in her apartment, and maybe even convince her that weed isn't that bad after all. if she says know i will not push the matter cause its her place but i really think there isn't much risk of getting busted if i keep things on a small scale which i intend to do

[jaGerbom]

get her high, that should convince her that growing has got to happen.

[slipknotpsycho]

relationships are about respect.... sorry dude, but if she's not ok with it, she's not ok with it..... you may talk your way into getting her to let you do so, but that doesn't mean she's ok with it. that's all i really have to say on the subject, and don't take it wrong, it's nothing negative i'm just giving my input on the situation..

and i well know where you're coming from as i was trying to convince someone to let me grow... i had the permission, then when it came time to start buying the setup they changed their mind..... (just incase you think i'm saying that because i can grow and you can't so i don't understand your frustration, there's even a thread about it if you don't believe me, or was..)

anyways.... it's up to you, that's just my opinion on the subject..

[savagepossum]

ok well thanks any way mate but i'm not gonna give up just yet.

[chodelow]

I agree with slipknot. besides, it's her apartment and she would be held accountable if anything happend even if you tried to take all the responsability. my advice is to find somewhere else, or grow outdoors.

[slipknotpsycho]

have you thought about guriella growing?

of course it comes with an inherent risk of someone stumbling across your grow... but far less liablity..

[HighTillIDie]

hommie.... don't grow... you are basically fucked... you have a potential breakup narc, as well... it's her crib... she isn't even properly weed educated... i wouldn't... unless you can really really hide that shit... but it is her place, so good luck... you should have your own place anyways dude... duh

you could try telling her how in all honesty you stand more of a chance being busted out on the streets than in your own home, where your rights are far more superior... 3-4 plants stand next to no chance of being detected, unless narc'd on

[savagepossum]

well i don't think i can be bothered with gorilla growing seeming as it would probably get nicked . I really really wanna grow though and its not just for the weed, i enjoy watching the plant grow and designing new setups and all things in involved with learning from the experiance of growing such a versitile plant, but in the end if i don't convince her i will probably just start using ******* cause i know there legit just takes ages to arrive.

[twoguysupnorth]

i would have said the same as hightill did. explain the advantages of not having to buy from other people. its safer as long as you dont talk to much to anybody about it. show her some sites on how much less harmfull pot is than alcohol or cigarettes even. you might not persuade her to smoke, but that really isnt the question.

[thcbongman]

I don't think it's a good idea regardless.

She wouldn't be as street-smart to the cause. Since she's responsible for what's going on, it's quite a risky proposition you are asking, regardless of how stealth the set-up. Strange things happen.

[king of the world]

move back out and get your own crib. problem solved

thank you, thank you! *bows to the audience*

[pass_the_dubbie]

Yeah it's her place so you have to respect that if she doesnt want it to happen you shouldnt do it. Also what kind of area are you living in? My best friend lives with his girlfriend in an alright flat, thing is its beside a crappy estate and nextdoor to a pub. Some people broke into the flat once so they could go through and break into the pub. My friend didnt wanna phone the police because he was in the middle of growing and didnt want his crop being snatched.
No other possible places you could grow?

[Tea Party]

Is your girlfriend your avatar?
If so, do what she says. :D
If not, then you have bigger problems to worry about...:thumbsup:

[smokingskeleton]

Dude I know how bad our weed market is atm..(UK weed market)
But you've got the risk of all her friends coming over and accidently happening on your little uns. Then you got aload of un street wise girls knowing about your stash...Its just to dangerous. Especially if ganja gets reclassified to B

Plus a flat usually isn't that big...I don't think a none stoner chick would take to kindly to valuable space that she could fill with junk being taken up by some plants...Sorry dude my advice is don't do it.


have you thought about guriella growing?

Dude do you know what UK weather is like? Our weather is famous for being shit.