Signs that he/she likes you

[crudemood]

I know alot of you have experience in relationships, but what of the start of them all? the flirtyness or the fast heart beating..
We know that actions speak louder than words
So tell me guys, what are some signs that someone likes you?

[rebgirl420]

You just have that chemistry. Like you can talk for hours about nothing.

[Ganj]

You just have that chemistry. Like you can talk for hours about nothing.

Phew...I was beginning to feel my conversations with baisez were vain. I always try to kick it up another notch, you know, aim to impress. That is one sign that cannot be overlooked. And that is, when a person makes a conscious effort to impress by doing something for the one they are attracted to.

[OniEhtRedrum781]

If they go out of their way to do you a favor or chill with you, that's usually a good sign...

[partcleguy]

Body language is huge with attraction for example:

Eye contact and lots of it and/or gazing at the person
Imitating the person you like (consciously or unconsciously)
Touching (something as simple as a hand on a shoulder etc.)
Smiling
I can't smell but I've heard its part of the whole thing hehe

[higher4hockey]

the girl that im seeing now when we first met it was like a welding rod to steel. we were at a party and everyone there could tell that we were hitting it off quite well.


when you know, you know.

[stinkyattic]

When a guy humps your leg, its possible that he likes you....

[ericwt]

When a guy humps your leg, its possible that he likes you....

I cant believe you said that.:D

[stinkyattic]

I cant believe you said that.

You don't know me very well then! hahahaha I was trying to post on that sack-pinching thread too but it was locked... shit!!!! :D

[ericwt]

If you rub our tummies we shake our back legs.

Why is it the funnest threads get locked?

[stinkyattic]

Because.....

[ericwt]

Anyone heard anything about exposed or open wrists?

I think I read about that somewhere. Supposedly if someone likes you they uncounciously show open palms or wrists.

Sorry about the hijack.

I just think locking treads prevents people from telling others what idiots they are. I do know Stinky enough to know what she would have said to the bag pincher's.

Back to sex

[stinkyattic]

I like the wrist thing. It's like a dog showing its belly- a sign of vulnerability.t

okay if we have to be serious here, if I like someone, I'll really lean in to hear what they are saying, and maybe touch their arm as I'm talking back... I think that really paying attention to the conversation is a sign of at the very least a good communication, and that is a real turn on IMO.

sack pinching... lol..
I was gonna tell them if they want to pinch someones' sack, they should do it to their own, in private, and be sure to wash they hands before touching food, lol....

[Nightcrewman]

If she asks to sit on your face its a good sign that she likes you:)


NCM

[Skink]

When you get stalked...

[go toke up]

When you get stalked...

lmao. thats quite a sign.:stoned:

[FreeVenice]

I don't really take hints to well, but one that was slways a dead give away for me. Is when the girl gets territorial/defencive of you when you barly know them. it can happen in the smallest way, like defending you when your not around. . . It's funny when I see that. Other than that happening, I would need some freakin smoke signals or something. . .But you wil know if i like you for sure lol

[crudemood]

Oh, I have one, they'll make excuses to be around you all the time..

[couch-potato]

If they offer you oral sex that's a pretty sure sign right there. But not always.

[cannabis=freedom]

I don't really take hints to well, but one that was slways a dead give away for me. Is when the girl gets territorial/defencive of you when you barly know them. it can happen in the smallest way, like defending you when your not around. . . It's funny when I see that. Other than that happening, I would need some freakin smoke signals or something. . .But you wil know if i like you for sure lol

I know exactly what you're saying, man....I always get blindsided. There could be a girl absolutely in love with me and I won't know until someone says something. I guess maybe we're just kind of afraid to see the signs, you know what I mean?

[Dro_Princess]

I can tell by the eyes and body language. The eyes are very important. Are they constantly looking back into your eyes or are their eyes wandering around. Are they smiling with their eyes or do they look empty? Body lanugage is also a good one. Do they always stand close to you or are they a step back, do they smile at you alot, or lean toward you when they are takling to you. Their are all kinds of different things that you can pick up on when you look for signs.

[greenvoodoo]

she likes you if she unlocks your car door for you when your about to get in

if she doesnt unlock it for you she's a tramp.

[Skink]

I they invite you over for coffee like everyday...


My neighbor calls me Dearest and sends me cards saying that she is only a phone call away if I need anything... What to you think???

[cannabis=freedom]

Skink, if your neighbour is under 50 and doesn't have an excessive amount of cats, I say shag her.

[Its a Plant]

she likes you if she unlocks your car door for you when your about to get in

if she doesnt unlock it for you she's a tramp.
:S2: LOL that was funny for some reason...

