Littlewing screwed over again.

[LittLeWinG]

Yes, another depressing littlewing story involving him being fucked over by doucheparentals.

Uhhh, about a month ago mum found weed and cigs in my bad, now lets say this is roughly the 5th time ive been busted by my parents for this kind of thing.

Mum went insane, dad said dont worry about it, its all cool.

Everything goes back to normal and im happy and sweet and whatever.

I go home on friday and mum goes through all my bags, and finds an empty cig deck and my weed container (with no weed in it)

Mum goes psycho, because i told her i was going to stop doing it lastime. Dad says dont worry about it, again.

I get grounded ( i go to boarding school) and mum says im not allowed to go out with my friends or leave the boarding house for a month or 2, which is fucking ridiculous.

So today i go for a drive with a friend, mum calls me and asks where i am.
i tell her im with my friend cruising. She goes insane once again and drives to my boarding school and tells the guy who runs it what ive been up too and shit.

The dude then tells mum that my friend has a reputation of doing drugs (whom my mum thinks is a really innocent nice kid, which he actually is..... hejsut smokes fucking weed).

Now my mum thinks im a total addict, and dad has no decided that im a total druggo, and thinks ive been smoking weed everyday with my friend.

So now, im not allowed to leave the boarding house AT ALL, not even go out after school and chill with friends. So im stuck in my 3 x 3 metre room untill i finish school, which is in about 6 months.

I am so fucking depressed about the whole ordeal, especially my dad turning from a cool understanding parent, who i can talk about anything too, to a total fucking nazi who thinks i have a massive drug problem.

Once again, im in a fucked up situation, but this time, things wont get better untill i finish school.... and then me and my friends will all go our seperate ways and we wont ALL be together for ages.

So im pretty fucked up.

I have 2 choices, do what my parents say and kill my social life and basically be locked up.

Or

Do my own thing, see my friends and actually balance my social life with school, but destroy my family relationship at the same time. and most likely be pulled out of this private boarding school and put into a derolyct public school

I dont know what to fucking do.... id be a lot happier with the 2nd option

Thanks if you read this, and i dont know if it made sence or not coz i wrote what ever came to my head.

Ciao

:( :( :( :(

[ninfan77]

Just suck it up and do what your parents say. You're not very far off from being 18 and then you can do w/e you want. Family is important and you should keep them on the good side man.

[papa roach]

Sorry baby cldn't finish the story(its to long for ganja' sack) though its cmmon Come on every who tokes have been busted in one way or other.But just as and advice don't keep weed in the house:mad:

[Runaway Jim]

So im pretty fucked up.

I have 2 choices, do what my parents say and kill my social life and basically be locked up.

Or

Do my own thing, see my friends and actually balance my social life with school, but destroy my family relationship at the same time. and most likely be pulled out of this private boarding school and put into a derolyct public school

I dont know what to fucking do.... id be a lot happier with the 2nd option

Thanks if you read this, and i dont know if it made sence or not coz i wrote what ever came to my head.

Ciao

:( :( :( :(

Fuck 'em.
Rebel!!!
Just do what you want, dont be stupid and give them a reason to make it worse tho, stick to buds and only buds.
Good luck and godspeed.

[Bob the Awesome]

Lose your parents. If you can't work with them, and they won't be understanding, then they lose you. That's what they deserve. It's their responsibility to come around, not yours.

[birdgirl73]

^^^ Bad advice. Unless you want to be pulled from school and put into a derelict public school and have your life further turned upside down and get even more restrictions. Which I don't think you do. Heck if you were pulled out of that school and brought home to go to another, your mom might even freak out enough that she'd call the police or something if she found more paraphernalia or weed.

I suspect it's time to toe the line for a while and play their game till things calm down and you can do your own thing agaiin. You've learned some important lessons about being discreet and keeping your business private. Five parental busts may be an indication that you're not ready to smoke yet, frankly. Discretion is one of the lessons people who want to use cannabis responsibly have to learn.

Give it some time. In the meantime, wage a campaign of information and education for your parents. Prove that your grades are good and that cannabis didn't do anything to interfere with your academic success. Print out some of the many good bits of information that are available showing it doesn't cause brain damage or ruin people's lives but is instead largely beneficial. And realize that as long as you're a kid and under their support, you may have to play by their rules. That's how it works. When you're grown and on your own--or when you go to university, which I'm assuming is the goal of your boarding school education--you will have more freedom to choose.

[surreys princess]

i agree with bird...please dont listen to these fellow kids and take bad advice in reference to your parents....

when it all comes down to it, you are under age, and they are repsonsible for you...they only want the best for you, even if it does come disguised by ignorance...

if you really want to get back at them, do what they want..hang at school, (which i dont see how they can keep you in your room for 6 months, even prisoners get recreation time and such...seems like a violation of your rights...), stop spending their money that they work for and give you on weed, and get your act together.......

as much as you kids hate to hear this, i am telling you this from experience, being a very bad kid myself...our parents are usually right, even when we think they are not, and you will figure this out in 10 years or so.....

good luck...

