don't think i've ever seen it happen to someone this young...

[slipknotpsycho]

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well i don't really know what to say lol... he seems to know he's already gay (or at the very least, very feminine...), but he's like only 9... ?

^^^^ that still doesn't sound right, but i can't put my thoughts into words...

[rebgirl420]

Whats wrong with being gay?

[Acouwaila]

hey man at least hes happy with it

[slipknotpsycho]

whoever said i said there was anything wrong with it? i knew someone was gonna take it the wrong way...

my best friend is gay..

[lazy smoker7]

well, hes 9 years old... so what... hes gay and thats just him and hes being him self... at least he can express himself with out any one else caring what they think of him and I think thats really cool. Its crazy though he is the youngest gay person I heard of... well actually there are probally more gay ppl... I mean we never know whats going on in a babys mind.... a baby that is male might think another male is hot ... lol.. but we'll never understand baby language :( ... so there are probally gays of ages below 9 also. Anyways I dont know what more to say on the kid.. other than I gtg now and eat and sleep.. Happy toking

[Th3 Chr0nic]

Okay he never did say he liked little boys. Just growing up he is most likely going to be and he's probally gonna think about a sex change.

[slipknotpsycho]

that's a given...

i dunno it just kinda suprised me...

atleast he has supportive parents.. i'm sure there are some shitheads out there who would treat him wrong...

[Th3 Chr0nic]

What went wrong with his parents encouraging it when he was only a toddler?

[geonagual]

You never know, it is possible that his likes could change. He is only 9...but either way, if he is gay it just proves the point that people that are gay are born that way. Nevermind, what some dumbass TV evangilest says.

[slipknotpsycho]

errr... i'm not sure what you mean lol


What went wrong with his parents encouraging it when he was only a toddler?

[geonagual]

errr... i'm not sure what you mean lol

are u talking to me? or the rest of the world?

[slipknotpsycho]

i was talking to chonic.

[Th3 Chr0nic]

He was what like 18 months when he got a barbie doll what the hell were his parents thinking.

[slipknotpsycho]

oh, well i guess they just wanted to give him what he wanted? i dunno...

[hippy lettuce]

its hard 2 say. if hes acting like that n carries it on he musta bin born that way i dunno. dya think cos he must b gettin more attention by acting that way (tho it mite b seen as negatively) hes tryin 2 b diff n knows he'll get attention from his twin...dunno u'd av 2 c how it panned out

[hippy lettuce]

not attention from his twin but from his parents...this didint come out as well as i'd hoped lol

[sstrunks]

I've noticed that a good chuck of men who have a feminine nature, seem to have a lower self-esteem: poor posture, voice projection, etc.

I honestly believe men should behave like men, and women like women; keeps things in simple & in check.

[sailboat]

^^

seriously?
you prefer someone to act like something their not because it keeps things simple and in check for YOU?

excuse me sir if me being gay disturbs your simplicity.




barbie dolls and tonka trucks are toys, and nothing more. it's the people that give them their feminine and masculine connotations, how does an 18month old comprehend that he can't play with a doll because someone craving simplicity thinks it's wrong?

and i'm sorry, but where do you gather that gay men are lacking self esteem? despite fear of presecution or fear of just being made fun of.... yeah some gay people prefer to sink into the woodwork..... but in my experience (and statistics!) gay men out preform straight men in a number of things including something like business which is seen as the familymans job. (The Blog | Kirk Snyder: Why Gay Men Are Outperforming the Good-Old-Boys in Business | The Huffington Post (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kirk-snyder/why-gay-men-are-outperfor_b_21899.html))



/rant.



good for his parents for supporting him and letting him be who he is comfortable being.

[TallulahGreen]

I'm a psych major and have been given the opportunity to learn more about things like this.

...I'm not gonna go into a bunch of crap...but I will tell you that I learned that many people who are gay know at a very young age they are different.

That kid may or may not turn out gay...but I mean...It has been biologically proven that gay people do have different brains. So it is very possible that he is just more in tune with what he wants and feels accepted in doing so. He probably just feels more comfortable with society now, not just him, but socially being gay is more acceptable now than it ever has been.

I don't know where I'm going with this...but it is very possible that he is gay...

[BabyFacedAbortion]

When I was younger I used to dress like a boy, up until I was like, 13? I always had on my brother's hand-me-downs. (I mean, I literally could be mistaken for a lil dude) I went thru my extremely gay period where I'd only date girls too. (I'm bisexual) As I got older, I've experienced a lot of things and I'm just happier being a girlie girl..although I do still like my baggy boy pants every now and then. As well as a chick.

It's how he was born, just like it was how I was born. I grew out of it, appearence wise, in a way. Maybe he will, maybe he won't. If it makes him happy, who the hell gives a crap?

[TallulahGreen]

When I was younger I used to dress like a boy, up until I was like, 13? I always had on my brother's hand-me-downs. (I mean, I literally could be mistaken for a lil dude) I went thru my extremely gay period where I'd only date girls too. (I'm bisexual) As I got older, I've experienced a lot of things and I'm just happier being a girlie girl..although I do still like my baggy boy pants every now and then. As well as a chick.

It's how he was born, just like it was how I was born. I grew out of it, appearence wise, in a way. Maybe he will, maybe he won't. If it makes him happy, who the hell gives a crap?

I was always pretty damned tom boyish myself too haha...
I would shop in the boys section and wear chuck taylors....

..and I had a bowl cut.

People would always tell my mom what a hansom son she had....hahaha.

I'm pretty girly but I also only hang with the dudes....:jointsmile::jointsmile::jointsmile::join tsmile:

[rebgirl420]

whats wrong with giving him barbi dolls? Its just toys, besides I played with my brothers tonka trucks and legos and match box cars. No biggie...but I am bi....but im sure thats not why.

[slipknotpsycho]

so you don't mind the taste of jizz, and you're bi....

i'll honestly be suprised if you are single... lol

[rebgirl420]

Im not single, not anymore.

[sstrunks]

^^

seriously?
you prefer someone to act like something their not because it keeps things simple and in check for YOU?

excuse me sir if me being gay disturbs your simplicity.




barbie dolls and tonka trucks are toys, and nothing more. it's the people that give them their feminine and masculine connotations, how does an 18month old comprehend that he can't play with a doll because someone craving simplicity thinks it's wrong?

and i'm sorry, but where do you gather that gay men are lacking self esteem? despite fear of presecution or fear of just being made fun of.... yeah some gay people prefer to sink into the woodwork..... but in my experience (and statistics!) gay men out preform straight men in a number of things including something like business which is seen as the familymans job. (The Blog | Kirk Snyder: Why Gay Men Are Outperforming the Good-Old-Boys in Business | The Huffington Post (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kirk-snyder/why-gay-men-are-outperfor_b_21899.html))



/rant.



good for his parents for supporting him and letting him be who he is comfortable being.




I have nothing against anyone who is gay. I just don't like seeing men act women like. Period.

[slipknotpsycho]

i never understood why people are so angry at gay people, it's not like they're affecting your life...so it's weird to me that people are in their homes going 'oh people are gay...damnit!' what do you care? i could understand hating gay people say if you're mowing your lawn and there are two gay guys blowing each other right on the grass... 'awww i gotta cut around you f*****s every sunday, i'm sick of this shit!' or say you're eating your breakfast in the morning and you're about to put your spoon in your cereal bowl and two guys touch dicks right in front of you... 'HEY! COME ON! i gotta get to work! i don't have time to dodge your dicks with my spoon! fuckin homo's get outta my kitchen!'

:jointsmile:

[OniEhtRedrum781]

My mom tried to buy me a barbie doll when i was 3 years old. I dunno what the fuck she was thinking, but I ripped the fuckin' thing's head off while waiting in line..

[reality0]

My mom tried to buy me a barbie doll when i was 3 years old. I dunno what the fuck she was thinking, but I ripped the fuckin' thing's head off while waiting in line..


ahahaha

[Nissan_420sx]

I blew up G.I Joes with fireworks...

But hey Gay People are Cool...Most them are fancy and smell nice..

[slipknotpsycho]

I blew up G.I Joes with fireworks...

But hey Gay People are Cool...Most them are fancy and smell nice..

i use to blow up my legos... like i'd make a mound of dirt and have lego dump trucks and work trucks, and i'd simulate a crash into one fo those lego gas stations just a half mile (sclaed down) from the work spot... and i'd put fire crackers all over hte place, and pour gas or lighterfluid over 'em, and light it all on fire...

i'm serious too... i also used to jump my RC cars through BBQ pits, and i remember this one voice activated truck i had, long time ago, you told it what to do... anyways, i lined it up, and poured a small poul of gas in the dirt, lit it on fire and watched what happened when the truck drove through it...

i always loved fire :p

[timothylearyisdead]

Gay people are more classy than nice straight people and they are also nicer than classy straight people. Genuinely better people in my opinion. I could care less how they fulfill their sexual desires.