I suppose once she burns rubber after never unlocking the door and peels out, you probably aren't going anywhere. At least not in her car, with her. ~

[Skink]

Skink, if your neighbour is under 50 and doesn't have an excessive amount of cats, I say shag her.

Oh crap,,,it's like you know me... She is pushing 50 " really don't know the age" and she is a cat rescuer with like 15...

[slowlickitysplit]

I'm with Dro on this one. It's all in the eyes, the smile and the body language. Sometimes I can tell by the way she swings the handcuffs as well.

- Slow -

[birdgirl73]

I agree about the eyes, the smile and the body language, too. A little more eye contact than usual seemed to be the sign with my husband. He kept trying to catch my eye, and then he also hung around a lot, flirting and saying nice things. He was also very on the spot about opening doors, lifting heavy objects, etc. Very keen on demonstrating that he was a gentleman, which, in comparison to the guys in college, made him seem older and more sophisticated.

[FreeVenice]

I know exactly what you're saying, man....I always get blindsided. There could be a girl absolutely in love with me and I won't know until someone says something. I guess maybe we're just kind of afraid to see the signs, you know what I mean?

Ya I hear you, it's like you kinda don't know what to do about it so you never realy react to it. . .

[Dave Byrd]

I kept my eyes glued to her ass everytime she walked away, and when she'd turn around, she'd catch me drooling with a glazed look on my face. I sent you a good many flowers, too, didn't I, Birdie?

[cleric998]

when you find a shrine set up to you with a wedding picture with both your faces pasted onto it as the main part of worship.

[Peruvian Devil]

she likes you if she unlocks your car door for you when your about to get in

that's from A Bronx Tale aint it?, I prefer the Mario test tho, take her on you car for a ride, when there is another guy on a car next to you and he's lookin at your girl, take her head and try to make her suck you off, if she does it shes a tramp and you should dump her, if not shes a lady:thumbsup:.

[420MissHighTimes420]

It's deffinantly all body langauge, it's good when someone sits facing you, playing with there hair, or ear lobes alot, I also heard about the open palms/wrists one ...
Oh yeah and its stupid but when a girl (or at least me) waits a couple of days to call you its coz she doesnt want to seem desprit, but with my guy friends I will call them 4 times a day if I feel like it. But if I started to like that guy friend I would call him like every two days and get mad if he didnt call me.

[sharingscaring]

You can feel it, i mean that when the engery between 2 people is so strong(the old saying follow your heart, its true) that the only way to muck it up is buy not acting on your feelings.

Having said that..........stalkers this does not apply to you!

[geonagual]

I don't really take hints to well, but one that was slways a dead give away for me. Is when the girl gets territorial/defencive of you when you barly know them. it can happen in the smallest way, like defending you when your not around. . . It's funny when I see that. Other than that happening, I would need some freakin smoke signals or something. . .But you wil know if i like you for sure lol

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It is one of the few things that I cannot read on women..I am usually clueless. I kind of like it that way..HAHA

[crudemood]

It's deffinantly all body langauge, it's good when someone sits facing you, playing with there hair, or ear lobes alot, I also heard about the open palms/wrists one ...
Oh yeah and its stupid but when a girl (or at least me) waits a couple of days to call you its coz she doesnt want to seem desprit, but with my guy friends I will call them 4 times a day if I feel like it. But if I started to like that guy friend I would call him like every two days and get mad if he didnt call me.

Can anybody elaborate on that? I've never heard of that one before..

[Skink]

Can anybody elaborate on that? I've never heard of that one before..

I think I saw that on a discovery channel show once... if person opens their hand toward you it is suppose to be some kind of acceptance...

[geonagual]

I think I saw that on a discovery channel show once... if person opens their hand toward you it is suppose to be some kind of acceptance...

What if they wag their tail? or lick your feet?
I think that is a form of acceptance also.

[Skink]

I think when it looks like a guy has a banana in his pocket is a good sign too...

[rebgirl420]

I think I saw that on a discovery channel show once... if person opens their hand toward you it is suppose to be some kind of acceptance...

also if your knees face someone that means your feelin' them

[PureEvil760]

is scratching the left side of thier head/face with thier left hand a good thing or a bad thing..im thinking its good because the male usually walks and sleeps on a womans left side.

[RedRainDrop]

I don't really take hints to well, but one that was slways a dead give away for me. Is when the girl gets territorial/defencive of you when you barly know them.

The other day this girl slapped me like 10 times i didnt even know who the fuck she was, and she kept saying i called her a slut, when i didnt even talk to her...

Either she was a psycho, or she wanted some.


Either way i pushed her down.

