I Need Girl Help!

[lardman]

Hey everyone,

I don't know if this is where this should be, but I think having it here will get the most responses.

I like my friend as more than a friend. I really really like her. Every time I think of her I get that feeling in my stomach, like I can't live with out her. Its a really amazing feeling, and its horrible at the same time. I hug her rarely and when I do Im nervous and when I want to hug her, and I don't, I feel fucking shitty as hell.

Well, she knows I like her, but doesn't know how much I like her. We write notes in class and talk all the time, and she asked who I liked and I said I can't say and she guessed that it was her...which is weird, because I wouldn't ask someone if they liked me if I didn't like them back.

She has a boyfriend that is from her church, he doesn't go to my school. Things have been kinda odd. I don't know if she likes me the same way or not. Sometimes I think she does, like on monday she was sitting right next to me at lunch and kept leaning on me everytime she laughed. And now today she was really close to my friend and she hugged him and kept being right next to him. I know she doesn't like him like that...I don't know if she was doing that on purpose or not.

I don't know what to do. Because I really like her and I don't want things to get fucked up...I ALWAYS SAY THAT! about a girl.....God damnit. Should I just not do anything, because i really want to. Should I just get some balls and do.....what...i dont know...

Usually I would just deal with it myself, and that usually ends up with me not doing anything, so I want some outsiders' perspective and opinion on it.

PLEASE HELP!

Thanks for listening to my pathetic story.

Peace
:)

[Andrew Nguyen]

She has a boyfriend...

[OniEhtRedrum781]

She could just be the laughy-flirty type, and believe me, those girls exist. I'd say play it cool and just watch from the sidelines for a bit. If things seem to progress then maybe you should consider making a move. But judging from where you are right now, I'd say play it cool and just observe quietly...

[budsmoker only]

like drew says, she does have a boyfriend so if your gonna do anything you might wanna wait til she doesnt have a boyfriend...
now pretend she doesnt, just talk to her and tell her how you feel... tell her that you really like her and that you think bout her a lot and that you would like to take things further but you dont wanna change your friendship or somethin... idk...

[thecreator]

Hell no man fight for her. I was in the same spot a little while ago and I found it best to be direct. Trust me you can work through anything till you fully know what you need to work through. Hmmm alls fair in love and war.......seems like her "BF" doesn't know that lol. Exploit his error and ride of into the sunset with your lady.:cool:

[420marijuana420]

Beat the boyfriend's ass, then she'll respect you. Girls love that. Also, you should kick small animals infront of her to look cool.

[thecreator]

Beat the boyfriend's ass, then she'll respect you. Girls love that. Also, you should kick small animals infront of her to look cool.

Key word being "Girl"! If she's about that shit then.......walk away.

[Breukelen advocaat]

Ask her to go to the movies, dinner or (best) both. If she accepts, get some cheap flowers to bring on your way to her place.

[ericwt]

Next time you are with her, lean over and slip your tongue in her ear... no don't do that!

I have no wise advice because girls as a rule are still a mystery for me.

Good luck to you.:thumbsup:

[420marijuana420]

Key word being "Girl"! If she's about that shit then.......walk away.

lol, I was just kidding about that. I'm pretty sure it wouldn't work.

[lardman]

Thanks guys. Well, now I have a few options to choose from...lol. Ill probablly just play it cool and if our relationship gets better than Ill do SOMETHING. Or I could be direct and tell her how I feel. Most likely the first. Which is what I don't want. Hmm....

Thanks for the help....any other help?

Peace :)

[MaryjaneAndHashley]

She could just be the laughy-flirty type, and believe me, those girls exist. I'd say play it cool and just watch from the sidelines for a bit. If things seem to progress then maybe you should consider making a move. But judging from where you are right now, I'd say play it cool and just observe quietly...

That's what I was gonna say, those girls that make it look like they love every guy.

Just wait a bit, plus she has a boyfriend.

[xblackdogx]

That's what I was gonna say, those girls that make it look like they love every guy.

Just wait a bit, plus she has a boyfriend.

i love you

[Diary of a Madman]

Dude.....nothing pathetic sounding at all. This makes you sound like a pretty normal human being.

you said the following
1) You like her
2) She KNOWS you like her
3) She has a boyfriend at her church.

At your age, boyfriend at church probably doesnt mean shit. Obviously, they arent allowed to bump and grind at church in front of their parents, and he is probably a douche bag, where as you are on a cannabis web site asking for advice on how to hook up with a girl, making you approximately 560% cooler than that asshole. Does he have a car/ bench press 350 lbs? Do you live in a small town or a big city? Where I live, people go to church all over the place, but might go to different schools from each other. FUCK THAT GUY.

