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DR_CANNABIS
04-07-2007, 07:50 PM
ok a while back their was this girl that was my best friend but every once in a while we would have what i like to call "beneficial sessions". me and her wouldve definately been dating if she didnt have a boyfriend, i know i was messing with somthing thats not mine. but we stopped fooling around a while ago, shes still with the same guy, but my little bro who is 15, one year younger then me started hanging around us. and now every time we hang around he would tell me how hot she is and what not. i told him not to attempt anything with her, that would be a huge insult, and he assures me he wont.
a couple days ago she informed me that he has repeadedly tried to get alone with her to talk to her about him and her... that didnt only enrage me, it hurt me too. my little brother has gone behind my back after i specificly told him not to, and he knows the history between me and her. she claims to show no interest back, and at this point ill leave that alone. what should i do?

Yr0c
04-07-2007, 07:58 PM
Beat up your bro...?

DR_CANNABIS
04-07-2007, 08:01 PM
that was my first thought, but she told me not to tell him i know.... i told her that i will somehow "find out" then i think kicking the shit out of him would be appropriate

deftdrummer
04-07-2007, 08:09 PM
...Beat up your bro...?

Gatekeeper777
04-07-2007, 08:12 PM
hmmm.. if you love her then let her know.... till then she is fair game.... even to your bro.

EmoRebellion
04-07-2007, 08:14 PM
How about you kick his ass and tell him it was for something else. You dont really have a chance at losing this girl to him right? So, let things continue on this way for a little while. Then in a couple weeks, "find out" that he has been hitting on her, and beat his ass again. Now you got to kick his ass twice for the same thing. Its kinda like a 2-for-1 deal at Del Taco. :jointsmile:

deftdrummer
04-07-2007, 08:19 PM
hahaha

Xhoshi
04-07-2007, 08:59 PM
How about you kick his ass and tell him it was for something else. You dont really have a chance at losing this girl to him right? So, let things continue on this way for a little while. Then in a couple weeks, "find out" that he has been hitting on her, and beat his ass again. Now you got to kick his ass twice for the same thing. Its kinda like a 2-for-1 deal at Del Taco. :jointsmile:

good thinking...lol, 2 for 1 deal.
its ur lil bro...this is probably the easiest way to teach them.

Reefer Rogue
04-07-2007, 09:21 PM
Poo on his bed.

DR_CANNABIS
04-07-2007, 09:24 PM
well this girl sais her feelings for me have faded but are still their, and I feel the same way. but shes still my best friend and easily the most important women in my life, and i don't want an asshole like my little brother having anything to do with her... he went behind my back... and he only cares about one thing when it comes to girls

xcrispi
04-07-2007, 09:33 PM
Bros. before Hoes !!!
Peace
Crispi :jointsmile:

DR_CANNABIS
04-07-2007, 09:35 PM
no, my bro betraid me... and shes not just a hoe, shes my my best friend....

xcrispi
04-07-2007, 09:41 PM
no, my bro betraid me... and shes not just a hoe, shes my my best friend....

Wasn't meant to be offensive bro.
Bloods thicker than water .
Peace
Crispi :jointsmile:

Psycho4Bud
04-07-2007, 09:44 PM
Bros. before Hoes !!!
Peace
Crispi :jointsmile:

Women come and women go but brothers are brothers for life. Have one of those "brotherly" sessions with him but at 15 he's young and dumb with his pecker controlling his head.

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

slipknotpsycho
04-07-2007, 10:12 PM
personally, i think it's stupid you're getting mad that your bro is 'going behind your back' to sleep with someone you slept with while she was dating someone else... that's like the mother of all hypocritical statements....

smoke it
04-07-2007, 10:26 PM
Bros. before Hoes !!!
Peace
Crispi :jointsmile:

yup. bros before hoes. beat his ass with a belt.

OniEhtRedrum781
04-07-2007, 11:07 PM
Didn't your mom ever teach you guys to share?

On a more serious note, i'd fuckin' kick his ass if I were you...

Samwhore
04-07-2007, 11:28 PM
He's 15 and wants to be a pimp. It's not a big deal, that kind of thing should be expected.

Frivolous248
04-07-2007, 11:38 PM
personally, i think it's stupid you're getting mad that your bro is 'going behind your back' to sleep with someone you slept with while she was dating someone else... that's like the mother of all hypocritical statements....

Word.

