Smoking with your significant other?

[GreenLadyOfDankDowns]

How many of you are dating/seeing/married to other herb smokers? If so do you think it has had any effect on your relationship? Do you smoke together on a regular basis? Some people believe that smoking mj can have a negative effect on your sex drive. Do you find that to be true or false? If you are with someone who isn't a fellow toker, do they know that you partake? If not why did you decide to not tell them? Do you think it effects your relationship with them?

[rebgirl420]

I smoke with John. Hes a light weight though and he doesnt smoke with me as nearly as id like him too. And weed usually makes me hornier if anything. I think its a good bonding experience.

[MeGustaMota]

I smoke often with my girlfriend and I'll say this, it definitely does not have a negative effect on our sex drive.

[AussieGWRER]

My gf knows i smoke and is cool with it donset like smoking with me tho, i dont care cuz it means i have to shout her, but she dosnt want/like me to smoke everyday/every2nd day, just once a week or sumthing:wtf:
but fuck that try n stop me hahah:jointsmile: it deffently dosnt have an effect on our sex drive/life.

[yoda]

My gf knows i smoke and is cool with it donset like smoking with me tho, i dont care cuz it means i have to shout her, but she dosnt want/like me to smoke everyday/every2nd day, just once a week or sumthing:wtf:
but fuck that try n stop me hahah:jointsmile: it deffently dosnt have an effect on our sex drive/life.

:wtf:

my girlfriend knows i smoke. she doesnt really smoke herself, every once in a blue moon. she's ok with me, just wont let me kiss her until i've gotten something to drink cause she doesnt like the taste of bud in my mouth. it has no negative effect on my sex drive.

[pass_the_dubbie]

Weed makes me really nervous but then I cant stop loving, my girlfriend smokes with me but shes usually baked after a joint or two but its still fun and we have a laugh.

[stinkyattic]

Some people believe that smoking mj can have a negative effect on your sex drive. ?ROFLMAOPMFP

NO

hahaha
First off I met my man on the boards here. A typical morning at the pad with Stinky and the Yeag includes a J first thing when we wake up, a whole lotta commotion in the bedroom, another J, and THEN possibly coffee....and this is just before 10am.... don't even get me STARTED on what happens for the rest of the day. Yikes. It's probably a GOOD thing we don't get to see each other too often atm.

F'real you guys would not BELEIVE me if I told you.

If this is a decrease in sex drive, I'm skeerd. lol

[napolitana869]

I smoke with my boyfriend almost every night. The only negative impact it's had on our sex life is when we pass out before we can get upstairs

[invision]

me and my lady smoke all the time together, in fact i dont really smoke with anyone else besides her, we love toking with each other and seems it made us bond a bit more.

as for sex drive, my GF never had a orgasm with anyone before me, it was her personal hang up and she felt awkward about it, after she started smoking the herb she started having orgasms......really wierd, now she doesnt need the herb to have them.

a magical plant i tell you.

[VaporDaddy]

I ask my wife almost every time I vape if she wants to come, 97% of the time she says no. When she says yes we get high and fuck for hours.

[Andrew Nguyen]

Because of my EX girlfriend, I smoke way too much ganja.

[xcrispi]

Crispis' been married to his smoking soulmate for 16 or 17 yrs now ? And no weed does not affect his our sex drive , atleast not neg.
Peace
Crispi :jointsmile:

[beautiful disaster]

I just wrote this on another post....but I'll ask it here as well: Alcohol has always boosted my sex drive.... but so far, pot only makes me feel calm. I would LOVE to increase my sex drive with weed far more than drinking so much..... I'm relatively new at smoking... do you think I'm just not smoking enough? I probably only do about 5 hits maximum.

Any thoughts? :)

[mattmao]

nice post.i smoke from the moment i get up to the moment i fall asleep and that is done on a daily basis,and never without my wife! we both only know each other stoned,never been straight together.but were real close,with each other every day we work together.as for sex drive as a cant remember the last time i was straight i can only say its all good!:jointsmile:

[keeko]

still looking for my stoner chick:)

[Goddess of Green]

my boyfriend is one of very few people i can smoke with. its a great experience to do it with him, we don't do it together that often, maybe once or twice every two weeks, it certainly is as others say, a great bonding experience. And no, it hasnt affected our sex.

[kdspecial]

I smoke with my GF eveyday.. She smokes more than me, Somtimes I think Its a bit much. It's pretty rare but somtimes I don't wanna get high but if I don't she gets pissed... hahahahah SO I just get high... and then get nothing that I wanted to get done Done.... instead we bone or watch DVD's of 24///

Its all good tho I've always been a big smoker. She is the first GF I have dated that smoked. Before I didn't really like my GF to smoke dope because it was always a reason for me NOT TO SMOKE. and I kinda liked that.. But SEX drive:? hmmmmmm I don't think POT has anything to do with that...

kd

[stinkyattic]

Alcohol has always boosted my sex drive.... but so far, pot only makes me feel calm. I would LOVE to increase my sex drive with weed far more than drinking so much..... I'm relatively new at smoking... do you think I'm just not smoking enough? I probably only do about 5 hits maximum.