Now you must know this. If she acknowledged you like her, she doesnt forget that. So when she flirts with your friend in front of you, she is trying to make you jealous because she likes you, or trying to give you the hint that you shouldnt get your hopes up. I dont know which, just thought Id throw that out there to confuse you more........

NOW......here is my actual advice.......at your age, you need to worry about your future, what you are going to do with your life, after highschool etc... so this girl being your friend is of absolutely no use to you. Yes, sorry to sound like an asshole everyone. She does you no good being your friend. Either you will find a path to follow (career, another girl who doesnt horse-shit you around) or she will (hooters, Stan Gable from the Alpha Beta fraternity at Lambda Lambda Lambda). Therefore, the only logical solution is to be the one hooking up with her. If she says yes, then she may be in your life beyond highschool. If she says no, then nothing changes really. You may think "oh no! now I have pushed us apart!" but thats not true. She already knows you like her anyways. She is probably dick teasing you with the whole friend thing. Its a matter of time before one of you does something with your lives, might as well be you asking HER whats up, or moving on with your life (16 yeer old teenagers, Tulsa welding academy). Why sit and watch what she does? You guys are 16, shit is changing fast.

Once you are 21 + you will think: "I wish I did better on my SAT when i was 16 instead of getting Mary Jane Rotten Crotch pregnant" anyways. Ask me how I know.

Am I totaly wrong here guys? Am I being a pessimistic dick by saying there is no santa claus????

That was the only way I used to feel alive....ask a girl out who will ream the fuck out of you.............it doesnt change anything........you are just that much stronger afterwards

[lardman]

Thanks a lot madman. That was a good post and it really helped me. If I don't do anything, nothing is going to change, and were just gonna be friends and then school is gonna end and Im not gonna see her anymore. So why not take a chance?

Thanks :)
Peace

[CheebaMan]

i think you should really let her know how youre feeling. Let her know that even though she already has a boyfriend shes a great girl and is very special to you:thumbsup:

[iAlwaYsfEelLikE]

tell her how you feel.....watch how quick she will shit on you....use you up like a roll of t.p.....

[Reefer Rogue]

Save yourself the embarresment and forget about her as more then a friend.

[Diary of a Madman]

:thumbsup:

no prob


Save yourself the embarresment and forget about her as more then a friend.

Yeah, that would be so embarassing to maybe get pussy! What is she gonna do, stop playing barbies with him? Unless she's your ride, who cares.

and DAMNIT, I erroniously named Alpha Beta as a member of Lambda Lambda Lambda, when everyone knows that they are BOTH fraternities at Adams College. CURSE YOU STAN GABLE!!!!!

[napolitana869]

Unless she's your ride, who cares.

I thought that part was really funny.

She knows you like her. You know she has a boyfriend. What do you think is the right thing to do?

[bong_man]

church girl ack lol

[Reefer Rogue]

:thumbsup:

no prob



Yeah, that would be so embarassing to maybe get pussy! What is she gonna do, stop playing barbies with him? Unless she's your ride, who cares.

and DAMNIT, I erroniously named Alpha Beta as a member of Lambda Lambda Lambda, when everyone knows that they are BOTH fraternities at Adams College. CURSE YOU STAN GABLE!!!!!

Firstly, this girl has a b/f, secondly, i find it obvious she will reject him and say she only likes him as a friend.

Disagree?

Test it out OP

[Diary of a Madman]

Firstly, this girl has a b/f, secondly, i find it obvious she will reject him and say she only likes him as a friend.

Disagree?

Test it out OP

Ok. Say you are right. Say there is a 10% of him not getting rejected. What does he have to lose? I personally do not talk to any of the girls I was friends with in highschool and I live in the same area still. My girlfriend would get pissed if I did anyways, lol. What, should he BE FRIENDS and go hang out with this girl and her boyfriend at the movie theater?

I am saying this. .......[toking....................coughing................ .....]

The odds may not be in your favor. So, if you really want her as a friend, a girl to talk to who will have boyfriends and who I guess you will hang out with and go Ice skating, then dont ask her. I just dont regret cutting ties with any girls I knew from back then. Of course, you could hang out with her and bone her friends........hmmmmmm......maybe you should think more on this one.

