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CanaBliss
12-31-2004, 03:15 AM
I seem to have been losing alot of friends since I started smoking the greens and shit..anybody else experience this problem?

Syrus
12-31-2004, 03:21 AM
Yer but (if its like me) the new friends you meet through smoking weed will be much better.

And its usualy the hypocrits who think weed is evil but drinknig stupid amounts of larger are safe.

CanaBliss
12-31-2004, 03:26 AM
Yea I hear ya, its like what Schmuck said to me....stoners will either be bitter and quiet or socially peaceful as fuck...either one is a good friend lol..

Climbing High
12-31-2004, 03:44 AM
for me smoking weed is why i have friends. i just moved to a new town and i went about a year with only a few friends. then last year i started smoking and once people knew i smoked, they started inviting me to parties and shit. now i have more friends then i can keep track of, i owe it all to MJ. also the cool poeple im hanging out with have hooked me up with other shit, like mushrooms and salvia. cannabliss, dont worry about losing friends, theres always more people out, and most of them will be alot cooler. peace.

FrenchInhale
12-31-2004, 03:55 AM
I seem to have been losing alot of friends since I started smoking the greens and shit..anybody else experience this problem?

Fuck people that stop being your friend because you smoke... those aren't friends.

juggalo420
12-31-2004, 04:01 AM
im lucky i hadnt lost 1 friend since i started smoking, they all smoke too.

Hektik
12-31-2004, 04:50 AM
For me its total opp, hella more friends. Family :D

Trace Evidence
12-31-2004, 07:39 AM
to make myself not a hypocrit, there are alot of people i dont wanna associate with who smoke pot, they give us a bad name, and b4 i researched the topic 2 of the kids we hung out became total pot heads. and now ive slightly started talking to agian, but its only like at lunch thats it. these people are stupid, and hanging around them will get u caught, these kinda kids cut class to go smoke, and they come in shit faced, and talk about gettin high all the time, i love pot, but u gotta be smart about it. its those kind of people who give the rest of us a bad name.

Buck268
12-31-2004, 08:39 AM
I've always went through freinds quick... Only freinds I can hang onto are ones I keep distanced. Hell, I would only call 1 person my freind right now, but we are really just toke buddies. Fuck it man, ain't nobody around here I wanna be freinds with! Maybe MTU will treat me better...

naturalmystic
12-31-2004, 04:04 PM
i hear ya, i used to be part of this group, and we did everything. We hung out like every weekend and shit. But we never smoked. Then a few of us started smoking and some people left the group, some people started smoking, then stopped, some people still smoke. Now, i dont have many people to hang out with, when im with them, they either hang out with people i dont like, or i feel uncomfortable around. So i decided, i don't really need to be socializing that much now, i gotta concentrate on my school work.

Mello.as.Hello
12-31-2004, 07:46 PM
When you've got weed, EVERYONE'S your friend!! :p

I agree.. People who ditch you JUST cause you smoke can fuck off. Friends come and go- but I say take life as it comes. Just smile, and keep on toking; I doubt you'll be too lonely.

When you think you have to work for your friends, you're trying too hard, man. Chill out, and focus on girls, like you're supposta. :D

powair
01-03-2005, 10:12 PM
You lose the friendship of people who arent worth it anyway, then you make a lot of really authentic, great friends that also smoke weed.

hydro420
01-04-2005, 12:28 AM
i hear ya, i used to be part of this group, and we did everything. We hung out like every weekend and shit. But we never smoked. Then a few of us started smoking and some people left the group, some people started smoking, then stopped, some people still smoke. Now, i dont have many people to hang out with, when im with them, they either hang out with people i dont like, or i feel uncomfortable around. So i decided, i don't really need to be socializing that much now, i gotta concentrate on my school work.



same here. i used to hang out w/ some kids all the time but then i started hanging out w/ other kids that r just as sweet as the originals but the funnest time ever is when all of us get together and party.

slipknotpsycho
01-04-2005, 12:38 PM
well lets see i've never really been much of a people person....matter of fact i had like 2 people you could call friends all the way up to age 13...everyone else eventually stabbed me in the back one way or another.......(since this has happened i generally will not give people the slightest chance of getting near me unless they smoke weed because....well i just trust TRUE stoners...not some lil kid who smokes a bowl and thinks he's a druggie) but since i've started smoking i've steadily gained and lost friends..it's all been good times.....people change and move on.....just keep the ones around who smoke pot and anyone else that is a LOYAL friend and fuck the rest....i've only got two loyal friends...and a bunch of stoner buddies.....best part about this....don't have to get all sad if one of your "freidns" moves away or something. just find a new smoke partner.

