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TheAtomicPunk
05-21-2007, 01:31 AM
Let's say, their's a guy or girl that really digs you, and wants to date, but can't stand the fact that you smoke. Would you stop smoking for him/her? I'm in that situation and if she does like me, then I'm deffiently quitting. I'm just wondering how many other people would.

BizzleLuvin
05-21-2007, 01:33 AM
no. first of all because i like dudes, lol. and second of all because maryjane is part of who i am.

ericwt
05-21-2007, 01:38 AM
No way in hell! I am a pot smoker and I will always be one.

If they cannot respect me for who I am, I have no use for them.

Love dies- Weed is forever!

higher4hockey
05-21-2007, 01:38 AM
i would quit in a heart beat for a loved one. the women i love will defenitely be more important to me than drugs. i made that mistake once, and i will never ever do it again.


but hey whatever floats your boat.

Jaerl
05-21-2007, 01:40 AM
Sure maybe if i was with them for a long time then yes, but just some new chick, F no.
My girl smokes with me.. So it's all good!

TheAtomicPunk
05-21-2007, 01:45 AM
I'd love to have a woman that loves me to smoke with, but you can't always choose who you love. I don't mind dropping a material value for her at all. That's just how I am.

Skwirl07
05-21-2007, 01:52 AM
Yeah my girl smokes with me almost as much as I do and yeah it's just part of who I am and what my interests are.. If a girl isn't open-minded enough to accept that then fuck them...especiallyyyy if it's just some girl you don't have a relationship with and just wants you to quit..

To contradict myself, if it were someone I was truly in love with and after reasonable discussions an agreement couldn't be reached I probably would just quit! (yikes..)

Skink
05-21-2007, 01:55 AM
You have a lifetime and many chances to smoke,,,but may only have one opportunity for a soul mate,,,choose wisely...

The Colonel
05-21-2007, 01:58 AM
i wouldnt quit,
i just wouldnt make it obvious

slipknotpsycho
05-21-2007, 02:24 AM
nope no fucking way, and i wouldn't even make it less obvious..

if you love me, love me for who i am, period.

werd328
05-21-2007, 02:58 AM
I'm only interested in girls who like me for being me. Ganja smoking is a part of me.

zeebo phillips
05-21-2007, 03:01 AM
I usually find the males who smoke...
Actually, thats how I usually find males.

Sorry I can't relate to your problem. :(
I wish I could...in a way.

Pipe Dreams
05-21-2007, 03:03 AM
Let's say, their's a guy or girl that really digs you, and wants to date, but can't stand the fact that you smoke. Would you stop smoking for him/her? I'm in that situation and if she does like me, then I'm deffiently quitting. I'm just wondering how many other people would.

Nah man, it would have to be a situation in which I was with the girl for a while, and I would have to really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really REALLY fucking have to like her.

slipknotpsycho
05-21-2007, 03:04 AM
i would quit in a heart beat for a loved one. the women i love will defenitely be more important to me than drugs. i made that mistake once, and i will never ever do it again.


but hey whatever floats your boat.

you don't count :p you don't even smoke anymore, and you don't seem to actually be in love with her like the majority of us... lol (which is nothing bad... i hope you know what i mean)

mary jane was my first true love, and i'll never let her go...

higher4hockey
05-21-2007, 03:10 AM
lol, i knew that was coming.

slipknotpsycho
05-21-2007, 03:12 AM
lol well you should have :p

420MissHighTimes420
05-21-2007, 03:13 AM
Hell no, because if I was to love someone, they would have to love me, and for someone to love me they would need to accept me, and getting high is part of my lifestyl, it's my hobby and something I do all day everyday. So if someone didn't like smoking bud they probably would want to be around me enough for them to care about me. I dont know if that made sence or not, I'm pretty baked.

ericwt
05-21-2007, 03:15 AM
lol, i knew that was coming.

You still drink, right?

Would you give up all drinking for a babe?

Alcohol is a drug.

delusionsofNORMALity
05-21-2007, 03:18 AM
though it doesn't define my entire life, my relationship with MJ and various other substances is an integral part of who i am. to love me is to accept me along with all of my eccentricities. though i imagine there might be circumstances under which i might consider the unthinkable, i doubt i would ever associate with someone who would ask me to do such a thing. at least it hasn't come up yet.

geonagual
05-21-2007, 03:19 AM
ummm no. My next lady will either be a stoner or is very cool with it. Hiding it is out of the question.
If your willing to do this for this lady, what are you going to do next?
Not talk to your mom, because she dosent like her.
etc..there is a lot more but I am faded. Peace

and your from Cincy too...good luck brother

Bob the Awesome
05-21-2007, 03:22 AM
While I'd like to say yes, the answer is no. One, because I know how futile it is to attempt to change yourself when you know it's not bad, and you're just doing it for someone's irrational fears, and because if the person can't see past it (I would agree not to do it/be high around them) it's not really worth it.

zeebo phillips
05-21-2007, 03:26 AM
Yay, there's guys out there I can count on to smoke with me forever! :thumbsup:

Runaway Jim
05-21-2007, 04:25 AM
Let's say, their's a guy or girl that really digs you, and wants to date, but can't stand the fact that you smoke. Would you stop smoking for him/her? I'm in that situation and if she does like me, then I'm deffiently quitting. I'm just wondering how many other people would.

you gotta like consider thisss.
its not theirafucking businesxs what you do in yours pare time
unless it affecats them, its houldnt be an issue. just dont blow smoke in her face, if she doesnt likd you when youre smokin bud then she needs to get her priorities straight.

rebgirl420
05-21-2007, 04:26 AM
NOPE