Screwed and need some advice!!!!

[thavortex]

so i went to my therapist today and my dad was in there and both of them know i smoke weed and the first thing my therapist asks me is so why did u fail your drug test and do you smoke regularly(my dad gives me random drug tests and if i fail them i get grounded for 30days)so i was like cause i smoked and i dont smok regularly(i lied i toke up like everyday:smokin: )so my dad said the next thing that happens if i fail another test this year is that i lose my job which is where i get all my money for green and stuff and i might have to go to 28day inpatient or something wat should i do? my dad doesnt like that i smoke and is a jackass but my mom is cool and actually got me into smoking should i quit for a little while move wit my mom or just keep smoking and hope to god that i dont get caught doing it???
any advice would be helpful thanks....


-ThA VoRtEx

[LegalizeTheGreen]

it is not worth it if you are going to get shitstompped like you say you will. You say you can stop smoking until you move in with your mom, right? do it! there are no negative aspects to that, while if you smoke now and get caught, you will be in deep shit. imho weed isnt worth the shit it seems to be bringing you currently, just wait until you dont have to worry.

[Left]

yes, quit.




apple juice doesnt taste as good when you drink it fast, lett the flavor of the apples hit your tongue

and quitters never win, and winners never quit.

[MisterGreen]

well you could stay clean for a while then start toking up again or move in with your mom. whatever you want to do man :thumbsup:

[Abunai]

ya a break is always nice, do watchu gotta do n keep the drama as low as possible =)!!

[Solosan]

fuck breaking; move.

[LIP]

Move - and leave your dad to think about what he's done.

[thavortex]

yea i talked to my mom today she said she is gonna stay wit my aunt for a while but when she gets her own place in a few months i can move in wit her and she said she will try and make it so i can go to the same school so its all cool :)

[Storm Crow]

You have a job. You have a cool Mom and an idiot father. Tell Mom you will give her half your pay so she can find an apartment. Move! - Granny:hippy:

[RyanTheCaveman]

yes, quit.




apple juice doesnt taste as good when you drink it fast, lett the flavor of the apples hit your tongue
and quitters never win, and winners never quit.

lol what the fuck? that is so random...haha

[likemclever]

Look man take it easy on your dad. At least he sounds like he cares and has his shit together.

Your mom sounds way more fucked up. One because she got you into to smoking in the first place. Which might be cool if you were 25 but youâ??re clearly a minor. And any parent who smokes their minor child out is nuts IMO.

Second of all sheâ??s living whit your aunt that gives me more reason to think maybe she hasnâ??t got her shit together.

Your Dad is doing this because he cares about you. The least you could do is respect him for trying to be a good father. You have the rest of your life to smoke your brains out.

[thcbongman]

Wait, so your dad will make you quit your job???

Damn, the zealous parents these days.

[thavortex]

yea he was like if u fail anymore drug tests i will notify your work and tell them you are no longer allowed to work or you will be sent to a 28day inpatient i was like fuck no and my work doesnt care that i smoke cause all my managers call me twisted boy lolol

[LittLeWinG]

Quit for a while.

How old are you...?

[thavortex]

16 and will turn 17 this december

[thcbongman]

yea he was like if u fail anymore drug tests i will notify your work and tell them you are no longer allowed to work or you will be sent to a 28day inpatient i was like fuck no and my work doesnt care that i smoke cause all my managers call me twisted boy lolol

Are you doing well in school?

If so, what exactly is the problem?

[thavortex]

nah i do pretty well in school cause im in all ap and gt classes and i have a 2.71 cumalative gpa for high schoolbut last year i ditched class and left grounds to blaze and some kid that was with us got caught and snitched so my parents found out i smoked and they started testing me it fucking sucked

[slpntrx5]

you should find somewhere you can get clean piss (some goody good at school who you can pay like 10 bucks) and just do that.

or just chill with it for awhile till you're 18, then light a joint, blow it in his face, and tell him to go fuck himself. :D

or you could just fail another drug test, get fired, and start selling weed to make your ca$h. and when he asks where you're getting all your money, just tell him you're stealing it from his wallet because he won't let you get a job :p

[likemclever]

If you start acting irrationally and disrespecting your father than that will give him all the more reason to think that what he is doing is right.

If you choose to handle things like an adult i.e. not skipping school, and not being disrespectful than maybe he will trust you to make smart decisions.

[kaj621]

do not move.. ur dads only doing it because he obviously cares about u.. dont let smoking effect ur relationships.. if u dont want to quit.. just confront him and tell him how u feel

[slipknotpsycho]

do not move.. ur dads only doing it because he obviously cares about u.. dont let smoking effect ur relationships.. if u dont want to quit.. just confront him and tell him how u feel

ROFL... like that's gonna work... what kinda dreamworld are you living in?

the man is threatening to sabatoge his job and send him to a drug rehab center if he doesn't quit. he may be doing it cuz he thinks it's for the best, but he's also blinded by stupid ass propoganda... so he's in no place to make a decision whether it's good or bad....

either he's an idiot for trying to make decisions of which he has no idea of the truth, or he's an asshole on a power trip that just doesn't care.

oh btw, i'm all for a parent saying no, when they know the truth of things, or discouraging it's use.... but you don't fuck with someone's job...

[kaj621]

ROFL... like that's gonna work... what kinda dreamworld are you living in?

the man is threatening to sabatoge his job and send him to a drug rehab center if he doesn't quit. he may be doing it cuz he thinks it's for the best, but he's also blinded by stupid ass propoganda... so he's in no place to make a decision whether it's good or bad....

either he's an idiot for trying to make decisions of which he has no idea of the truth, or he's an asshole on a power trip that just doesn't care.

oh btw, i'm all for a parent saying no, when they know the truth of things, or discouraging it's use.... but you don't fuck with someone's job...

don't try to tell someone whose gone to rehab for 7months especially if they have asian parents..(asian parents are very strict).. even after that i got tested every weekend and everytime i failed, i would make excuses and that only made things worse for the next time i got caught.. the day i finally confronted my parents was when they started to become less strict.. obviously they still dont want me to blaze but they now know that its just a recreational thing that i do and im not ruining my life over this.. in the past, they always thought i was addicted and thought i was going to turn out to be a bum..............they'll never know your situation if you never tell them

[thavortex]

i already tried that with my dad but he went to a goody goody catholic school all the way till college and he never blazed and he was like the last time i checked it was illegal so that plan is down the drain but wit my mom its cool cause i blazed wit her b4 and she was the one that was like if u gonna try it i wanna be there to supervise so she did some bong rips lolol anyways im gonna stop for a little while but while i do stop im gonna load up on a couple different kinds of dank from my uncle:baggy:

[420marijuana420]

fuck that move out, and threatan your dad with it now telling him you're going to just smoke green when you move in with your mom, so he can either let you do it or let you leave.

[rebgirl420]

Well if your mom does smoke or is cool with it why don't you get her to talk it over with him?