And church girls ARE crazy. I am divorced from a reverend's daughter.......(just gave her number to bill collector 10 minutes ago).
They usually either "whore it up" with everybody, or dick tease everybody and you will be like "I thought she only hugged me and called me pet names" etc.. Oh wait, my mom is one too........which category does she fall into? hmmmmm

I think you should take Jay's advice from Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.......
just whip it out. Good luck.

[lardman]

I think you should take Jay's advice from Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.......
just whip it out. Good luck.

Hahahaha, ya. thanks though, your advice is helping me think clearer and more to the point.

Well, today she seemed sort of jealous. There is this girl in my class, everyone calls her strawberry shortcake cuz shes got red hair. Well, me, SS, and the girl i like are in the same class together and we all hang out. So were were talking and I kept making SS laugh so much for some reason. She has this weird squeeking laugh. Well the girl I like kept looking at her and me weird. Then after she was done laughing I said something else and she started laughing again...that is when the girl I like said "that's hilarious" sarcasticly. Ya, after that at lunch she seemed to be next to me more. Or I might be halucinating.

Do you think she was jealous? Because she usually doesn't do that. Well, tomorrow is the last day of school before spring break! What to do!!!!!!! I told her she can straighten my (long) hair because she wanted to a lot.

I wonder what will happen.

Peace :D

[Reefer Rogue]

Ok. Say you are right. Say there is a 10% of him not getting rejected. What does he have to lose? I personally do not talk to any of the girls I was friends with in highschool and I live in the same area still. My girlfriend would get pissed if I did anyways, lol. What, should he BE FRIENDS and go hang out with this girl and her boyfriend at the movie theater?

I am saying this. .......[toking....................coughing................ .....]

The odds may not be in your favor. So, if you really want her as a friend, a girl to talk to who will have boyfriends and who I guess you will hang out with and go Ice skating, then dont ask her. I just dont regret cutting ties with any girls I knew from back then. Of course, you could hang out with her and bone her friends........hmmmmmm......maybe you should think more on this one.

And church girls ARE crazy. I am divorced from a reverend's daughter.......(just gave her number to bill collector 10 minutes ago).
They usually either "whore it up" with everybody, or dick tease everybody and you will be like "I thought she only hugged me and called me pet names" etc.. Oh wait, my mom is one too........which category does she fall into? hmmmmm

I think you should take Jay's advice from Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.......
just whip it out. Good luck.

All i'm saying is that he should forget about this girl as a love interest. It's not there. If he wants to keep her as a friend that's his business, i know i don't care about female friends who reject me. Harsh but true. Move on Lardman, find another girl is all i've been trying to say.

Okay, i guess it's not embarresing to get rejected for you. For some people it can be harder then others. Personally, i don't even care anymore, i used too, but not anymore. I really don't see the point of trying to get with a girl who has a boyfriend. That's immoral and seems macho-istic to me.

[jawndoe]

if she is the jealous type run away now with a quickness that's not a good chick... but I do bet that she is a slut. You should just use her as a rest stop for your penis.

[420purplehaze420]

DO NOT just come out and tell her you have such deep feelings for her, she will walk all over you, they see this as weakness for some reason, especially the hot ones, and if she had a bf and she continues to flirt with you think what she will do when (if) you date her, i know so many girls who are total flirts, i have friends that are girls who have kissed me infront of thier boyfriends, i dont know about most guys but that would not sit well with me if i was the bf, bottom line, shes probably not worth the heart ache and embarassment, so either ask her out, or move on

[PluralPurestrain]

dang man! sounds like she just might be a cock-a-tease..

what set of my alarm was that part about her asking you if you like her, then flirting with you, and then flirting wih your friend..

to me it looks like she loves the attention of you wanting her, maybe she thrives on the look of your jealous eyes as she hugs your friends in front of you

some girls are like that... sad but true

but on the other hand, maybe she just really likes you and just wanted to test you in order to get confirmation that there, in fact, are mutual feelings?

now that could also be the case..

now let me ask you this.. is she a looker?, like really really hot?
easy going and talkative?(attention whore that got you right where she wants: lost and confused. if she was interested you would know by now)

or more the shy, silent type? (then you need to go fetch, you just might have hit the jackpot)

these are dead giveaways... it could be anything in between so really, if you want to find out for sure, you need to serve it to her straight up

Good Luck

[Eazy]

you must do this freddy got fingerd style

get milllions

get stealth team gear

use glass cutter to get into church, set up sniper rifle, shoot him in the nuts with a 24 hour delayed poison

all the while quoting tom green


oh and where some hot pants


okay im baked