[zebedee]

Listen to princess.

[surreys princess]

words to live by zeb......lol

:thumbsup:

[MagicalHerb]

i think im neutral here. you have to listen to them, right. they want whats best for you. but not even parents have the right to restrict freedoms as personal as where you go. they cannot confine you to a room! thats your buisiness and they have to accept it and accept who you are and what you do for what it really is.. try educating them, have a heart to heart talk and come clean about exactly what you have been up to, no more, no less. dont lie because they will have a feeling you are. at least then you can all be on somewhat of a common ground. (if they believe you). well, thats all i can give. peace

[surreys princess]

i was rereadng the post, and something bothered me....

you shouldnt call your parents names like that...you resent them for boarding school now, but when you are earning 20, 30, 40 thousand more a year because of that, you will regret things like this......

think about that...

good luck...... :D

[sordid]

Can you sneak out without getting busted?

[action.420]

You could still smoke discreetly in the 3x3 room right? So, Get a comp and CSS! lol :rastasmoke: :rastasmoke:

EDIT : OR SNEAK OUT LIKE ABOVE SAID ^^^^ :stoned:

[MagicalHerb]

get harry's invisibility cloke hahaha

[Psycho4Bud]

but not even parents have the right to restrict freedoms as personal as where you go. they cannot confine you to a room! thats your buisiness and they have to accept it and accept who you are and what you do for what it really is.. try educating them

And what planet does this happen on? A parent has EVERY right to give restrictions and if the CHILD doesn't like it tough shit! My boy had an option, since I PAID ALL THE BILLS if he felt he was the man, he had the option of calling me out to the backyard just to see who had control. IF he took me, fine, do as you will OUTSIDE OF MY HOME; if not, dummy up! Being a smart CHILD he dummied up from time to time.

As for the "try educating them".........when a parent takes a hard core stand the last thing that they want is to see this little person that they used to change diapers on trying to act like they have a masters degree to teach the ignorant before they even have a high school diploma.

Do as you will LittleWing but if you follow some of the "great advice" in here it'll be your nuts in a vice, not theirs!

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[MagicalHerb]

sigh..
adults think they know everything.
see, i may have been a little baby once. im not now tho, i have intelligence which i can use as i see fit and i can come to a logical solution just like my parents can. im human, they are human, and as parents they deserve unconditional respect but not unquestionable knowledge. families are a team and if you think you shouldnt learn from your kid now and then, that sucks. masters degree? thats a harsh exxageration. you dont need a masters degree to be sure of marijuana. you need a personality that provides you with an open mind. everyone could use a little education, even people who completed the ridicuously uninformative american school system. some things you cant argue with, but on a subject where you KNOW your informtion is correct..wheres the logic in submitting there?

i dont want you thinking im some little rebel punk kid. i have respect for my mom, and though i dont always listen to her i do (for the most part) unless i feel i could make a better decision based on the fact that im the one in my head, and all.
but im just a firm believer in equality. when you consider yourself a superior, you miss out on alot of learning. thats what ive seen..
anyways, im not perfect. feel free to pick me apart, but this is a convorsation that noone can really be right or wrong in.
peace.

[Skink]

this is a "I told you so"!!! Last time you knew the #1 rule was no weed and you left shit in your bag??? face it like a man,,,you screwed up...

[Psycho4Bud]

sigh..
adults think they know everything.
see, i may have been a little baby once. im not now tho, i have intelligence which i can use as i see fit and i can come to a logical solution just like my parents can.

:S2: Me and you would have had a gooood time! My son got a bit defiant but didn't want the back yard option. LOL...I bought home this BEAUTIFUL tape from the marine recruiter on a very nice military style school for those KIDS that THOUGHT they had rights.

We have the right to hand out restrictions whether or not the CHILD likes it or not. IF the CHILD doesn't like that there are other options for parents such as being locked down in a treatment facility or locked down in a camp like I described. Oh ya, don't think about running from the camp, it's located in the middle of nowhere in Texas. Stereos, TVs, games, etc... are not considered personal property of a minor, it belongs to the parents. The ONLY thing we have to supply is the cloths on your back and the grub in your stomach. When ya get home from school and find your room consisting of nothing but your bed and clothes don't think that a cop is going to arrest a parent for stealing your shit........he'll laugh at ya!

At a point when the CHILD turns 18 they have the right to either abide by the rules of the house or move out on their own, pay their own bills, etc........
The day I turned 18 we celebrated my birthday and then I packed my car, haven't lived with the folks since but always had a good relationship. Now when they come to MY house they know that if I pull out the bong and do a hit they have a choice; either stay and visit or hit the road.

