How to sexually dominate a man.....

[beautiful disaster]

My man likes a woman to tell him or show him exactly what she wants.... in a sense, he likes it when I am aggressive with him.

I'm all for it..... but I was wondering if you guys could give me ideas of something sexy to do that would really shock him... He's not into heavy domination (no whips...no pain.....) ... He just likes it when I want sex and I go for it. He says he likes to feel "wanted".

So... I'm going out tonight with him..... Any ideas I can do to surprise him.... say to him..... to really turn him on?

Oh... and I know there are obvious things I can do..... but what do guys find extremely sexy that sexually confident women do?

Thanks everyone! :)

[purplehazea]

Talk a lil bit nasty bout how u gonna screw him till he screams and stuffs like that lol.

[Trip06]

agreed. Dirty talk and mac'n=hot fucking.

[invision]

steak and a BJ?

[LIP]

I used to like it when my lovely ex wife to be would tell me everything she was going to do to me - then i'd surprise her and give her all the attention - i got off of her being happy. Ok, i went a bit of subject there, sorry.

[potsmokingnome]

where are you going out with him tonight first of all?

Wear a dress and don't wear any panties, and let him know about it, thats allways a turn on!

[copelandia]

Find out what fantasy image lights his fire; nurse, waitress, maid, cheerleader and play a little dress up. Then show him how much you want him as well;)

[Jim Morrison]

where are you going out with him tonight first of all?

Wear a dress and don't wear any panties, and let him know about it, thats allways a turn on!


definitely do that but also wear hi heels and at the restaurant if its one of those fancy ones with the table cloth that goes down to the floor take your foot out of the shoe and rub his cock a little bit with your toe get him hard then pull it away and say "just you wait for desert" it will give him blue balls but drive him insane

[geonagual]

Lock him up in the closet, demand him not to touch himself and tell him you will be back later...then go out and pick up another chick, come back and have a nice menage a trois...That could be interesting:thumbsup:

or for the more mellow nonchalant way..

How bout you...
oh of course..
You could always tie his ass to the bed and then beat him with a baseball bat...wait a minute...that would be assault.

or..
no really I got one

Wear all black..
Put your hair in the tight ponytail and wear a business suit. You drive, you pay for dinner...he can only speak when spoken too. You tell him what your gonna do to him...he cant touch you unless you allow him. Then you cum back and ride him till you have gotten off. Then he can go ahead and cum.:p

[evertking]

a 5th of crown

[Darth Vapor]

My ex-girlfriend was actually a real dominatrix. Just for fun, she gave me a real session, one night. I was bored, pretty much the whole time. Then I took over, and banged her like an old radiator. She loved it, cuz I was the only guy she ever dated, that wasn't afraid to be the aggressor. I'm just naturally a dominator in bed.

[BlAzInIt4:20]

id say strip tease, after dinner go home have him relax in the living room, go get some drinks come back naked and with whip cream on certain spots and give him a strip tease, dont let him touch you and when he does slap him.. fondle him then leave the room and tell him you will be right back giving him a wink, let him come find you.. then it is on.. hope you have fun tonight. i know my response is probably to late

[Dutch Pimp]

...I was always fond of "midnight rendezvous"....

[yoda]

ride him while smoking a blunt together :thumbsup:

[cannabis=freedom]

ride him while smoking a blunt together :thumbsup:

That's my ultimate fantasy, man.

[Hardcore Newbie]

I'm usually the aggressor (and i always do shit like this), but one time my ex took me to her place, and as soon as the door was closed she shoved me into it (like really hard because I'm a pretty strong) she grabbed a fist full iof hair and used the other hand to grab my belt to undo it, while she was making out with me. I let her lead the way the whole time, probably the quickest hard on I'd ever gotten hahaha.

oh and I jsut read the date of the initial post.... i'm a few months late it seems :P