-Alcohol increases sex drive only while you are drunk; the rest of the time -like while your body is recovering from it- it's actually going to DECREASE your sex drive because it's a pretty strong depressant, and poisonous, lol... just humans aren't bright enough to know that we shouldn't drink fucking SOLVENTS... haha
-Try smoking different strains and see what effects they have on you. Not enough? I dunno... I had 2 WHOLE hits of hashplant last night and spent the next hour staring vacantly at my houseplants wishing my man were in town, BOO long distance relationships!!!

I'd seriously quit drinking for a few weeks to sorta clear out your system and then try experimenting with stoner sex! Good luck to ya!

[beautiful disaster]

-Alcohol increases sex drive only while you are drunk; the rest of the time -like while your body is recovering from it- it's actually going to DECREASE your sex drive because it's a pretty strong depressant, and poisonous, lol... just humans aren't bright enough to know that we shouldn't drink fucking SOLVENTS... haha
-Try smoking different strains and see what effects they have on you. Not enough? I dunno... I had 2 WHOLE hits of hashplant last night and spent the next hour staring vacantly at my houseplants wishing my man were in town, BOO long distance relationships!!!

I'd seriously quit drinking for a few weeks to sorta clear out your system and then try experimenting with stoner sex! Good luck to ya!


I think you are absolutely right. :)) I gave up all alcohol four days ago... and plan on staying far away from it for a while. I just have burned out on it.. and I want to be healthier and feel more things instead of forgeting everything! :)) Thanks so much for the advice! :)

[napolitana869]

Stinky beat me to it. Just do what she says. Try to smoke different types of weed. Some weed makes me sleepy, some makes me active, and some makes me want to jump my boyfriend and have sex all night long. You just have to find the right kind. Gook Luck. Keep looking, its worth it

[da dubs]

good question


yes we do smoke together,,jo is a black hole when it comes to passing the spliff,super lungs!!!!!
really enjoy smoking with her,think she enjoys it too.
as for sex drive,,yea it has affected mine,which is a real downer,only redemption is after being together so long now,we get up off our arses and,get down and dirty as often as we can,,that is when we can get some time away from kids!!

[vileoxidation]

My boy and I smoke together when we are in the same state. He is the only person that I smoke with, otherwise I toke alone, because I don't trust anyone else to be smart about their weed use.

I smoke more then he does when I am at school cause he is working so much, but when we are together we smoke the same amount. Since I first started smoking, except for the first two times, we've always shared bowls about evenly.

I don't think it negatively effects our relationship at all, except for when I end up smoking a shitload one stressful week and wind up with no money and he gets mad.

And our sex drive...I don't know. Our sex live is screwed up anyway cause we are apart so much so we fuck like rabbits when we are together.

[AsianStoner420]

fuck no,... based on my experience, smoking weed is the best Aphrodisiac coz it really makes this very heightend sense of things and it also heightens sexual desire,.... and honestly speaking i mustarbated out of it and got 3 nonstop orgasms when my girl is out of town,... sry for being so vulgar....

[stinkyattic]

Can I add that it's not all about the sex DRIVE, but about being more relaxed so that the sex is BETTER?
This may be totally TMI but honestly I cannot have an orgasm if I am stressed out, even though I still may be interested in sex, it' just ain't happenin' for me.

[dutch.lover]

I smoke with my boyfriend almost every night. The only negative impact it's had on our sex life is when we pass out before we can get upstairs

Ditto for me, except we smoke every night. The key is to get busy shortly after smoking, before the urge to crash hits you (ideally before the munchies start too) lol. Ooooh here's a thought...munchies combined with sex...intriguing combination:s3: :eat:

[1chronic]

Well seeing as my girlfriend doesn't want me to do it, no. I wish she was into it but she's not an probably never will be. But oh well.

[alphonso]

Both my girlfriend and I love to smoke, and so does her brother (my best friend).
It's always good times.

I've found it has never decreased my sex drive, but if we've been high for a while already and kinda tired out there's really no point. Sex high is great, and sex on shrooms with her was one of the best experiences I've ever had. It's also great not high. I really have no preference.