Alot of the kids that never felt that anyone had the right to restrict their freedoms are the same ones doing hard time in the pen today. I had a buddy with a kid with that attitude and he let it fly.......the kids doing 15 yrs. in Waupon correctional. I wonder if he explains "his rights" to the gaurds in the same manner as he did his parents.

Littlewing is in need of good advice, not something that's going to turn his world into more of a mess.

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[MagicalHerb]

heh.
why do you talk so condescending to me?
as a matter of fact i have been in one of those places, and it was in the middle of texas. the davey crockett forest, actually. i know what its like to have no freedom, no belingings, nothing but a bag with essentials and clothes. freedoms arent something i take for granted.
in my opinion though, parents who resort to forcing their kids to go to military school are nothing less that cowards. i went to a caring, open place and while they were holding me prisoner there they were doing it in a way that made me want to change and learn what got me there in the first place. the military is not an answer, the military is no place i would ever want my child, even if there is no fighting involved its a terrible disgusting degrading evil thing to put anyone into.

i dont care if thats how they way things are. theres not much i can do to change it except to parent my kids like i want to. but i hate it. i hate it so much and i dont get why people waste so much time on issues like this, me included. a dictatorship in the home produces way too much stress for everyone, at least so ive seen in my own family. if we could all just work together..man. theres nothing we couldnt do.

anyways to finish this off.
i dont see why you think i see myself as above everyone. if i do something to hurt others my freedoms obviously are going to be revoked. that just comes down to karma and the U.S. justice system.

[indicagrower]

Some of ya'll give these kids downright stupid advice..I like pot a much as the next guy but it is not a way of life or a lifestyle it's a damn drug (not saying drugs are bad) like it or not but untill your 18 your parents are responsible for you and pretty much own your ass....to tell kids to do what they want and to fuck their parents cause they don't want you to smoke pot...thats stupid and you people saying this ignorant shit is what people use to make the point that pot and all other drugs are bad...even if pot was legal you should'nt be able to smoke short of your 21 b-day...i'm pretty sure without using any names those of you i'm talking about (talking to) know who you are.....

[Psycho4Bud]

heh.
why do you talk so condescending to me?
as a matter of fact i have been in one of those places, and it was in the middle of texas. the davey crockett forest, actually. i know what its like to have no freedom, no belingings, nothing but a bag with essentials and clothes. freedoms arent something i take for granted.

Condencending? You have proven my point with your stint in Texas. Your advice to this kid was this:


but not even parents have the right to restrict freedoms as personal as where you go.

At least tell him of the worst possible scenario for his actions IF he decides not follow his parents guidelines. Parents DO have the right and if they can't find a way of doing it on their own they can seek help to do it.

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[MagicalHerb]

eh, what i was talking about was more of a personal belief and not a legal right they have. a right i disagree with, but whatever. anywho im done here ill just keep talkign and talking..
:jointsmile:

[BabyFacedAbortion]

No offence, but you're a dumbass.

If you know your mom has a tendency to freak out, why wouldn't you be more careful with it, and WHY after you KNEW you were grounded, would you even begin to tell your mom where you actually were?

Correct answer to her question: Studying in my room.

Never fails.


No offence, you were dumb and you kind of deserve the punishment. Take it with a spoonful of sugar and deal with it. Who knows what your parents will resort to next? They love you, they're scared and they're relatively ignorant about weed. Inform them, talk to them, work it out but DO NOT get caught again.

[timothylearyisdead]

i was rereadng the post, and something bothered me....

you shouldnt call your parents names like that...you resent them for boarding school now, but when you are earning 20, 30, 40 thousand more a year because of that, you will regret things like this......

think about that...

good luck...... :D

Money doesn't buy happiness... peace of mind gets you there.
Everybody can find peace of mind in different things.
A piece of paper that says you bullshitted your way through 4 years at a university won't set you free, it'll lock you in.


Littlewing, the best advice I can give you is think about what you REALLY want out of life. It may take a while since you're young, but once you figure out what you truely want, everything will fall in it's right place and nobody can hold you back from your dreams, not even your parents. For now the best thing you can do is what you're told to do, but once you figure everything out, GO WITH IT.

And P4B, you challenge your kid to a fight in the backyard if he steps out of line? Teaching them to settle disputes with violence? Good parenting.

[Psycho4Bud]

And P4B, you challenge your kid to a fight in the backyard if he steps out of line? Teaching them to settle disputes with violence? Good parenting.

IF he felt his underage ass was big enough to rule over the person that pays the bills the backyard was his option.

Since he did graduate high school, spent 3 years in the service, now a graduate of a tech school for electromechanical technology and working in the field of HIS choice; not to mention he's not a smart ass punk and shows respect for people........hell yeah, it was good parenting!