[Nissan_420sx]

i use to blow up my legos... like i'd make a mound of dirt and have lego dump trucks and work trucks, and i'd simulate a crash into one fo those lego gas stations just a half mile (sclaed down) from the work spot... and i'd put fire crackers all over hte place, and pour gas or lighterfluid over 'em, and light it all on fire...

i'm serious too... i also used to jump my RC cars through BBQ pits, and i remember this one voice activated truck i had, long time ago, you told it what to do... anyways, i lined it up, and poured a small poul of gas in the dirt, lit it on fire and watched what happened when the truck drove through it...

i always loved fire :p

Sorry for the threadjack........but......

Lmao I hear you dude...I had a mound of dirt and I dug into it to make foxholes and machine gun nests and what not...with fire works riggied inside and everything...And then I just flick matches at 'em till they lit..lol..It kind sucks though..cause I blew up the 12" full size ones...in retrospect they were pretty expensive...but fire works are inexpensive...and provide countless hours of fun and sometimes pain... I think we see who the clear winner is...
:jointsmile:

[NextLineIsMine]

I get the impression he'll be a transvestite or want a sex change later on

[slipknotpsycho]

Sorry for the threadjack........but......

Lmao I hear you dude...I had a mound of dirt and I dug into it to make foxholes and machine gun nests and what not...with fire works riggied inside and everything...And then I just flick matches at 'em till they lit..lol..It kind sucks though..cause I blew up the 12" full size ones...in retrospect they were pretty expensive...but fire works are inexpensive...and provide countless hours of fun and sometimes pain... I think we see who the clear winner is...
:jointsmile:

it's my thread and i kind atook it in that direction so it doesn't quite count as a jacking o.0

on thep ain part tho... >.< i have a scar on my finger from a m66 fuse, i've had a blackcat blow up in my hand (DAMN GOOD thing it was in my fingers tho and not a closed fist... or i woudln't be able to type without chicken pecking..) and i've scratched a cornea by the flying debris (that concrete shit around the actual firecracker in an m66)

the more dangerous, for some reason the more fun.... i only know them by this name so err... don't tkae it that way... but n***** chasers have gotta be one of my favs.... you never know who it's gonna target <.<

[EbelEyes]

I have nothing against anyone who is gay. I just don't like seeing men act women like. Period.

And how do you act like a man?

Where is the guide on that?

[passitplz]

it's my thread and i kind atook it in that direction so it doesn't quite count as a jacking o.0

on thep ain part tho... >.< i have a scar on my finger from a m66 fuse, i've had a blackcat blow up in my hand (DAMN GOOD thing it was in my fingers tho and not a closed fist... or i woudln't be able to type without chicken pecking..) and i've scratched a cornea by the flying debris (that concrete shit around the actual firecracker in an m66)

the more dangerous, for some reason the more fun.... i only know them by this name so err... don't tkae it that way... but n***** chasers have gotta be one of my favs.... you never know who it's gonna target <.<

dude im a fuckin pyro. and that concrete shit. i think ur talkin bout the gun powder lol. and yea m66's are just about the best firework ever.

[slipknotpsycho]

dude im a fuckin pyro. and that concrete shit. i think ur talkin bout the gun powder lol. and yea m66's are just about the best firework ever.

no it's not gunpowder.. on those, they have the normal blackcat fire cracker, but it's covered in plaster and given a thicker cardboard covering then the red label...

i use to take out just the fire work part... it's a HELL of alot louder and more destructive... (pretty sure that plaster covering is for saftey, those things are pretty damn powerful if you take 'em off...)

[passitplz]

we might be talkin bout diff fireworks... i remembered the name as m60's but just assumed it was the same... theres also m1000's

[sstrunks]

And how do you act like a man?

Where is the guide on that?

Everyone here should have seen enough human interaction to distingish between male & female characteristics.

Do I want people to conform to the norm for male / female behavior? For the most part, yes. I don't like hanging around men who act femine, doesn't matter if they are gay or not. I don't like people who don't stick up for themselves, or lack confidence; a large portion of the feminine men I know are like that.

[slipknotpsycho]

we might be talkin bout diff fireworks... i remembered the name as m60's but just assumed it was the same... theres also m1000's

best pic i could find....

Google Image Result for http://www.pa-fireworks.com/sitebuilder/images/M-60_Small_1_-125x104.jpg (http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.pa-fireworks.com/sitebuilder/images/M-60_Small_1_-125x104.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.pa-fireworks.com/Firecrackers.html&h=104&w=125&sz=4&hl=en&start=1&tbnid=qCCf-4_UiocxiM:&tbnh=75&tbnw=90&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dm60%2Bfireworks%26gbv%3D2%26svnum%3D1 0%26hl%3Den%26safe%3Doff)

[passitplz]

best pic i could find....