adh endo
01-04-2005, 01:47 PM
im too late, its all up above this post already.

i lost my best mate (stoner) partly because of arguments about drugs..
i was pissed off at always shouting him sessions, and he was pissed off about me lying about the size of my stash and shit, and basically he stopped trusting me and i stopped always carrying bud for him to smoke and oops, shit, we aint best mates no more...

put the friendship before the drug that sticks it together i think is the moral.

adh endo
01-04-2005, 01:48 PM
but When you've got weed, EVERYONE'S your friend!!

Mello.as.Hello
01-04-2005, 09:07 PM
When you've got weed, EVERYONE'S your friend!! :p

Somehow I get the feeling I've heard that before... ;)

EciRonTog
01-05-2005, 02:42 AM
I seem to have been losing alot of friends since I started smoking the greens and shit..anybody else experience this problem?

Are you saying that these friends like all of a sudden went ??I don??t want to hang around with you any more because you smoke? or that you just kinda indirectly noticed that you were losing friends since you started smoking?

Friends come and go, but I??ve never had a friend stop being my friend just because I smoke weed. Granted though, not all my friends know?

hydro420
01-05-2005, 11:56 PM
but When you've got weed, EVERYONE'S your friend!!


altho this is very tru i think it is a bad thing becasue people will just hang out w/ u to smoke up YOUR weed and either put a tiny bit down or nothin at all and then they just leave. they r not truely ur freind. to me that is just a waste of good bud. thats just what i think. anyone else w/ me?

Trace Evidence
01-06-2005, 12:39 AM
well in some of friends that leave defense, once people start smoking pot, they (most) seem to talk about it, and talk about how things could be better high and simialar things, and the truth is if u dont do it, u dont wanna hear about it, some of my friends shoot heroin and they talk about it all the time. and i fucking hate it, they let the drug control their life. weed is alot different than heroin, but we still do talk about it. its like having a friend that is a girl, and u and ur friends start talking about cars and cars only all the time, and how and what engine is better, shes gonna hang out with u less because shes not into that. it makes perfect sense. There are friends i talk about weed with, but when the other friends are there, we talk about other things. pretty much all my friends are still my friend and i think thats why because i dont accidentally exclude them from the group by making them feel like outcasts. the only friends i loose are the pot fucks ur life up people and whatever fuck them

AbbaZabba
01-06-2005, 02:42 AM
I have maybe 2 friends from elementery school that i still hang out with. One smokes and the other doesn't but were still best friends. Ever since i started smoking i make like 2 new friends every month. Belive me man the friends u will make will most likely be 10 times cooler then the friends u had.

Chongzbongz
01-07-2005, 06:15 PM
ive encountered that problem myself and about 2 months after me and him stopped bein friends he started smoking dope too so it kinda pissed me off.. but my advice to u is to wait until he tries it then gets hookd then smoke with him... worked for me and me and him are good buddies and we get baked almost everyday now... :)

Midnight Baker
12-12-2005, 04:25 AM
When mary jane is around good times will be had by all. Friends will come and go for whatever reasons. But i have found that since smoking weed the people that i've met are very interesting characters. They're alot nicer as well, instead of the friends that can become the mean drunks that want to fight all the time...i hate baby sitting mean drunks. i love baby sitting light weight drinkers they're so damn funny!

halo
12-12-2005, 04:43 AM
I kinda know what you mean. My x best friend (one of my best friends) was a huge stoner. He pretty much got me into it. Anyways on my birthday i had him over and he brought some weed with him. At about 2 a.m. me and him went upstairs to my room(my parents have a bedroom on the first floor) and we had about 3 cigs. Then we threw the cigs in the toilet for some idiotic reason. We then smoked weed got high ate cake and forgot about the cigs in the toilet and fell asleep. We woke up and went downstairs and had breakfast and just hung out with some of my other friends who were there. Anyways about 1 o clock my dad went upstairs to his office and when he went to use the bathroom he found the cigs. He came downstairs and was mad at me. Anyways me and my friend were paranoid. After everyone left i had a long talk with both parents about why not to smoke cigarettes and that stuff. Any ways i told my mom that it was me and then i told her which one of my friends it was after she promised not to tell anyone. My friend was freaked out cause his mom sorta knows he does weed and smokes cigs and she said she would have him take a urine analysis test (shes a nurse and works at the hospital). I told one of my other friends i told my mom and eventually it got to my friend who i smoked the cigs and weed with. He was so paranoid that he cut me off and said he fucking hated me cause i told my mom it was him and he thought she was gonna tell his parents (my mom never told his parents) he still hates me and we arent friends anymore. It pisses me off cause at first i felt like i was being an asshole but now i realize he is because he cant forgive me. Anyways thats kinda how smoking made me lose one of my friends. I no longer smoke cigarettes but i do smoke weed whenever i can.