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[slipknotpsycho]

i definately don't agree that parents should be listened to 100%.... alot of parents have a tendancy to overreact... whether it be some power trip (can't lie either, some parents are on power trips..) then there are those who care, that are just misinformed... and of course, the oens who went through something similar and think you're gonna wind up just like them if you keep on it, so they try to stop it...


my only advice is stop lying... if you say you're gonna quit, then do so. if you have no intention of quitting, then don't tell them you will... it probably won't be pretty, but lying makes the situation worse... it adds a new level of defiance ontop of the already defiant nature of 'i'm going to do it whether you liek it or not'

in my years i've noticed something... the parents who don't want their kid to do something, but hte kid tells them they're goign ot anyway... eventually most come around to some type of compromise or accept it.... the ones that get lied to and are told you will stop, then find out you're still doing it, usually trip out alot worse....

so if you don't plan to stop, tell them so... just my advice/observation...



sigh..
adults think they know everything.


i can't even begin to describe how ironic that statement is LMFAO....


also on a side note, the freedoms/rights applies to ADULTS.... go ask a cop if you don't believe me.... as long as the parent is providing the nessecities, they have every right to do anything they want, so long as it doesn't break any major law... such as neglect or abuse.... the only law regaurding confing you, is they cannot lock you in your room... they can send you to room and make you stay there as long as they like.... but they can't lock it from the outside (atleast in texas)....

other then that, your balls belong to your parents until you're 18 or emancipated.... (or someone else gets custody, which they then take the parental role and have every right hte parent has..)

[slipknotpsycho]

oh yeah, also on the note of P4B taking his kid out in the back yard...

it's not like he beat his kids ass... he gave his child the option of stepping outside and proving whether he was man enough or not, or shutting hte hell up and dealing with the rules of the house..

seems perfectly fine to me.... beating your kid? no.... offering to swing it out like men (since he obviously thought he was a man lol) fine whatever lol.... there's a diffrence between abuse and fighting you know.... abuse is when the kid has no control over it, his son had the decision to make, and i guess he made his...

violence doesn't solve anything, but sure is a great way to put a child in check when they think they're man enough to do such a thing :jointsmile: i don't beleive in violence but bet your ass if my son reaches 16 or so and decides he wants to fight me... i'll oblige... i don't even spank my child (i've done it twice (and not hard either, probably coudln't even really feel it), and he now knows when daddy says no, he means NO) but if he wants to fight me, then so be it.... i hope it never comes to that... but i'm not gonna send the wrong message and let him think i'm scared of HIM... and he can do whatever he wants cuz i'm too afraid to lay my foot down...

[MagicalHerb]

i can't even begin to describe how ironic that statement is LMFAO....

the irony you see is topped by irony of your own, in criticizing my writing with irony, you therefore ironically proved the statement to be true in this case.
ha:hippy:ha:hippy:ha:hippy:

[MagicalHerb]

on a slightly more serious note, ive noticed whenever someone has an issue with a parent it always turns into such saucy conversation! :0

even more seriously, to each his own. im gonna be an ill parent in my own way, just like all other parents who parent in their ill ways.

[Maggz]

Listen to your mommy and daddy kid.. or learn to hide your habbits a bit better.

[slipknotpsycho]

the irony you see is topped by irony of your own, in criticizing my writing with irony, you therefore ironically proved the statement to be true in this case.
ha:hippy:ha:hippy:ha:hippy:

and really what irony would that be...... KID...

i can tell you the irony in yours... you say adults think they know everything, but here you are, thinking YOU know everything, and adults aren't fit to hand out rules and regulations to kids...

i'd also like to take this time to point out i know you're a kid, becuase no adult takes this much intrest in 'children's rights' concerning this type of matter... not even I, and i'm a very liberal person when it comes to adult-kid relationships... shit i'm one of the last few adults that think the parents should earn respect as opposed to being automaticly given it just becusae they provide the living conditions....

so go ahead and try to show me the irony... i used to be just like you (or atleast the stances you present in this thread) then i hit 19, and wound up with a kid of my own and everything changed...

so again, i beg you, point out the irony in my statements.... this should be intresting either way..

[thcbongman]

sigh..
adults think they know everything.


When you get older, you realize how much of a dumbass you were.

[MagicalHerb]

lmfao yeah call me a dumbass, try to "win" against me, man am i getting sick of it!
i come here to chill and share my views and relax and you arent even willing to be tolerent enough to accept them. instead you disagree and want to prove your damn point over mine, all the time, because you know im always going to be the one who is "wrong" because of my age right? f that man its ridiculous!
just shut up and dont talk to me if your going to be mean, i dont want to hear it and i dont need it. if i want to get myself in a head-on social situation ill hang out with my friends, here im content to relax and talk.


for the record, i dont know shit. i know absolutely nothing and i accept that. im human and its our fate to know nothing unless we really strive for it. im trying so chill the fuck out. what i was saying is i have seen adults who think they know the answers to everything because of their age and i know it doesnt work that way. im sure we all know that, though..
is it really such a bad thing that i believe in an individual being the one most fit to make his decisions?

you know, im just going to ignore this topic. i didnt come here to feel uneasy and unwelcome, and thats all this is doing for me. farewell, thread!

[slipknotpsycho]

lmfao yeah call me a dumbass, try to "win" against me, man am i getting sick of it!
i come here to chill and share my views and relax and you arent even willing to be tolerent enough to accept them. instead you disagree and want to prove your damn point over mine, all the time, because you know im always going to be the one who is "wrong" because of my age right? f that man its ridiculous!
just shut up and dont talk to me if your going to be mean, i dont want to hear it and i dont need it. if i want to get myself in a head-on social situation ill hang out with my friends, here im content to relax and talk.


for the record, i dont know shit. i know absolutely nothing and i accept that. im human and its our fate to know nothing unless we really strive for it. im trying so chill the fuck out. what i was saying is i have seen adults who think they know the answers to everything because of their age and i know it doesnt work that way. im sure we all know that, though..
is it really such a bad thing that i believe in an individual being the one most fit to make his decisions?

you know, im just going to ignore this topic. i didnt come here to feel uneasy and unwelcome, and thats all this is doing for me. farewell, thread!

figures, you talk alot, but have nothing to back it up.

and no i got better things to do then 'prove you wrong' i'm just tired of everyone on here always talking alot of shit, then having nothing to back it up, you said my statement was ironical, easy enough to explain, yet you can't explain how.

quit getting butt hurt, you brought it on yourself anyways, most of the people under 18 are chill and i'm cool with, shit alot of them put some adults to shame, but ones like you, that think rebeling against parents is cool, or you know everything are annoying as hell.... it has nothing to do with the fact you're under 18, it has to do with who you are...

i called your shit, it's simple as that.

[passitplz]

Fuck 'em.
Rebel!!!
Just do what you want, dont be stupid and give them a reason to make it worse tho, stick to buds and only buds.
Good luck and godspeed.

correct me if im wrong but weren't u the person that told me parents mean everything and own their kids and that the kids should fully respect and listen to wat the parents say? if that was u, then u sir are a dick. if not, sorry for wasting ur time

[MagicalHerb]

figures, you talk alot, but have nothing to back it up.

and no i got better things to do then 'prove you wrong' i'm just tired of everyone on here always talking alot of shit, then having nothing to back it up, you said my statement was ironical, easy enough to explain, yet you can't explain how.

quit getting butt hurt, you brought it on yourself anyways, most of the people under 18 are chill and i'm cool with, shit alot of them put some adults to shame, but ones like you, that think rebeling against parents is cool, or you know everything are annoying as hell.... it has nothing to do with the fact you're under 18, it has to do with who you are...

i called your shit, it's simple as that.

oh man. i know i said i wasnt going to reply but i suck at resisting. first of all you are making assumptions of me based off a few pieces of text you saw come from my account.
i hate defending myself like this and i really dont think i should have to, but i will.

see, i dont know if you are honestly insulted by me pointing out irony. from the point i saw it at i was talking about adults thinking they know everything, then you came alone and said some insult to it going against it and saying you know better then me. you are an adult and you were acting like you knew everything, and you are acting like that. you dont, just like i dont. get over yourself, man.
my intention never was to "talk shit". i dont talk shit to anybody because i am friendly to everyone. i was simply pointing out irony where i saw it. big fing deal. i was being chill.

now point number 2. when the hell did i say rebelling against parents is cool! ? it causes alot of tension and it most certainly isnt! i speak for FREEDOM, not rebellion. rebellion is senseless and uncontrolled, freedom is the opposite.

when have i claimed to know everything? huh? im just as confused as all the rest of the people at this point, and what is seperating me from alot is that im actually, ACTUALLY trying to make sense out of this.
now, instead of sticking to your perspective just imagine you can look through mine, like a lens. see where i come from, and once you really do that, then you can put me down all you want and it might mean something to me. but you dont know a thing that goes on in my head and from the sounds of it you have nothing to relate to with me. its hopeless. where am i getting at..
im sorry our logics dont agree, you dont need to get hostile over it its just so unnecessary.
anyways, please dont respond to this. i want to end this now because i dont need anyone else with bad feelings towards me. i try to put out positive vibes. all this crap does is create negativity and you know it. this is over, weather you respond or not. goodbye.

[slipknotpsycho]

you first few lines throw out your whole 'case' against me...

"then you came alone and said some insult to it going against it and saying you know better then me"

where did i ever insult? matter of fact, where did i ever say i know better then you or anyone? no where.... cuz i don't think like that.... and trust me, i wasn't 'insulted' by you claiming my post was ironic... i don't even talk like i know better then anyone... however, sure SEEM like you do... should i go back through your posts and analyze every sentence, cuz i suppose i will if i have to. i called your shit, i wanted to know how my post was ironical...

as for point number 2, freedom, rebeling same diffrence... tell me where freedom has EVER came from, without rebeling....

"i think im neutral here. you have to listen to them, right. they want whats best for you. but not even parents have the right to restrict freedoms as personal as where you go. they cannot confine you to a room! thats your buisiness and they have to accept it and accept who you are and what you do for what it really is" = rebellion, or atelast that's the message you're sending.... whether youw anna admit it or realize it or not.

btw, you never SAID you know anything, but i was a teen, i've know alot of teens, i know the mindset and you are sure as hell talkign just like every other rebelious teen ever has...

[MagicalHerb]

fuck this. goodbye cannabis.com

[TheBigOne45]

Hmm, this is indeed a sticky situation. I'm over 18 so I don't have to deal with the "when your 18 you're out" crap anymore. I work and go to school and my parents know I smoke bud. They respect my decision. Why? Because I am a good student and I work and I carry my own weight. If I want to get high, than that it my business. I hear my parents fucking, but I don't knock on their door to tell them to shut the fuck up.

Whats interesting is that your mom flips out, but your dad is really cool with it. I wonder how they get along. Your mom sounds very paranoid and is just being overprotective of you and just wants what best for you, despite the bitching. Maybe she thinks if you smoke weed, than you will move on to harder drugs. You can thank prohibition for that! Well, many years later of smoking weed, I have not graduated to hard drugs and I never will because weed and coke and heroin are way different and I know what happens when you use hard drugs.

But anyway, everyone in America has God given rights protected by the US Constitution regardless if you live with your parents or not. I'm sure a good judge will explain that very clearly to you! You don't inherit rights after 18.

You're Australian, so it sucks for you I guess. Maybe you should come to America.

Maybe if you keep doing it, she will get the idea that you smoke and its something that you just do. It's your body man.

I hardly have any smoking friends so the majority of my smoking experiences is done by me.

[slipknotpsycho]

fuck this. goodbye cannabis.com

kkthxbye

[MagicalHerb]

kkthxbye

lmfao i guess that is supposed to be worse then a calm, collected goodbye.
idk why you jsut cant stop when its enough, you keep provoking an argument that doesnt need to exist. why couldnt you just leave me be when i asked. live and let live, man. i dont want talking to you in my life and you should have respected that.

your just making the same dumb excuses to me, i dont care what you say.

i am me. i dont need people like you picking me apart and examining my faults. i love myself for what i am and for the things i bring to other people. why dont you jsut give up on proving this pointless point and do something worthwhile.

[slipknotpsycho]

i was just saying bye... jeez... it'd be rude of me not to.... :wtf:

[MagicalHerb]

bro, in my own experience, anyone replying to me with "kkthxbye" is either a girl or talking in a sarcastic condescending tone. i know you arent a girl, so..


whatever. its all over now so PEACE!

[timothylearyisdead]

Don't stop fighting!

:asskick:

[halfassedjediknight]

Don't stop fighting!

:asskick:

hahahaaa

[slipknotpsycho]

bro, in my own experience, anyone replying to me with "kkthxbye" is either a girl or talking in a sarcastic condescending tone. i know you arent a girl, so..


whatever. its all over now so PEACE!

fine, kkthxpeace....

i'm a smartass, that's who i am...

[Jeff Spicoli]

stop being so stupid and getting caught all the time bro haha, thats my advice for you

[rebgirl420]

Some of ya'll give these kids downright stupid advice..I like pot a much as the next guy but it is not a way of life or a lifestyle it's a damn drug (not saying drugs are bad) like it or not but untill your 18 your parents are responsible for you and pretty much own your ass....to tell kids to do what they want and to fuck their parents cause they don't want you to smoke pot...thats stupid and you people saying this ignorant shit is what people use to make the point that pot and all other drugs are bad...even if pot was legal you should'nt be able to smoke short of your 21 b-day...i'm pretty sure without using any names those of you i'm talking about (talking to) know who you are.....

Maybe to YOU but to me it is a way of life.

[Dr.Chiefer]

All i got to say is don't bite the hand that feeds you.

[slipknotpsycho]

Maybe to YOU but to me it is a way of life.

yeah but you got special circumstances...

[Jeff Spicoli]

haha, you said cum

[rebgirl420]

yeah but you got special circumstances...

and what are those hun?

[slipknotpsycho]

cancer? seems like most people who have it and use MJ as medication it definately is a life style... cuz without it, most stop everything...

[rebgirl420]

oh yeah, well I've been in remission for 3 years haha

[slipknotpsycho]

ok i didn't know that part <.< i dont' read EVERY thread lol

on a side note i hope it stays that way :thumbsup:

[Matt the Funk]

If you have "balls", continue to do what you do. Smoke as much weed as you can. Sure almost every adult is cocky and arrogant and think they know everything, but so are most punk ass teenagers. Just do what you want. Know the consequences. See if the benifits outweight the benifits. If I were you i'd already be dead. Give me liberty, or give me death.

