hey guys a little help PLEASE

[KoTToNMouThChRiS]

you guys are the first people i came to, well me and my girlfriend of abou 7 and a half months broke up, ya know the awesome one who bought me a bubbler grinder with kief catcher and now a new glass on glass bong i guess she just wasnt happy anymore deep down i guess i wasnt either and this way its best but it still hurts alot i have no clue what im gonna do now i havent been a single day without her in over a year
sorry for the rant, i need to vent thanks guys

[BabyFacedAbortion]

The hardest, but most effective way to get over someone is to completely erase them from your life. I hate to say it but that's what I've learned. I'm sorry hon, I know it hurts :(

[KoTToNMouThChRiS]

i know that too but i dont want to i dont think i can

[jdub61]

The hardest, but most effective way to get over someone is to completely erase them from your life. I hate to say it but that's what I've learned. I'm sorry hon, I know it hurts :(

i don't recommend that.
that happened to me with a relationship at the start of my 12th grade year, it took me a good six months to recover from her.
but hard times are hat friends are for. hang out with your friends, smoke up some, have a good time, try to remain friends with her and maybe you'll start back up again but at least try not to lose her for good, i hate it when breakups drive people apart.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I don't see why remaining friends and potentially having to deal with her getting another boyfriend would be a good thing BUT to each his own, I don't know you or her or the situation so...good luck :(

[friendowl]

jdub i have to disagree
whens its over its over ...fuck friendship

hey cottonmouth
learn to deal with this pain
as you get older it wil get less and less painfull
till one day you wont ever feel that way again

you have grown dependant on her [not your fault]

[work out and focus on school]

[halfassedjediknight]

The hardest, but most effective way to get over someone is to completely erase them from your life.

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[ACosmicVillain]

That sucks, man.

But as someone already mentioned friends will help.

(And I'm sure pot will, too. :-D)

But hang in there.

[zino11]

dont see her dont speak to her and dont look at any pics of her erase her its hard but in time itll get better

[scStOnEr]

dont see her dont speak to her and dont look at any pics of her erase her its hard but in time itll get better

Second that.

[Thepossumdance]

say something to her like "when you have kids... im going to eat them all Hannibal style"

then she wont wanna be near u anymore

[GraziLovesMary]

The hardest, but most effective way to get over someone is to completely erase them from your life. I hate to say it but that's what I've learned. I'm sorry hon, I know it hurts :(

Worked great for me, but it depends on each persons situation I guess.

[420MissHighTimes420]

Sorry man, loosing someone is really tough, I have found the best way to move on is to 1.Keep bussy 2.Find someone new (you should wait a little for that though) 3.Wait it out, time heals ... sort of, who am I to talk? It takes me forever and a day to get over a dead relationship.

[cannabis campbell]

Im sorry about that mate im sure we all know how shit you can feel when that happens but it happens to everyone..

Im sorry but i have to agree with BFA, what she said is true the best way to get over them is completely erase them from your life, pretend they dont exist and never did delete all the phone numbers etc so you have no way in getting in contact with them.

[OniEhtRedrum781]

It'll pass, it always does.

Trust me, it hurts a-fuckin'-lot at first, but then when you met an amazing new girl that puts the other one to shame, you won't care as much.. believe me i know :thumbsup:

[thcbongman]

Time always heal wounds and they grow to scars. You get use to them, and eventually, you'll live free with them. We all get scars, and they become apart of you. The experience of those scars define who you are. So move on, and find something to occupy your time. Easier said than done, but you gotta try.

[CantSeeMyLittleEyes]

I know how it feels bro, it's terrible. My ex was my best friend for almost a year before we went out, and now it's like we don't even talk.

It's a horrible thing to go through, but to get over her you really are going to have to cut her out of your life until you're over it, then you can gradually introduce her back into your life, and hopefully become friends again.

Trust me, even the smallest things, like going to her facebook, sucked me right back in and put me back where I started. You gotta just not see her, talk to her, think about her. I know, it's easier said than done. It took me months to get over my ex, but just know that in time you will feel better. As cliche as it sounds, you WILL find somebody else, your life isn't over. Just try to be with your friends as much as you can, and when your mind starts to wander to "what could have been," stop yourself. It can do nothing but hurt you.

I wish you the best of luck man, feel better.

[rebgirl420]

Drop her and her image like a rock. Your not going to feel better revisiting her thoughts in your mind. Meanwhile, find something constructive to do to keep your mind at bay. But sitting and stewing isnt going to help your cause. But replacing her right away wont help either. Just take some time for yourself and some friends.

[geonagual]

It took me over 6 months to finally somewhat get over this one girl. I loved her more than I have loved any..unfortunately, I still think and dream of her occasionally.

But the best to do is what BFA says..just rid your life of her and move on.

[GraziLovesMary]

i have to agree with BFA thats how i've solved those problems, but chances are you wont compltely get over her if it was as good as you seem to say, but i dont think theres any other way that works as good.

just hang in there everything gets worse before it gets better

Not true at all man.. The girl I was with for almost 4 years was the one I knew I was going to marry and spend the rest of my life with. It was a nearly perfect relationship until her childish ass got sucked in by another mans sweet talk. I broke up with her when I realized she was cheating on me, and I was over her in a week and a half. Completely over her. Granted it was made easier for me, but still... thats a fuckin betrayal and a half. I trusted her, I didnt ask questions, go through her phone, any of that shit. But in the long run, things happen for a reason.

I have never loved anybody like I once loved her, but I was still able to shut it completely off after a week and a half. And I dont want to hear any talk about "you must not be over her then.. you dont know what youre talking about.. blahblahblah" No. I dont even hate her. Shes just... dead. A ghost. An almost completely faded memory.

[geonagual]

I am with you on that..
I could be over her in less than a week if I was betrayed. LOL

[GraziLovesMary]

Right? She did me a favor big time! Made it real easy on me lol

[Reefer Rogue]

I feel for you bro, i've been going out with my current g/f for 2 months 2day actually. We were supposed to chill, but she txts me saying she can't and gives no reason.. I can feel the breakup coming, it whether i try and stick it out for her hotness and accept her break up on me. Or take initiative and just dump her. I did this before and ended up regretting it later, which is why i'm leaning to letting her do it. However, she's been pissin me off lately, she's so damn quiet and prude. It's like talking to a dumb brick wall some times. Anyway your rant made me rant lol.

[2600HERTZ]

I think it is important to give it time and use that time to reflect on the thigns that went wrong and what qualities you do or do not like about the person you wee just with.

Use it as a learning experience and dont try to force it away. Because it could lead to learning enough that your net relationship ends up being the one.

[mesoto]

Maybe I'm insensitive, but things like this seem kind of stupid to me. While it works, go for it. When it doesn't, move on. Regret never got anyone anywhere. You learn the lessons life teaches you so you can use them next time. And there's always a next time.

[az666]

The hardest, but most effective way to get over someone is to completely erase them from your life. I hate to say it but that's what I've learned. I'm sorry hon, I know it hurts :(


I have had to do that aswell, it is really hard but it was the only way I was going to be able to cope with the way I was feeling.

Then on the other hand I have split up with guys and remained very good friends. I still like them, I found the hard part was coming to terms with the fact that you won't be able to have anything other than close friendship. But we know each other really well, there is still the trust there.

I guess it really depends on your situation.
If you remain friends and things are out of control in your head then I suggest you take a little break from each other, maybe go on holiday for a week or something.

Sorry to hear of your situation. Best of luck.