Question

[marvelous22]

Okay ive been tryin to get with this girl who just broke up with her boyfriend. They went out for 11 months. How long do you think i should wait before i start moving in for the kill? She is pretty depressed over it.

[napolitana869]

a month minimum if you want a relationship, and I still think that might be a little soon for such a long relationship. She might not be open to one for 3 or 4 months. You just have to judge it by her behavior. If you want rebound sex than you'll just have to judge the situation by yourself. It also can make a big difference for recovery time depending on who dumped who.

[rebgirl420]

^^there is no definitive date. Just go with the flow.

[lagstronaut]

I'm in the EXACT EXACT EXACT same situation. I've been sweet talking her a bit lately, about 1 months after their breakup, and I can see in her eyes completely that she's beginning to think about me more. Just wait it out man, let her know you like her but you want to give her all the space and all the time in the world before she's willing to accept someone back into her heart again. That's what I did and I feel I am practically on the doorstep now - just gotta find the key. It's simple :)

[BabyFacedAbortion]

It took me over a year to get over a 6 month relationship.

give her time, and space..but don't let her forget that you're there.

don't get stuck as the dreaded "rebound guy" though..I had one of those before I got with my current guy and trust me..we ALL have had one..

[friendowl]

if you want her to love you it aint goint to happen
she need sto hurt fools in order to feel better
dont be stupid and let her abuse you

she will fuck you though
like tonight if you got game