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partyguy420
08-06-2007, 07:08 PM
theres this girl that i dated... ohh about a year ago... we dated for about 2 or 3 days... and then my sister broke us up... like my sister walked up to the charra(the girl) and said that i wanted to break up with her.... and then my sister came over to me, and said charra wants to break up with you... so we walked our seperate ways... and just left it with that...

we were friends befor all we started dating... and we hung out with each other after the break up, but then i started dating another girl(deborah) and deborah hated the fact that i was hanging out with my ex... so we just sort of drifted apart....

then i broke up with deborah... and a week latter, i started dating charras best friend kirsty... and we dated for about a month, maybe 2 months... befor i got in a fight and threatend to kill the guy... turned out, this guy was her cusian... so once agin, we walked our seperate ways... but while we were dating, charra started being seen with me alot more... and one day, we ended up in each other art class... and for some reason, the art teacher put us right next to each other... and we were talking about what had happend in the past, and she asks me, so why did you break up with me anyways... and i was like what? i didnt break up with you, vikki said you wanted to break up with me...

and after that, we started hanging out a little bit more.. but she was dating some one else... so you know, i would flirt with her and what not, but just sort of teasing her... never letting her actualy do anything with me... that was until i went back and ended up with deborah...

quit hanging out with her to please deborah... but after i got out of jail and treatment, i got on my myspace... and she starts sending me messages saying shit like i love you... i miss you... i want to hang out with you so fucking bad... so you know, i go and im hanging out with her... and she ends up telling me, when me and my boyfriend break up, i want to hang out with you in a more friendly way... and so yesterday, i call her up, to say happy birthday to her... and jokingly i say so... do you want me to strip at your birthday party... ill let you pay me, by giving you birthday sex... and she replys when i break up with my boyfriend(in a non jokingly way...) and so i ask her when that will be... and she says i dont know...

so i guess why i dont understand girls and women, is because shes saying she loves me, and shes always wanting to hang out with me... yet, she still has a boyfriend...and she wont break up with him... so why the fuck dose she say she loves me....(no its not a friendly sort of i love you... i asked her about it... and she told me, its love love, that shes expresing to me...

cannabisis4for20
08-06-2007, 07:12 PM
First things first, call up Laguna beach and sell that script.

action.420
08-06-2007, 08:32 PM
ahahahaha,

no one understands them... I just hope I can find one that excepts me for me... I find nowadays wayyyy too many girls are materalistic, interested in the most boring things possible ( mtv, e entertainment, etc. ), and just plain boring to chill with. Maybe im just hanging around the wrong crowd of girls.... Sorry just had to rant. :wtf:

GraziLovesMary
08-06-2007, 08:49 PM
Dude she dated you for three days and yall have been hanging out on and off for a year.. right? And shes telling you she loves you??? I cant be certain but that sounds like high school romance to me, and Im not trying to put you down in any way, it just sounds very young. Neither of you know what the hell you want.. she has a boyfriend she wont break up with, and shes telling you she loves you. You have been cycling through the same three girls, ditching one for the other, then that one for yet another..

Forget all of them, and figure out exactly what the fuck YOU want. Then go out and do your thing. Dont go looking for it, you wont find it that way, just be aware of it so that when it finds YOU, you will recognize for what it is. Good luck.

HighTillIDie
08-06-2007, 08:52 PM
i would definately get some new new

imitator
08-06-2007, 09:48 PM
Thats why I always fuck em and leave em.

Im always like, "Get out of my bed poontang, before you suck the life out of me."

*sigh* Never would I have suspected such great words of wisdom to come from a gay elementary school teacher who had a sex change.

crudemood
08-06-2007, 10:23 PM
too much drama..!

cannabisis4for20
08-06-2007, 10:35 PM
Is is your sister older than you? If she is you should try to hook up with some of her friends.

blazed_babe
08-06-2007, 10:42 PM
drama drama drama

honestly, i couldn't get past the first couple of paragraphs. too much drama, too many names of people i don't know to try and understand what's going on, the whole thing is just super confusing.

i agree with cannabis4for20 - call up laguna beach and sell that script to them.

locomark
08-07-2007, 03:58 AM
I'm with imitator.

Blindman0v0
08-07-2007, 05:22 AM
If you got a 14 inch dick move on if you gotta squat to pee you probably should stick with what you can get.

partyguy420
08-08-2007, 06:35 AM
Dude she dated you for three days and yall have been hanging out on and off for a year.. right? And shes telling you she loves you??? I cant be certain but that sounds like high school romance to me, and Im not trying to put you down in any way, it just sounds very young. Neither of you know what the hell you want.. she has a boyfriend she wont break up with, and shes telling you she loves you. You have been cycling through the same three girls, ditching one for the other, then that one for yet another..

Forget all of them, and figure out exactly what the fuck YOU want. Then go out and do your thing. Dont go looking for it, you wont find it that way, just be aware of it so that when it finds YOU, you will recognize for what it is. Good luck.

weve been ''friends'' for longer then a year... weve known each other since i was 14 or so...

and i know what i want... i just want to pootang... i dont care about love... i learnt love just fucks you up... it makes it to hard to leave the girl... when you love them...

imitator
08-08-2007, 02:42 PM
weve been ''friends'' for longer then a year... weve known each other since i was 14 or so...

and i know what i want... i just want to pootang... i dont care about love... i learnt love just fucks you up... it makes it to hard to leave the girl... when you love them...

Cynical, if not true to a point, sure.

Poontang is poontang.

That being said, dont ruin anything you might have with said person or those around them, just for a peice of ass.

GraziLovesMary
08-08-2007, 08:50 PM
weve been ''friends'' for longer then a year... weve known each other since i was 14 or so...

and i know what i want... i just want to pootang... i dont care about love... i learnt love just fucks you up... it makes it to hard to leave the girl... when you love them...

If all you want is pussy then stop trying to take the "I give a fuck about you" route. Go out and get some god damn strange instead of pressuring a female friend of yours to break up with her boyfriend just so you can love her and leave her. Be a man about it.

EbelEyes
08-09-2007, 10:40 AM
If all you want is pussy then stop trying to take the "I give a fuck about you" route. Go out and get some god damn strange instead of pressuring a female friend of yours to break up with her boyfriend just so you can love her and leave her. Be a man about it.

QFT

And as for the "I love you" thing going on...

sounds like Puppy Love.

spliffstar22
08-09-2007, 04:44 PM
maybe shes looking for the right time or a reason to break it off with her BF.........either way it seems like she just wants to fuck, so fuck her, and fuck her good, "chill" with her one day, and if you do things right, it'll lead to a fuck......just watch a movie or something(at your house), under a blanket, get close to her, then wait for that point when you both look into eachothers eyes, and make a move, see what happens.......if she really "loves" you, she'll fuck........lol try it.........whats the worst that could happen

imitator
08-09-2007, 07:17 PM
maybe shes looking for the right time or a reason to break it off with her BF.........either way it seems like she just wants to fuck, so fuck her, and fuck her good, "chill" with her one day, and if you do things right, it'll lead to a fuck......just watch a movie or something(at your house), under a blanket, get close to her, then wait for that point when you both look into eachothers eyes, and make a move, see what happens.......if she really "loves" you, she'll fuck........lol try it.........whats the worst that could happen

You lose a close friend you have known for a yr+, all because you wanted to bust a nut.

spliffstar22
08-09-2007, 07:51 PM
^^^ lol, not really, if she says she loves him in a non-friend typa way, thats sorta sayin, lets fuck lol

imitator
08-09-2007, 08:25 PM
^^^ lol, not really, if she says she loves him in a non-friend typa way, thats sorta sayin, lets fuck lol

Considering they are young and in highschool, its likely.

But "loving in a non friend type way" != "fuck my brains out right here infront of everyone".

Personally I just value friends and those close to me more then nutting, but thats just me.

Hilder420
08-10-2007, 04:13 AM
dude, you need a fuck buddy. no strings. no drama. no feelings. no problem. worked for me for years. some girls are cool about it like me!