But definitely just being able to chill with my favorite person and get high is just an everyday bonus to life. So are the little adventures that follow. :smokin:

[ptl]

kdspecial and beautiful disaster ... try eating MJ instead, get a good tutorial thing on how to make butter and its alot stronger BUT it's more of a body stoned, i can function alot more (cant function better cause im SOOOOO BAKED!!!) but you don't get as much couch lock. So if you wanted to get down n dirty you wouldn't find that moving is such a hard task haha

Alphonso i thought u said "both my girlfriends" haha was going to say ur a lucky feck! haha

Been smoking with my gf about 2 years at this stage, I'd say if we split up we will still be smoking buddies :) She gained a new level of respect with me because of how well she handles her smoke. But it's impossible to quit when both love smoking, one could have great will power and really want to quit ... then the other says "feck it will we have a j" and were off again and vica versa she tries getting will power and i'd want to smoke haha

[cannabis campbell]

mine smokes more than me its embarrasing lol

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Me and my boyfriend smoke together now, he only recently started to smoke again (after over a year of not) and last weekend was the first time we got to smoke alone. We shared a few bowls and I have to say we had the most AMAZING sex, it was relaxed but wild. We just let go and did the things weve been dying to do. After that weekend our sex life has just improved and gotten more kinky within the past few days. I love it :)

Weed is great for the most part. Just about every guy I've dated has been a dealer so I'm not really sure what a relationship is like without it. The good parts of those relationships though usually included bud.

[VaporDaddy]

Me and my boyfriend smoke together now, he only recently started to smoke again (after over a year of not) and last weekend was the first time we got to smoke alone. We shared a few bowls and I have to say we had the most AMAZING sex, it was relaxed but wild. We just let go and did the things weve been dying to do. After that weekend our sex life has just improved and gotten more kinky within the past few days. I love it :)

Weed is great for the most part. Just about every guy I've dated has been a dealer so I'm not really sure what a relationship is like without it. The good parts of those relationships though usually included bud.

*panting* ummm am I the only one who wants DETAILS!?:jointsmile:

[not_the_kitty]

When I started dating my girlfriend she always told me to stop smoking, but then after I told her all the good funny times I had high she started smoking all the time with me...Now she freaks if we dont got it for a day or two.

[PlantBoxer]

My lady and I both wait for 6:00pm, it's when she gets home and sit and talk about our days, and either burn one, one hitters.
Just for myself, I tried to date one non stoner lady...it just sucked!! She didnt get it, pissy about the smell of ganja, pissy about...delete!!
I just dont do well with straight people.
Ganja for us as far as sex....it makes love lazy!! An eastern sex philosopy, makeing love lazy!!
You find so many spots on your ladies body that quicken her breath!!

[TallulahGreen]

How many of you are dating/seeing/married to other herb smokers? If so do you think it has had any effect on your relationship? Do you smoke together on a regular basis? Some people believe that smoking mj can have a negative effect on your sex drive. Do you find that to be true or false? If you are with someone who isn't a fellow toker, do they know that you partake? If not why did you decide to not tell them? Do you think it effects your relationship with them?

My excuse to hang out with my boyfriend before he was my boyfriend was to smoke his pot, cause he always had herb and I didn't. I love smoking bowls with him and talking for hours...it was awesome.

Then one day we just started making out and haven't stopped since. 2 years later here we are...smoking an oz a week. I feel that smoking pot has no effect on our sex drive, sure it makes me tired sometimes...but we still go at it like bunny rabbits.

A really good toker friend of mine got a new girlfriend though and straight up quit smoking weed all together because he felt it negatively affected his sex drive.

I don't get it ...hahah...

I love smoking pot with my boyfriend, I love doing most things with him though...smoking pot is just an added bonus.
<3

[markomon]

My other half doesn't smoke the tokie just the nasty tobacco. She is a greaat person in many ways but with cannabis she is a royal pain in the ass. I get really resentful that although I DO pay the fucking mortgage I'm still the scufflaw.

[Aeonboom]

Me and my girl (tokingirl) smoke daily from around the time we get up to the time we go to bed, and our sex life is amasing. she's a nymph what else can i say. :jumphappy: woohoo

random but btw....scientists have proven cheese when eaten by both partners heightens sexual desire more than chocolate...O.o try some cheese on toast with some weed sprinkled on before grilling. hehe

not that we need to eat much cheese *grin..mind wonders....ahem*....im gonna shaddap now.

[Tokingirl]

Me and my girl (tokingirl) smoke daily from around the time we get up to the time we go to bed, and our sex life is amasing. she's a nymph what else can i say. :jumphappy: woohoo

random but btw....scientists have proven cheese when eaten by both partners heightens sexual desire more than chocolate...O.o try some cheese on toast with some weed sprinkled on before grilling. hehe

not that we need to eat much cheese *grin..mind wonders....ahem*....im gonna shaddap now.

:s3: :s2: Time for bed!!!

[crudemood]

if anything weed really brings people together, discuss mind blowing ideas and understand each other more.. i think most potheads have this unsaid undersatnding and its great, we can come together like that :)

[Aeonboom]

hear here! =D

[420sir]

i used to with my 1st gf, my last one was all catholic nice girl n shit haha all against drugs... but she was a freak lol:thumbsup:

[zeebo phillips]

I probably wouldn't date a guy if they didn't smoke.
As harsh as that is, it'll just probably never happen.
:bonghit: