okay another girl friend

[Eazy]

okay im seeing this new girl and well she says to me she is a virgin and i was like, oh okay (very highly sexed) then she gets upset over her ex stiring shit and tells me seh was raped 2 years ago when she was 14,

advice n opinions plz ppl

[Matt the Funk]

Uhh....what are you looking for? Haha. I know probably 3 or 4 chicks who were raped...none of them went to court. I wouldn't bring it up unless they seem open about it.

[Samwhore]

DO NOT ASK HER ABOUT IT! OMG, you could make things so much worse by her crying remembering that experience. Don't force her to have sex and when she is able to trust you and men again (if she really did get raped) she will have sex with you. Just be supportive and one day when she is ready she will tell you. Her ex could just be jealous.

[Eazy]

shes open about it and i kno 2many just, i dunno how to go abotu it as i aint gone out with any before i mean and as dat was her only previous sex i dunno

like lol
ermmm
hard 2 say
basicaly when we do start 2 go further erm any advice cos i dnt want her 2 like be upset

[Samwhore]

Just let it wait.

[Matt the Funk]

Yeah, best to let it wait...I wouldn't rush into shit.

[higher4hockey]

you want my advice? find a different girl.

[JOINTMASTER5]

different girl, let pot be your wife for now on, stay away from the right hand and god's going to give u some FLYYYYYYYYY honeys, trust

[napolitana869]

let her lead the way for anything sexual you guys do.

[thcbongman]

you want my advice? find a different girl.

Amen.

[thecreator]

Yea man wait it out. Its one of those things that takes time and trust. I respect you alot for dealing with that. I know some ppl would of hit the hills but it takes a real man to deal with the things that are in front of him. Oh and thats not my opinion thats the truth.

[DryGuy420]

Got a problem on your hands here buddy. She says she was raped huh? Well 99% of women you ask have some strange incident in the past which they will say is a rape/molested/fondled/ect,ect. when it probably wasnt and they say it for the attention. Trust me if she didnt go to the cops it wasnt a true rape. A girl spread eagle on the bed saying no isnt a rape situation,as long as she is concious that is. These girls who will offer the infomation especially at the start of a new relationship,are attention seekers. Be very careful with this one as she may find that the attention she gets from telling the cops whatever bullshit story she can concoct in her brain,is better than the attention she gets from from you and next thing you know you are the one getting fucked.

[Eazy]

hey thanks, and as for a new girl, she kinda knows my history and said

" i expect u will chat girls up and that cos ur a flirt"

the bullshit was coming

"but i aitngunna hype cos as long as u come bk to me im happy"

i dont trust her and value my balls to much

cheating is hard work

but yer guys im gunna stick it out
then go amsterdam when she's at work all weekend
brothel
and back lol

[napolitana869]

Got a problem on your hands here buddy. She says she was raped huh? Well 99% of women you ask have some strange incident in the past which they will say is a rape/molested/fondled/ect,ect. when it probably wasnt and they say it for the attention. Trust me if she didnt go to the cops it wasnt a true rape. A girl spread eagle on the bed saying no isnt a rape situation,as long as she is concious that is. These girls who will offer the infomation especially at the start of a new relationship,are attention seekers. Be very careful with this one as she may find that the attention she gets from telling the cops whatever bullshit story she can concoct in her brain,is better than the attention she gets from from you and next thing you know you are the one getting fucked.

Thats just bull shit on so many levels that I cant even come up with the words to convey how angry you just made me.

[napolitana869]

ok, I've calmed down from my previous anger and realized that maybe you had those ideas about victimized women because no one ever told you otherwise. Most rape victims don't report it to the police for reasons such as their ashamed, they think its their fault, or they're scared for their safety (its not uncommon for a rapist to threaten to kill their victim if they go to the police or tell anyone). The number of women who are victimized is something like 1 in 3 or 1 in 5. Although I've never been the victim of sexual assault, I'm pretty sure there are several members here who have been. You need to watch what you say about subjects like this. I really hope you were just ignorant of the facts before, and aren't too stupid now to realize the error of views.

Also women aren't the only victims. Men are also raped, they're just less likely to report it.

[kingjustin]

ok, I've calmed down from my previous anger and realized that maybe you had those ideas about victimized women because no one ever told you otherwise. Most rape victims don't report it to the police for reasons such as their ashamed, they think its their fault, or they're scared for their safety (its not uncommon for a rapist to threaten to kill their victim if they go to the police or tell anyone). The number of women who are victimized is something like 1 in 3 or 1 in 5. Although I've never been the victim of sexual assault, I'm pretty sure there are several members here who have been. You need to watch what you say about subjects like this. I really hope you were just ignorant of the facts before, and aren't too stupid now to realize the error of views.

Also women aren't the only victims. Men are also raped, they're just less likely to report it.

Seriously. Would you want to tell anyone if that shit happened to you?
On the other hand, I know a girl who got drunk and slept with a guy and then when he wouldn't call her back she told some people that he raped her. So it works both ways- just use discretion.

[Matt the Funk]

Also women aren't the only victims. Men are also raped, they're just less likely to report it.
Or more likely to kill the person minutes later....

[napolitana869]

Oh I'm not saying that men are never falsely accused of rape. Anyone who would do something like that has other problems though. False accusations ruin peoples lives.

[birdgirl73]

Got a problem on your hands here buddy. She says she was raped huh? Well 99% of women you ask have some strange incident in the past which they will say is a rape/molested/fondled/ect,ect. when it probably wasnt and they say it for the attention. Trust me if she didnt go to the cops it wasnt a true rape. A girl spread eagle on the bed saying no isnt a rape situation,as long as she is concious that is. These girls who will offer the infomation especially at the start of a new relationship,are attention seekers. Be very careful with this one as she may find that the attention she gets from telling the cops whatever bullshit story she can concoct in her brain,is better than the attention she gets from from you and next thing you know you are the one getting fucked.
You are the least informed individual who has posted on here for a long time. You need to think hard before you write further claims of this type. And do a little research on your facts. Napolitana did a good job of straightening out some of your misinformation very patiently. I invite you to get some sensitivity training and also volunteer sometime in rape crisis center. You'll have your eyes opened. Possibly your mind and your heart as well.

[Eazy]

ahh thank u all

[crudemood]

let her lead the way for anything sexual you guys do.

yeah i think thats the way to go.

[Eazy]

hmm aint spoke to her in like a week she being gey but lol i personaly dont care cos i mean a week outa ya life aint nuffin is it but 2 young ppl its the world,

[Nightcrewman]

Got a problem on your hands here buddy. She says she was raped huh? Well 99% of women you ask have some strange incident in the past which they will say is a rape/molested/fondled/ect,ect. when it probably wasnt and they say it for the attention. Trust me if she didnt go to the cops it wasnt a true rape. A girl spread eagle on the bed saying no isnt a rape situation,as long as she is concious that is. These girls who will offer the infomation especially at the start of a new relationship,are attention seekers. Be very careful with this one as she may find that the attention she gets from telling the cops whatever bullshit story she can concoct in her brain,is better than the attention she gets from from you and next thing you know you are the one getting fucked.

"Trust me if she didnt go to the cops it wasnt a true rape."


What can i say other than you are a total dickhead, lets hope some day a bunch of big hairy mean bastards take you right up the ass against your will then we'll see if its proper rape

[Eazy]

hmmm i f a guy raped me i wuldnt go cops, id buy a gun

okay loemme get a poll