[slipknotpsycho]

If you have "balls", continue to do what you do. Smoke as much weed as you can. Sure almost every adult is cocky and arrogant and think they know everything, but so are most punk ass teenagers. Just do what you want. Know the consequences. See if the benifits outweight the benifits. If I were you i'd already be dead. Give me liberty, or give me death.

i think you mean consequences outweight the benifits... :rolleyes:

[Matt the Funk]

i think you mean consequences outweight the benifits... :rolleyes:Lol...yeah my bad...xanax is still effecting me...

[CannabisCrooz]

I'd say try appealing to your dad. tell him you don't touch anything besides weed, and that hes killing your social life with this lock up bullshit. you know where to draw the line, marijuana is just something you do for fun on occasion ubt you wouldnt even think about moving onto hard drugs.
whats your dads opinion on weed? your mom sounds pretty irrational on the subject of drugs, just like mine, so try to explain how its not hurting you to your dad. if you can get him on your side things would be a lot easier. educate him about cannabis and all its wonders, how it doesnt cause brain damage etc.

rebelling and destroying your relationship with your parents doesnt sound like a good idea, and if they end up taking you out of your current school and throwing you in a public school that will probably mean you'll lose all your current friends.

[slipknotpsycho]

I'd say try appealing to your dad. tell him you don't touch anything besides weed, and that hes killing your social life with this lock up bullshit. you know where to draw the line, marijuana is just something you do for fun on occasion ubt you wouldnt even think about moving onto hard drugs.
whats your dads opinion on weed? your mom sounds pretty irrational on the subject of drugs, just like mine, so try to explain how its not hurting you to your dad. if you can get him on your side things would be a lot easier. educate him about cannabis and all its wonders, how it doesnt cause brain damage etc.

rebelling and destroying your relationship with your parents doesnt sound like a good idea, and if they end up taking you out of your current school and throwing you in a public school that will probably mean you'll lose all your current friends.

his dad isn't the 'problem' his dad doesn't seem to give two squirts of piss :p

[Runaway Jim]

correct me if im wrong but weren't u the person that told me parents mean everything and own their kids and that the kids should fully respect and listen to wat the parents say? if that was u, then u sir are a dick. if not, sorry for wasting ur time
Well i dont remember saying that.
But the fact is, if his parents are nazis, he should continue to do what he does if the parents actions are extreme. Im not suggesting he disrespect his parents, and the rebel part was kind of a sarcastic joke.
My take on this is how i work with my mom, she knows the shit i do and kind of lets me do my thing as long as the essentials are being met, like passing school (its been a rough year), being the man of the house (aint easy), and having a job or some way of not having to bum money off of her. as long as its my money im spending on buds she doesnt interfere, she knows i smoke and theres a fan in my window. it works out pretty well, its amazing how things change, a year ago i coulda never imagined being allowed to smoke, but then again, i had 2 parents then.

[Reefer Rogue]

as for point number 2, freedom, rebeling same diffrence... tell me where freedom has EVER came from, without rebeling....

Freedom of choice, one does not have to rebel to choose his favourite ice cream cone from the local vendor.

[Not An Addict]

Nobody knows everything, everybody knows something.

Touche.

[LittLeWinG]

Ah thanks for all the advice.

and btw, i dont like bing called a dumbass and an idiot.

And let me straighten some things out.

I have only been smoking weed maybe.... once a month, and i hadnt smoked weed sine i last got caught. It was just bad fucking luck that my mum found my empty weed container in my bag... which i keep coz i have had it for a long time, sentimental value, you know.

The thing im upset with is that im being ridiculously restricted when really, i havnt been doing 'anything' wrong except for smoking a joint at a party everyonce in a while. Which, i actually havnt been doing.

and also for dad suddenly deciding im screwing up my life (which im not... im actually trying really hard to make something of myself)

Oh yeah, and i dont like being labeled a 'child' when in 4 months i will be an 'adult'. Doesn't make much sence to me, especially when the night mum found that box, dad tells me he he understands and that im not a kid anymore and he respects the decisions i make because apparently im pretty mature for my age. Personally i find this to be fucked up considering 24 hours later i get treated like a 13 year old who isnt old enough to make his own decisions.

I love my parents, and always will, but what they are doing is stupid.

Look, i'll leave it at this. Im a good person and i have very high morals. I just find this to be very degrading.

And btw, i hopeim not coming across as a whinging little teenager bitch, because im really not.

[CannabisCrooz]

his dad isn't the 'problem' his dad doesn't seem to give two squirts of piss :p


I am so fucking depressed about the whole ordeal, especially my dad turning from a cool understanding parent, who i can talk about anything too, to a total fucking nazi who thinks i have a massive drug problem.

erm

[stinkyattic]

this is roughly the 5th time ive been busted by my parents for this kind of thing.