[RedRainDrop]

Theres this girl at school i like a shit load, and im pretty sure shes noticed my sign of attraction. She's done some with me as well, but she is 2 years younger, meaning we cant go out (im 18, she is 16). We have this really strong connection though, i can tell, and we have had "soul sparks" before (this means eye contact, resulting in soul connection, and dreaming with that person)

[azure]

also if your knees face someone that means your feelin' them

mm its more the feet, points in the direction of interest / focus. if a girl crosses her legs its the foot thats on the floor that you should focus on.

[jdmarcus59]

after reading what everybody said I forgot the qustion.

but when you are in love you just know it, and if you dont feel that way,

then for God sakes dont get married, I did and waisted 19 years of my life

[crudemood]

I think I saw that on a discovery channel show once... if person opens their hand toward you it is suppose to be some kind of acceptance...

Like fingers pointing towards you like they're showing you something on their palm kind of thing? its hard to imagine seeing as I havent seen anyone do that before.. I don't exactly show my palms when I'm interested in someone I usually flirt verbally that is


mm its more the feet, points in the direction of interest / focus. if a girl crosses her legs its the foot thats on the floor that you should focus on.

Oh really? .. This kind of stuff interests me the human behaviour kind of stuff why people do the things they do or in this case the things people do unconsciously.

[geonagual]

Oh, I know one that I can read very well..HAHA

If she licks her lips and then gives you a sly wink..I think that may mean she likes you. LOL

[420MissHighTimes420]

also if your knees face someone that means your feelin' them

Haha yeah I learned that one from "clueless", and it is true.

[slowlickitysplit]

Theres this girl at school i like a shit load, and im pretty sure shes noticed my sign of attraction. She's done some with me as well, but she is 2 years younger, meaning we cant go out (im 18, she is 16). We have this really strong connection though, i can tell, and we have had "soul sparks" before (this means eye contact, resulting in soul connection, and dreaming with that person)

Dude, don't let the two year age difference stop you. It will be nothing when your in your 30's. Trust me. I was in the same situation at the same age and now, at 46, not going for it is the single biggest regret of my life. Through all the years, all the women, and all the living I have done, I have always wondered...what if...?

- Slow -

[azure]

Oh really? .. This kind of stuff interests me the human behaviour kind of stuff why people do the things they do or in this case the things people do unconsciously.

yea same ive been interested for a few years and have read a fair bit but oberving it in real life is best, it becomes hardwired.. well for me anyway.. if you ever wanna talk about it or the psychology behind it let me know.

[crudemood]

yes azure im actually really interested, maybe you could show me some websites to start off with?

[Coelho]

Like fingers pointing towards you like they're showing you something on their palm kind of thing? its hard to imagine seeing as I havent seen anyone do that before...

its somewhat like this... but its very easy to understand: while standing, bend your elbow until your arm is pointing forward, making a straight angle with your body. Then, rotate your wrist until your palm is upwards. Let your hand loose, so the palm will not be pointing exatctly upwards, but between upwards and forward. Exactly like if you were showing your palm to the person, or if you were giving something that is in your palm. It may seems hard to describe, but im sure you have seen it already.

To the original question... for me, the surest way to know is to observe the person when im stoned. I dont know why, but when im stoned i can read and interpret all kind of body language, i can feel how the people feels, i can almost read their thoughts. It helps me a lot, as i was very clueless when sober. Now i learned somethings when stoned, and try to remember them when im sober, but its hard to describe. My advice is to get stoned, and try to "feel".
Of course reading the signs the people said, as eye contact, showing palms, etc, sometimes works, but just searching for some "standard" signs, without knowing what youre doing seems for me much like following a cooking recipe. Some people dont show this signs so clearly, or show another ones, so i think the best option is observe the person as attentively as you can, so you can know the truth.

[GraziLovesMary]

When you get stalked...

Yeah man Im gonna have to second that one.

[mesoto]

If you're not sure, hold their eyes for two to three seconds, just looking, not doing anything to draw attention. If they hold your gaze, and especially if they smile, they're probably attracted to you, male or female. Try it.

Also,they may instinctively want to block other women/men so see how they react when others flirt with you or you flirt with others. If they pay too much attention, if they purposefully avert their gaze, or if they try to steal your attention, they want you to be theirs.

And lastly, people's lips get redder when they're thinking of sex. It's hard to notice though, unless you have an excuse to stare.

My best advice is to make small advances on them and see if they like it.

[lil josh]

when your talking they will defo be looking at you and when you stop talking whatever facial expressions they made when you were talking will probz linger for abit after :)

[spliffstar22]

for me, it's all in the eyes, i get a girl to look into my eyes, their mine, i dont know why, girls all love me, but when they look into my eyes somethin happens, cant really explain it. Also, if you see the person you like in a crowd, when you lock eyes, it just feels as if you're the only 2 people there, it's weird to explain, it's just a feelin...and if you're together chillin, your eyes lock constantly........