Google Image Result for http://www.pa-fireworks.com/sitebuilder/images/M-60_Small_1_-125x104.jpg (http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.pa-fireworks.com/sitebuilder/images/M-60_Small_1_-125x104.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.pa-fireworks.com/Firecrackers.html&h=104&w=125&sz=4&hl=en&start=1&tbnid=qCCf-4_UiocxiM:&tbnh=75&tbnw=90&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dm60%2Bfireworks%26gbv%3D2%26svnum%3D1 0%26hl%3Den%26safe%3Doff)

yea thats them

*edit*slip just made history... jacked his own thread lol

[nightlight]

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well i don't really know what to say lol... he seems to know he's already gay (or at the very least, very feminine...), but he's like only 9... ?

^^^^ that still doesn't sound right, but i can't put my thoughts into words...
i felt i was gay at a veryyy early age, but then i went through puberty and changed my mind.

[bucknuts1870]

"neo pets the darkest fairy" holy shit...that was funny.

That's kinda fucked up his mom lets him wear nail polish to school and shit. My Dad would have killed me, lliterally, axe to the throat, if I wore black goth nail polish, let alone pink nail polish "with diamonds!" It's cool he's gay, whatever, but does him mom have to let him become god damn Liberace. There are lots of gay people who don't "act like a fag". By that I mean all the bullshit lisp talking, hand gestures, pink fucking nail polish...It's bullshit, I don't act different because I'm straight, why do they have to put on this stupid persona just 'cause there gay...maybe I am missing something I don't know...

[delusionsofNORMALity]

this might just be his way of asserting his individuality. within any family we all try to find our own little niche, that place where we belong within the structure of the group. he might have just decided to ceded the boy position to his brother and take up the feminine position to assert his own identity.



or

he could be gay.

[sailboat]

Everyone here should have seen enough human interaction to distingish between male & female characteristics.

Do I want people to conform to the norm for male / female behavior? For the most part, yes. I don't like hanging around men who act femine, doesn't matter if they are gay or not. I don't like people who don't stick up for themselves, or lack confidence; a large portion of the feminine men I know are like that.

wow,
thats offensive not only to gay men but to women.
feminine = lack of confidence?


i dont know how the two correlate....
thats so terribley predjudiced...

[M3nt0R]

wow,
thats offensive not only to gay men but to women.
feminine = lack of confidence?


i dont know how the two correlate....
thats so terribley predjudiced...

Stop...just stop. It's so typical of gay men to get all offended and for lack of a better term, 'bitchy'

He's stating his opinion. Almost every little kid thinks about liking men at one point or another. Puberty usually changes it. If parents don't set things right (yes...i said it...being gay is not right in my opinion), then there's a pretty high chance the kid will be gay.

It's pretty simple. To get where we are, there had to be many others before us correct? Generations and generations of people right? If the first people were all gay, what would happen? Nothing would exist. If everyone is gay, women would only be used for 'breeding' then they could go back to their homosexual nature. Is that right? Just use women to increase population, then let everyone be gay, since being gay is not wrong?

I don't care where you people get your political correctness from.. I knew I'm new here, and I know peopel always associate pot-smoking with hippies and extreme liberalism, but from what I'm seeing, this is so true. Someone mentions anything that places even the most mild negative connotation on the word gay, and all these people are exploding from left to right..>WHATS WRONG WITH BEING GAY! ... OMG IM GAY AND THAT IS SO WRONG DO I BOTHER YOU?....so many stupid comments, just drop the little kid bullshit. I disagree with homosexuality and am against it. Do you care? No...do I care? Not really. I have my opinions and I stand by them.

From what I see, most homosexuals are feminine, cowardly, and can't stand up for themselves. Just liek the other guy said before you went all pissy on him, they lack confidence, self esteem, etc. Are ALL gay men liek this? NO, but he said from what HE saw, and I sawy from what I see, gay men are like this. They get picked on and instead of ignoring or fighting back, they go and cry to their girlfriends about how misunderstood they are. A lot of people that hate 'emo' (rebgirl420) are against people who dislike gay. If you endorse the stereotype that one loves to slit his or her own wrists and acts all 'emo'ish then I can endorse the stereotype that all gay men are pansies. It's not always true, in both cases.

[M3nt0R]

And can gay people voice their opinions without declaring their homosexuality? If you want to be gay, I'm not going to prosecute you or hurt you, but every time a gay guy is in an argument, he'll start by saying "I'm gay!" and proceed to say what he thinks.

I think it's a pride-issue or a sense of insecurity, but it's always there, and that also bothers me. You don't see me saying "I love women and love vaginal intercourse among most things, but I don't agree with what you're saying.." It's not about being 'normal' it's about hypocricy and pride.