This is going to sound harsh, but the 5th time?

Thank your parents... obviously you can't look after yourself. Imagine you being in the real world getting caught for the same thing 5 times... say hello to your new cellmate Max...

[geonagual]

You are not a criminal till you get caught. You just gotta learn to hide your shit better.

[Psycho4Bud]

Oh yeah, and i dont like being labeled a 'child' when in 4 months i will be an 'adult'.

So in 4 months your going to move out on your own, pay your own bills, etc.? There's alot more about becoming an adult than a birthdate. Not trying to be harsh with ya bro....just giving ya some advice. If I stay at a friend/ relatives house and I know that they aren't all good with the herb I either leave it at home or in my car just out of respect. I really think that's all your folks are looking for.

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[napolitana869]

maybe you could talk your parents into drug testing you if they'll still let you go out with your friends. You said you dont smoke very often so it wouldnt be a big change for you and you're parents might trust you more.

[slipknotpsycho]

erm

lol sorry i must've missed that part o.0

[Skink]

roll a fatty and spark it with with your Dad and explain how uptight your Mom is being...

[Jizzle Blizzle420]

Yes, another depressing littlewing story involving him being fucked over by doucheparentals.

Uhhh, about a month ago mum found weed and cigs in my bad, now lets say this is roughly the 5th time ive been busted by my parents for this kind of thing.

Mum went insane, dad said dont worry about it, its all cool.

Everything goes back to normal and im happy and sweet and whatever.

I go home on friday and mum goes through all my bags, and finds an empty cig deck and my weed container (with no weed in it)

Mum goes psycho, because i told her i was going to stop doing it lastime. Dad says dont worry about it, again.

I get grounded ( i go to boarding school) and mum says im not allowed to go out with my friends or leave the boarding house for a month or 2, which is fucking ridiculous.

So today i go for a drive with a friend, mum calls me and asks where i am.
i tell her im with my friend cruising. She goes insane once again and drives to my boarding school and tells the guy who runs it what ive been up too and shit.

The dude then tells mum that my friend has a reputation of doing drugs (whom my mum thinks is a really innocent nice kid, which he actually is..... hejsut smokes fucking weed).

Now my mum thinks im a total addict, and dad has no decided that im a total druggo, and thinks ive been smoking weed everyday with my friend.

So now, im not allowed to leave the boarding house AT ALL, not even go out after school and chill with friends. So im stuck in my 3 x 3 metre room untill i finish school, which is in about 6 months.

I am so fucking depressed about the whole ordeal, especially my dad turning from a cool understanding parent, who i can talk about anything too, to a total fucking nazi who thinks i have a massive drug problem.

Once again, im in a fucked up situation, but this time, things wont get better untill i finish school.... and then me and my friends will all go our seperate ways and we wont ALL be together for ages.

So im pretty fucked up.

I have 2 choices, do what my parents say and kill my social life and basically be locked up.

Or

Do my own thing, see my friends and actually balance my social life with school, but destroy my family relationship at the same time. and most likely be pulled out of this private boarding school and put into a derolyct public school

I dont know what to fucking do.... id be a lot happier with the 2nd option

Thanks if you read this, and i dont know if it made sence or not coz i wrote what ever came to my head.

Ciao

:( :( :( :(

Kill your whole family 666! no im just joking. just tuff it out dude. eventually they will just get used to it. once your 18 its your deal. I doubt they will disown you for a plant. but then again i dont know them, so good luck!:thumbsup:

[Little Boy]

Lose your parents. If you can't work with them, and they won't be understanding, then they lose you. That's what they deserve. It's their responsibility to come around, not yours.

yeah ditching the rents isn't good. they can help u later in life.

[thcbongman]

lmfao yeah call me a dumbass, try to "win" against me, man am i getting sick of it!
i come here to chill and share my views and relax and you arent even willing to be tolerent enough to accept them. instead you disagree and want to prove your damn point over mine, all the time, because you know im always going to be the one who is "wrong" because of my age right? f that man its ridiculous!
just shut up and dont talk to me if your going to be mean, i dont want to hear it and i dont need it. if i want to get myself in a head-on social situation ill hang out with my friends, here im content to relax and talk.


for the record, i dont know shit. i know absolutely nothing and i accept that. im human and its our fate to know nothing unless we really strive for it. im trying so chill the fuck out. what i was saying is i have seen adults who think they know the answers to everything because of their age and i know it doesnt work that way. im sure we all know that, though..
is it really such a bad thing that i believe in an individual being the one most fit to make his decisions?

you know, im just going to ignore this topic. i didnt come here to feel uneasy and unwelcome, and thats all this is doing for me. farewell, thread!

My god you are sensitive. EVERYONE realizes when they're older how much of a dumbass they were when they were younger. I thought I was the fucking shit at 18. Turns out I wasn't lol!

[slipknotpsycho]

meh it's worked out, let it die...