PluralPurestrain
04-08-2007, 12:02 AM
hi, i think you just need to chill out man..

these things happen, all the time...
the older you get, the more you get aware of it, after all were only animals :)

i just cant understand your reasoning, i mean, its ok for some unknown douschebag to pound her snizz but your brother is off limits?

ill just say this once...: Bro's Before Hoes!
you would do well to remember that

bakedpotato
04-08-2007, 12:10 AM
Get him a pro.

Serious. The only reason he is hitting her up is BECAUSE he knows your history with her. He prolly figures if she is willing to cheat with you then he stands a decent shot at hitting that shit as well. Get him a hooker to pop his cherry and get that shit out of his system. One that will rock his world, ya know?

SERIOUSLY though - he's thinking with his dick. It sounds like your friend isn't taking him serious if she tells you about it. Let her handle it. Remember what it was like for you at 15?

bakedpotato
04-08-2007, 12:18 AM
On the other hand - sounds like you its not over for YOU. Sounds like you FEEL something for her. Sounds like you are taking it personal because you still WANT her.

Get over it. Don't beat on your brother because of your own feelings for the girl. I mean - you (by cheating with her) provided the example that your brother is acting on.

I tell the truth as I see it. No offense intended.

AsianStoner420
04-08-2007, 12:28 AM
ok,.. this is wat i saw,...the girl have a boyfriend ryt? u already gone with sum1s back,... so if u beat ur brother dont you think if she knew sumthing bout it shes not gonna get pissed or sumthin?then shell leave u both,.. i think the best thing is just tell ur lil bro to fuck off,...but dude he's 15 and i know that u know that ur brother aint getting anything before u do so goodluck man,..fuck im seeing stars ryt now,..

budsmoker only
04-08-2007, 12:31 AM
didnt you say that gurl still has a boyfriend??? if thats the case then it shouldnt matter ne way....
but id say just talk to your bro and ask him if he is staying away from her and shit and try to catch him lying..

orangeman
04-08-2007, 12:56 AM
You went behind some one else's back knowing what was going on and now it's happening to you. Karma's a bitch huh lol?

flyinhigh420
04-08-2007, 01:01 AM
hang in there and soc your bro for me( real hard) elbow him in the face like gsp is gonna do to serra tonight and it would do your bro good to learn bros before hoes( a girl you probly love I'm assuming) but hang in there and tell her how u feel if she dosent come around let her do her thing for awhile and she will come back to you

slipknotpsycho
04-08-2007, 02:23 AM
lol @ everyone telling him to beat his brother..

his brother is doing pretty much the exact same as he himself did... so if he needs to hit his brother or beat his brother, he also needs to hit/beat himself...

styrofoam boots
04-08-2007, 06:29 AM
sucks man :stoned:

jaGerbom
04-08-2007, 08:36 AM
lol @ everyone telling him to beat his brother..

his brother is doing pretty much the exact same as he himself did... so if he needs to hit his brother or beat his brother, he also needs to hit/beat himself...

i see what u mean but thats not completely right...i mean yeah getting with a girl that has a boyfriend is being shitty to that bf...but if ur getting with a girl that ur own BROTHER likes, or is fuck buddies or whatever u wanna call it, i think that is much shittier. not deserved imo.

anyways...beat his ass:thumbsup:

HERBZILLA88
04-08-2007, 08:54 AM
i ahve no idea what youre talking about

Gatekeeper777
04-08-2007, 01:43 PM
why do you care anyhow, its not like your goona marry her anyhow right?
I mean do you really care about a girl who will play around behind her BF back without his permission?
If you got with her are you under some illusion that it will be differant?
Granted his choice was poor, but he did the same shit you did.
You sound like she is great, tell her bf what she is doing then tell me she is great.
just another whore out to score. next time your so called fuck buddy comes over for some service, give her dirty sanchez .
thats the respect she deserves.

Oil_Man
04-09-2007, 03:07 AM
well this girl sais her feelings for me have faded but are still their, and I feel the same way. but shes still my best friend and easily the most important women in my life, and i don't want an asshole like my little brother having anything to do with her... he went behind my back... and he only cares about one thing when it comes to girls


man your lil bro sounds cooler than you to be honest... face it, an fix ur problem an then u can get her.. and fuck it ur bro is deadly who gives a shit about bitches just fuck em and leave em man there no good only for givin pearl neckalces

i thibk id like to chill n smoke a blunt wit ur lil bro, he knows what it is, as for u hahahahhahahhhahhahaha

westside


payce

slipknotpsycho
04-09-2007, 03:17 AM
alrighty then.... :wtf:

Pipe Dreams
04-09-2007, 04:54 AM
ok a while back their was this girl that was my best friend but every once in a while we would have what i like to call "beneficial sessions". me and her wouldve definately been dating if she didnt have a boyfriend, i know i was messing with somthing thats not mine. but we stopped fooling around a while ago, shes still with the same guy, but my little bro who is 15, one year younger then me started hanging around us. and now every time we hang around he would tell me how hot she is and what not. i told him not to attempt anything with her, that would be a huge insult, and he assures me he wont.
a couple days ago she informed me that he has repeadedly tried to get alone with her to talk to her about him and her... that didnt only enrage me, it hurt me too. my little brother has gone behind my back after i specificly told him not to, and he knows the history between me and her. she claims to show no interest back, and at this point ill leave that alone. what should i do?


Well, being as hes your brother, I assume he has a dick.

rebgirl420
04-09-2007, 05:16 AM
hmmm well....does anyone really think that this will matter in the grand scheme of things? Start worrying about important shit.

CUPNOODLES
04-09-2007, 05:31 AM
shes fair game...sure you told him not to but hey its your little bro hes not gonna listen to you....either way i still agree with most people....beat his little ass and say it was for something else then "find" out about him hitting on her and ta-da the infamous "2 for 1" deal

CUPNOODLES
04-09-2007, 05:32 AM
oh and i agree with pipe....he does have a dick....i assume...:wtf:

napolitana869
04-09-2007, 03:48 PM
I bet he's just doing it because you told him not to. Maybe mention to him that you're not the one he should be worried about if this girl has a boyfriend, who would have every right to beat him up.

Rowansraven
04-10-2007, 03:39 PM
That whole "bros before hoes" is a bunch of convenient crap, there are limits even for family. I do not however think she's worth the angst doesn't sound like a real winner ya know. If your going to beat your brother up for anything do it because he lied.

stinkyattic
04-10-2007, 03:46 PM
ok a while back their was this girl that was my best friend but every once in a while we would have what i like to call "beneficial sessions". me and her wouldve definately been dating if she didnt have a boyfriend, i know i was messing with somthing thats not mine. ?
Well there's your problem... your attitude.
1)... 'something that's not mine'... hmmm... property eh? yeeeeah.... girls LOVE when you think of them that way.
2) She was in a relationship. You were still fooling around. Neither of you was committed to each other... so where's the problem? Geez, if she liked you she'd have stopped seeing whosit there. And if you cared about much more than the sex you should have told her basically shit or get off the pot.

The brother issue is the least of your problems with women as far as I can see.
Whatever... she's a cheater anyway so why are you stressing?

JeenYuss
04-17-2007, 04:54 AM
ta b real wit u... if yr brother can get wit this girl, how many other dudes can? an if she aint yr girl why u trippin bout it? i got a similar situation minus the brother part (he wishes, looks but cant touch lol) my gf/fiance character was goin out wit my cuzin for like a month when we first started fuckin... she ended up leavin him for me ... the way i look at it shes fair game, but yr brother still needs to learn about boundaries and respect, usually me and my brother call which one we want when we hook up wit girls an jus respect the other whoever's girls/friends they are gets 1st pick, an if yr brother cant respect something you're planning on claiming, and he already knows, maybe u should just beat his ass he needs to learn about the respect level

but then again its up to the girl, dont hate the player hate the game

but he still needa respect that shit

TallulahGreen
04-17-2007, 06:05 PM
ok a while back their was this girl that was my best friend but every once in a while we would have what i like to call "beneficial sessions". me and her wouldve definately been dating if she didnt have a boyfriend, i know i was messing with somthing thats not mine. but we stopped fooling around a while ago, shes still with the same guy, but my little bro who is 15, one year younger then me started hanging around us. and now every time we hang around he would tell me how hot she is and what not. i told him not to attempt anything with her, that would be a huge insult, and he assures me he wont.
a couple days ago she informed me that he has repeadedly tried to get alone with her to talk to her about him and her... that didnt only enrage me, it hurt me too. my little brother has gone behind my back after i specificly told him not to, and he knows the history between me and her. she claims to show no interest back, and at this point ill leave that alone. what should i do?


Shit well if shes slutty enough to mess around with you while she has a boyfried, whose to say she wouldn't mess around with your bro too?

Sorry to put it so harshly, but I mean...if you like the girl and think you have somethin', then you shouldn't worry about her going for your brother..unless shes easy. Which sounds like that might be your worry.

Just treat her like the village bicycle and don't get too involved, those girls are trouble.

;)