BigBlack81
12-14-2005, 01:50 PM
I've lost friends due to my pot use but honestly, I think most of my friends understand that hating on my pot use when I've pretty much cut every other bad habit I might have done back to NOTHING is rather pointless.

Friends who leave friends because of contreversial choices should always be avoided. We should conduct ourselves well and better and glorify the name of the stoner but we should also have more dignity in choosing friends. Fuck friends who don't give friendship a chance.

PieEyedPiper
12-14-2005, 04:52 PM
A friend with weed is a friend indeed

hammerhead
12-14-2005, 05:22 PM
alot of the people i was friends with smoked occasionally, then when i smoked i met new people, now i have alot of people i wouldnt have met if i didnt smoke. dont worry, you will find friends soon enough

Not Enough Herb
12-14-2005, 07:39 PM
ive lost many friends due to drugs like coke and e

and frankly i dont give a fuck

they werent freinds to begin with

if sumone has a problem with what ur putting into ur own body i say fuck em

smoke crack, shoot herion, light up a fat blunt, pop pills and wash it down with a 40oz of vodka

people who do drugs are generally more fun and easy to get along with then the sober people

later

xplodingmonkey1
12-14-2005, 09:01 PM
my old set of friends were the kind of people who had to have everything their way. If something was just a little bit different, they would say it was stupid or retarted. it started to piss me off when they would say things like get a haircut and that i was a dumbass because i was different. And of corse they would say that people were stupid because they just looked like they used they used drugs. if u cant act natural around ur friends you should say fuck em all and find better ones. i am alot happier this way

Dankmike
12-14-2005, 09:04 PM
yeah i used to be a prep then a skater and now a stoner but a prep and skater aint me im found were i belong. and if your old friends dont like it screw them and chill with the your new smoking buddies.

NightProwler
12-14-2005, 11:43 PM
i lost some shit-friends and made the best friend in the world

Gecko
12-15-2005, 01:34 AM
None of my non-smoking friends really care. They're just like "You stupid pot-head." But I know they mean it in a playful matter. They couldn't care less if I smoked. But they won't let me do hardcore drugs they say. :)

I have the friends who smoke occasionally and we'll smoke whenever there's a free time.

And then I have a tight group of like 4 friends who whenever we get togethor it's like a big drug fest with just nothing but drugs all day. Those are the best days.

mikomomma
12-15-2005, 02:00 AM
I have been very honest with people about my use. I dont' ever lie about it. Many times when you lose friends or in my case when I am pissed at my husband it is about dishonesty,not the drug.
I have only lost a couple of people in my life because of my choice to smoke, but they all drank like crazy, so it wasn't a loss to me. The judge me but not themselves. Their excuse was mine was illegal.

Aristotle
12-15-2005, 02:07 AM
I attribute to me not being sheltered, a lot more street smart, tougher, and more confident all to marijuana. Before I smoked, I'll openly admit, my weekends were often spent playing Xbox Live.

I was hella good at Xbox Live, though..

Reefer Rogue
12-15-2005, 01:08 PM
I don't think i've ever lost friends by smoking weed, i've made plenty of new friends though.

Kryzco
12-15-2005, 07:32 PM
As for me, I used to be the person who hated pot and was brainshwashed by all the crap they feed us everyday, but my friend taught me to not knock it until I try it, and now its the best thing that has ever happened to me, I lost a couple of friends, but thats on them if they can't accept it, I didn't even smoke around them, or even be high around them. But hey shit happens, and now I've made a shit load of friends, and I have even became friends with some of my former enemies.


Weed brings people together :rasta: :dance:

and like most of the people here, the people who disliked me smoking were also hardcore drinkers

I don't get why most drinkers think they are morally superior to a marijuana smoker