Melkane
05-23-2007, 08:17 PM
I'm just all flustered on what I should do that I just want some other opinions on the events so far. Not like I'm looking for "expert" advice just some other thoughts besides my own on the issue.
This fellow college student/work study absolute gorgeous woman. (in perfect shape, blonde, total knockout, 30 years old most gorgeous smile I??ve ever seen) she just also happens to have a small geek streak in her which is why she is at this tech school. Totally out of my league type. I'm the shy, nerdy fatass guy that probably shouldn't be talking to her let alone trying to date her. I made the stupid mistake of letting myself fall for her (kinda caught me off guard). She is really cool, awesome personality, she's a tomboy but very female at the same time. I from the grapevine had heard that she had recently gotten out of a bad relationship and wasn't seeing anyone. I decided to make the futile attempt to ask her out.
After two weeks of the fates cutting me off literally everytime I thought I had a moment alone with her. I finally got the opportunity. She is a HUGE Madonna fan so I spent an entire weekend downloading EVERY Madonna song/remix for her, burnt them to CDs for her. She was insanely happy to get them (gave me a big unexpected hug). I waited a couple hours so it wouldn??t seem as if I was trying to buy her answer and I asked her out on a date. This is what she said word for word. ??I might actually, but I just got out of a relationship just a few weeks back and I??m not even thinking about that sort of thing right now, give me some time ok?? That was about month and half- two months ago.
I still to this day don??t know how to take that answer. Was it the complete truth? Was it a polite let me down? However since then we??ve talked a lot..well a lot to me. I??ve just recently started making more ??flirtish? type comments/jokes (For instance we both drink Red Bulls almost daily on our break time, I made a ??flyer? that I pinned in her office saying ??Attention all incredibly gorgeous female work studies you have earned a Red Bull please stop by and see ***** in the Bookstore? she??s the only female work study currently?so yeah..) and she finds them funny and sweet. Made her all giggly happy yesterday, brought her a batch of firecrackers after finding out she was into our happy plant.
Problem is she cut back her work study hours here for a second summer job and now I only get to see her one day a week now. She is also not too happy with the job itself and is contemplating quitting if she does that I??ll lose almost all contact with her since our classes are different. I??m not sure if by now if enough time??s past?I can??t read women signals worth a crap so I??m not sure if she is even interested(being this is me, it??s not likely) . I don??t know if I should become more ??aggressive? in trying to get her to go out or flirting, if I should keep being patient or if I should just flat out ask her again.
This fellow college student/work study absolute gorgeous woman. (in perfect shape, blonde, total knockout, 30 years old most gorgeous smile I??ve ever seen) she just also happens to have a small geek streak in her which is why she is at this tech school. Totally out of my league type. I'm the shy, nerdy fatass guy that probably shouldn't be talking to her let alone trying to date her. I made the stupid mistake of letting myself fall for her (kinda caught me off guard). She is really cool, awesome personality, she's a tomboy but very female at the same time. I from the grapevine had heard that she had recently gotten out of a bad relationship and wasn't seeing anyone. I decided to make the futile attempt to ask her out.
After two weeks of the fates cutting me off literally everytime I thought I had a moment alone with her. I finally got the opportunity. She is a HUGE Madonna fan so I spent an entire weekend downloading EVERY Madonna song/remix for her, burnt them to CDs for her. She was insanely happy to get them (gave me a big unexpected hug). I waited a couple hours so it wouldn??t seem as if I was trying to buy her answer and I asked her out on a date. This is what she said word for word. ??I might actually, but I just got out of a relationship just a few weeks back and I??m not even thinking about that sort of thing right now, give me some time ok?? That was about month and half- two months ago.
I still to this day don??t know how to take that answer. Was it the complete truth? Was it a polite let me down? However since then we??ve talked a lot..well a lot to me. I??ve just recently started making more ??flirtish? type comments/jokes (For instance we both drink Red Bulls almost daily on our break time, I made a ??flyer? that I pinned in her office saying ??Attention all incredibly gorgeous female work studies you have earned a Red Bull please stop by and see ***** in the Bookstore? she??s the only female work study currently?so yeah..) and she finds them funny and sweet. Made her all giggly happy yesterday, brought her a batch of firecrackers after finding out she was into our happy plant.
Problem is she cut back her work study hours here for a second summer job and now I only get to see her one day a week now. She is also not too happy with the job itself and is contemplating quitting if she does that I??ll lose almost all contact with her since our classes are different. I??m not sure if by now if enough time??s past?I can??t read women signals worth a crap so I??m not sure if she is even interested(being this is me, it??s not likely) . I don??t know if I should become more ??aggressive? in trying to get her to go out or flirting, if I should keep being patient or if I should just flat out ask her again.